Why always a girl is termed wrong ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Kavita99

Well said. Post is the need of the day.

This post is my outbrust too 😭 very upset today

Originally posted by: hapc

Thank you! Thank you! I did try to argue in these thread too but being unmarried my words obviously had zero value and apparently every single married person can do all these otherwise they never loved their husband🤔

But today, I'm extremely annoyed. I might work myself up to tears. Not because of Pallu but because of the unnecessary expectation we have from people and if I may women. And if they don't fit into our criteria they are wrong. If anyone was in Pallu's place today, Keerthi, Mansi, Sulochana I would have still said the same things.

I am in tears already because itz not just the forum but the harsh reality of the world too. Not a single man is questioned for his actions never !

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

3 of them is fault that is writer who wrote them is at Fault or should I say The one Who obsessed with tadka is At Fault

Pallavi is getting mostly bcz of Her previous act which was Scrapped &for comparing Raghav/chef with Mandar (poor script👎🏼 viewers knows who is chef so comparison was unnecessary )

And that I'm happy with M or komolika type act just invited trouble ..

I'm not asking her to slap but she could have Express her little bit disappointment towards Mandar after Fire incident ,could have question him about Trust !

No comments over that saree scene ,shame on Writer for Writing such scene ,it's yuck ..

For Raghav what That Idiot is doing !😡

He came here to reduce her stress ,so at 1st place he need to inform her about his arrival

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Here writer need another round of Bashing for such cheap track/scene..

For Mandar I Don't know what CV wants to show.

doesn't they realise viewers r not happy with creepy act ?

was it really difficult to understand why Fans revolt or why TRP dropped by .01?

He is creep , psycho we got it Now Spare Viewers ..

Originally posted by: Sana_Jannat

3 of them is fault that is writer at Fault or should I say The one Who obsessed with tadka is At Fault

Pallavi is getting mostly bcz of Her previous act which was Scrapped &for comparing Raghav/chef with Mandar (poor script👎🏼)

And that I'm happy with M or komolika type act just invited trouble ..I'm not asking her to slap but she could have Express her little bit disappointment towards Mandar after Fire incident ,could have question him about Trust !

For Raghav what That Idiot is doing !😡

He came here to reduce her stress ,so at 1st place he need to inform her about that..

Here writer need another round of Bashing for such cheap track/scene..

For Mandar I Don't know what CV wants to show.

doesn't they realise viewers r not happy with creepy act ?

was it really difficult to understand why Fans revolt or why TRP dropped by .01?

He is creep , psycho we got it Now Spare Viewers ..

Arre that was before the creepy Scene .. she just wants Raghav to do something .. so called him idiot and called Swapnil worse than Mandar so that Raghav comes asap to D house ..

Originally posted by: MHRW99

Arre that was before the creepy Scene .. she just wants Raghav to do something .. so called him idiot and called Swapnil worse than Mandar so that Raghav comes asap to D house ..

I know that's why said Poor Script ..

writer shouldn't put that line , comparison wasn't needed specially before putting such 🤮scene .. viewers knows who is Swapnil ..

Dialogue /script writer need to recheck ..

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

This time pallu s really trapped. Poor girl doesn't deserve all this yaar. Poor thing s trying to protect her loved ones. Agree she had blind faith in mandar but that was so past.

Y s she being blamed for what happened today. She s victim here. N d irony she can't even call anna for help. No phone nothing she s really trapped in a golden cage. 😰😢😰

Poor girl my heart goes out for her.

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

This time pallu s really trapped. Poor girl doesn't deserve all this yaar. Poor thing s trying to protect her loved ones. Agree she had blind faith in mandar but that was so past.

Y s she being blamed for what happened today. She s victim here. N d irony she can't even call anna for help. No phone nothing she s really trapped in a golden cage. 😰😢😰

Poor girl my heart goes out for her.

Exactly... My heart goes for her totally

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

Will reply to just this. M is blamed for what he did and P for what she didn't. Both are blamed. Issue is P ones r picked to be a savior of the cause which doesn't exist. There is nothing wrong in saying to thrash the face of a person trying to molest u and blaming u for wt u could hv done.

It would be really nice if we can tell criminals to not do crimes and dey stop. But that dont happen, So we tell people to be prepared for eventuality and do whatever possible when u face it.

Originally posted by: hapc

Thank you! Thank you! I did try to argue in these thread too but being unmarried my words obviously had zero value and apparently every single married person can do all these otherwise they never loved their husband🤔

But today, I'm extremely annoyed. I might work myself up to tears. Not because of Pallu but because of the unnecessary expectation we have from people and if I may women. And if they don't fit into our criteria they are wrong. If anyone was in Pallu's place today, Keerthi, Mansi, Sulochana I would have still said the same things.

Take a deep breath and remember that the world exists of many women outside of this forum too, dear ❤️ We have women fighting for and standing up for other women on social media and in real life. Please don't let some close-minded people on this forum ruin your mood. Take care 🤗

@bold - Also, 100% agree with you. Till this day, even though I dislike Keerthi, I still feel empathetic for her considering the kaand that Sulochana did. If that happened to me, I would be hysterical and lose all the confidence I have probably. It would take years for me to build myself back up. It really shouldn't have happened. Same with the torture Pallu has to go through.

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

Will reply to just this. M is blamed for what he did and P for what she didn't. Both are blamed. Issue is P ones r picked to be a savior of the cause which doesn't exist. There is nothing wrong in saying to thrash the face of a person trying to molest u and blaming u for wt u could hv done.

It would be really nice if we can tell criminals to not do crimes and dey stop. But that dont happen, So we tell people to be prepared for eventuality and do whatever possible when u face it.

Telling people to take precautions is ok. Saying that people must trash their harasser is also ok. But if they fail it doesn't make them responsible. I agree crime will continue which is why we must keep calling them out. Many people in such situation do freeze irl. In fact everything that is being said on the forum could be immensely triggering for them. So judging someone's response to being assaulted or precautions is wrong. It is an issue and we are definitely not creating an issue which doesn't exist. I have read about rape trials where judges have excused the action of rapists for things like the clothes the woman was wearing or lack of precautions she took so I'm saying that such things definitely exist.

Edited: Not just precautions but they also question how hard they fought back, disregarding that the woman can freeze.