Have to agree with Toshu's monologue 🤷 - Page 3

Many things toshu said was true and shows writers too know that what they show r cringeworthy.

Vanraj Anupama expecting Kavya to choose pakhi's school dance over her job was stupid. Job is a necessity and pakhi is not kavya's daughter that she should be her priority.

Sacrifice is valued here that too for stupid reasons. Anupama's waking up at 4am and not keeping maid was utterly stupid and looked show off.

I don't like babuji since he kept anupama in same house as Kavya vanraj. It looks more like he kept her as ba and his care taker rather than helping anupama. I wished toshu would have said that too. Ba is always ready to slap everyone whether it's samdhan or bahu or grandchildren. She was always a bad MIL and a reason why vanraj was worst to Anupama.

Mamaji flirting with rakhi looks cringe because she is his daughter's age. And his jokes t actually annoying.

Whole house does look mad as everyone elder or younger just gathers and start arguing rather than choosing to go in room and avoid the conversation.

Kinjal being a single child with ambitious mother has spent her childhood alone and that's why she values relationships around her even though it's embarassing to live in house where two sautan r staying together. And first wife is cooking for everyone whether it's ex husband or his current wife.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Shah family ne kabhi toshu ko sath mai rehne ke liye force nahi kiya hai and alag rehne ke liye bhi mana nahi kiya hai. Decision was always in between toshu -kinjal only.

None of family member ever went behind toshu to convince him that do not leave house, stay here only .

So toshu's frustration should be limited to kinjal only because they were unable to shift to penthouse only because of kinjal.

Toshu ka drama faltu mai create kiya gaya hai just to show extreme condition of the family otherwise there is no point of any fight because nobody has ever stopped those 2 since long time now . Each and every member of the house has left decision on toshu and kinjal only.

I don't know you have seen those episodes or not but since long back everybody has convinced themselves that this decision should be taken by toshu and kinjal only so toshu's all the anger should be limited to kinjal only.

But Ms. writer wants to make extreme evil things in the show so faltu ka scene create kar k dikha diya.

Agar family jane se rok nahi rahi ho toh kaun karta hai aise scene create at first place?!!! yeh sab Ms. writer ki kripa hai lol.

One thing I found funny is how the shah family did pooja to the trophy!🤣Seriously?! I dont understand why the dance competition was made out to be such huge thing. Much ado about nothing! 😊

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Toshu is wrong to insult Living standard of shah family

Toshu is wrong to feel. Ashamed just because anupama Dont english. Apni rashtrabhasha hindi bolne mein kaisa embarasament. Aaj kul bank school har jagah english ke saath hindi mein form bharne ka option hota hai. To yeh toshu to bilkul bekaar ki baat karta hai ki english aani compulsory hai agar english nahin aati to woh person back ward hai such A wrong thinking by toshu

Toshu wrong to have objection on samar and anupama teaching dance class. Kyon samar and anupama dance hi seekha rahe koi chori to nahin kar rahe that u feel ashamed.??

Toshu want to live seperately he can live. Agar rakhi ne London America mein toshu ke naam property kar di hai to to to toshu sure jaaye and if he is happy to live in London, America and property given by rakhi he can surely live there aur agar toshu kabhi waapas nahin aana chahta shah family to nahin aaye

But he has no right to insult Living standard of shah family

I Dont feel right when he insult Living standard of shah family. This is so wrong

And two wrong does not make right

Baa vanraj subah galat hai but jo toshu jaise sabki middle class ki Living standard ki insult kar raha hai woh bhi sahi nahin hai

corrections mam,

hindi rashtra bhasha nhi declare hui h. abhi bhi rajya bhasha hi hai

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Not agreeing with Toshu as a person, cz he too lacks self-awareness.. He did make some comments that were plain unnecessary like threatening to hit Samar, repaying Vanraj, or calling Anu embarrassing.. But for the most part he wasn't wrong?

Kinjal is naive & doesn't realise what a normal family is. Her attachment issues blind her.

Ba is the biggest badtameez in the house. There is no reason for her to talk the way she does, while lecturing others about manners. She normalises that behaviour for everyone.

Mama ji is embarrassing AF. Even people with mental issues know how to behave better. Bapu ji is no less for lacking self awareness & giving teeli to Mama ji instead of guiding him to be better.

Mom & step-mom cohabiting is cringe AF. Any normal person would skirm at having to explain that to friends.

The whole family pouncing on Kavya made no sense. They had already had 4 major arguments in the last 24 hours. Everyone knows arguing with Kavya is talking to a wall. This conversation should have happened in Kavya-Vanraj's bedroom. Anu & Baa jumping in to spat did feel like they enjoy drama.

Toshu is right when he says this family enjoys sacrifice over success, makes it hard to love or even sleep, etc. He might be partially wrong, but he feels like the only normal person in the family right now.

A lot of things that toshu said were true. My favorite has to be the part when he put down Samar and Pakhi. Pakhi had to be called out for being the most selfish and self-centered person alive in the whole world. And two days ago Samar had no issues with calling Pakhi out and shouting at her but today he was fighting with Toshu for telling the truth. In the same way, Pakhi was at complete loggerheads with Nandini but today she was standing up for her.

The current living situation that the Sharma family is disgusting - I am sorry but that is the word for it. I get it when people get separated many times it happens that people move on and are friends with their exes but this is just ...... I mean just 3-4 months ago Anupama was in the same room in the same position that Kavya is now and it is all ok and hunky-dory. Are you kidding me?? It will just make you the butt of jokes of the entire group of friends - yes having such friends is much worse but you are giving the matter.

But the fact that Toshu is having this uproar on Rakhi's help makes it hollow for me. Had Toshu gotten a job on his own and decided to start a new life on his own merit I would be all with Toshu but kis mu se woh apni family ko suna raha hai jab tum khud kuch nahin kar sakte hoon. I would have liked for Toshu to get separated from this family on the ground of the wrong living situation in the family. on the grounds of the insufferable number of fights, clashes, and drama that this family has every day but for him to leave because he is just ashamed of his family is wrong.

Madam ji thank u for telling me what is raja bhasha and what is rashtrabhasha

Hindi chahe official ho ya national language but my point is that aisa nahin sirf english jo bolte hai wohi sub khuch kar sakte hain aur jinhe sirf hindi ya regional language aati hai woh kuch nahi kar sakte. Yeh soch galat hai

Waise bhi hamne school mein hindi ko rashtrabhasha hi padha hai

Sanskrit ko mother of language padha hai

English ko international language padha hai

Madam hum apne man se khuch nahin bol rahe hain jo school mein padha hai jo course mein padha hai wohi maine kaha

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

You are right. The whole argument started with Kavya's dance competion saga and Toshu took over suddenly! 😊 The way he went on accusing every single person in the household was not needed at all. Why the sudden hatred towards the entire family?! I too felt his outburst was uncalled for and somewhat artificial to turn it into a intense episode.

One thing I found funny is how the shah family did pooja to the trophy!🤣Seriously?! I dont understand why the dance competition was made out to be such huge thing. Much ado about nothing! 😊

Yes that was weird ,toshu took over suddenly! It was looking like forced artificial event just to increase negativity in the show.

Lol yes trophy pooja was funny 😆 But muje Aj 1% accha laga jab vanraj ne pakhi ko hostel bhej ne ka bola and jab anupama ne pakhi ke respect ko sabse Nirala bola. Lol life mai first time woh dono parenting kar rahe hai aise laga 😆

Dance competition importance ko kaise justify kiya gaya tha with the words like pakhi ke liye olympics se kum nahi 😆 Waha stage par maa-beti ka rishta dunia ko samja rahe the but real mai beti kaisi bratty hai woh sabko pata hai😆

Originally posted by: dipali13

Wow kya baat hai 👏 Toshu bhaiya ki Jay ho😲

Sab ko lagta hai ke mamaji, baa ko Toshu e kaha wo sahi tha👏👏 to jab ussi ghar mai are rakhi aur kavya ne sab ke samne chilla chilla ke Anupama ko chalu aurat kaha , haukrani kaha tab usse sharm nahi ayi? Tab kyu Toshu ko nahi sharm ayi? Matlab baa, mamaji bole character dhila rakhya kare to raasleela? Wow👏👏 Anupama kisi ka apman nahi karti par agar wo apni baat chilla ne ke badle Shanti se samajdari se kehti hai to 5 paane ka bhashan 👏👏 matlab aaj ki duniya mai rakhya, baa, Vanraj ya Toshu ki tarah taunt ya apman karke chilla ke bolo to sab sahi hai 😳sahi hai Anupama aur unke jaisi Shanti mai believe rakhnewale ganwar hi hote hai

Kisi bhi conversation mai baat Shanti se kehna jitna important hota hai utna he important waqt par “to the point “ baat karna bhi hota hai.

Shanti se har bar baat ko rafa-dafa kar k under the carpet daba dena samajdari nahi hota hai. Yaha case is har baar baat ko Shanti se bade aaram se rafa-dafa kiya jata hai.

Jis din anupama ke character ke against itna kuch bola gaya tha uss din anupama ne at last yeh bol diya ki woh sirf sabak sikhane ke liye bol rahi thi otherwise she doesn’t mean her words!😲😲 How could she say that when it was all about her character?!!! Kya zarurat thi baat ko last point par rafa-dafa karne ki???

Agar koi humare character par itna kuch bole toh bhi hum kisi bhi majburi mai unke sath ek he ghar mai rehne ka kaise continue kar sakte hai??? And even after character shaming , anupama was day dreaming about happily living with Kavya under the same roof with zindgi mere ghar aana song in the background? How?!!😲😲

Kyo Shanti ke naam par galat harkato ko Rafa dafa karna sahi hota hai???

Jisne tumhare character par itna kuch bola usi Kavya ke sath tum zindgi mere ghar Ana song par happily sath mai rehne ke sapne dekh rahi ho?! Jab anupama khud ko he uske character assassination se khas fark nahi padta hai toh audience kya kare?!

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Madam ji thank u for telling me what is raja bhasha and what is rashtrabhasha

Hindi chahe official ho ya national language but my point is that aisa nahin sirf english jo bolte hai wohi sub khuch kar sakte hain aur jinhe sirf hindi ya regional language aati hai woh kuch nahi kar sakte. Yeh soch galat hai

Waise bhi hamne school mein hindi ko rashtrabhasha hi padha hai

Sanskrit ko mother of language padha hai

English ko international language padha hai

Madam hum apne man se khuch nahin bol rahe hain jo school mein padha hai jo course mein padha hai wohi maine kaha

DiDi, aapke school ka to pta nhi pr hmare Kendriya Vidyalaya Sangathan me yhi pdhaya gya hai ki India has no national language. Hindi is only rajya bhasha.

TBH, I am not against your point just correcting one of your facts.

Didi ji maine nun wale school mein jahaan pe nun school mein rehti hai aur padhati hai means convent school mein padha hai ki hindi rashtra basha hai

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kisi bhi conversation mai baat Shanti se kehna jitna important hota hai utna he important waqt par “to the point “ baat karna bhi hota hai.

Shanti se har bar baat ko rafa-dafa kar k under the carpet daba dena samajdari nahi hota hai. Yaha case is har baar baat ko Shanti se bade aaram se rafa-dafa kiya jata hai.

Jis din anupama ke character ke against itna kuch bola gaya tha uss din anupama ne at last yeh bol diya ki woh sirf sabak sikhane ke liye bol rahi thi otherwise she doesn’t mean her words!😲😲 How could she say that when it was all about her character?!!! Kya zarurat thi baat ko last point par rafa-dafa karne ki???

Agar koi humare character par itna kuch bole toh bhi hum kisi bhi majburi mai unke sath ek he ghar mai rehne ka kaise continue kar sakte hai??? And even after character shaming , anupama was day dreaming about happily living with Kavya under the same roof with zindgi mere ghar aana song in the background? How?!!😲😲

Kyo Shanti ke naam par galat harkato ko Rafa dada karna sahi hota hai???

Jisne tumhare character par itna kuch bola usi Kavya ke sath tum zindgi mere ghar Ana song par happily sath mai rehne ke sapne dekh rahi ho?! Jab anupama khud ko he uske character assassination se khas fark nahi padta hai toh audience kya kare?!

tbh this happens in most of the households. I am telling you example of a friend of mine.

She wanted that both of her parents giver her some privacy in case of chats and talk about issues like menstruation, bf/gf during teenage and issues like that

but her parents come from conservative background where these issues were not discussed openly . Hence kaafi jhagde hue and bat ko ghar ki shanti ke liye rafa dafa kr diya gya.