Not agreeing with Toshu as a person, cz he too lacks self-awareness.. He did make some comments that were plain unnecessary like threatening to hit Samar, repaying Vanraj, or calling Anu embarrassing.. But for the most part he wasn't wrong?
Kinjal is naive & doesn't realise what a normal family is. Her attachment issues blind her.
Ba is the biggest badtameez in the house. There is no reason for her to talk the way she does, while lecturing others about manners. She normalises that behaviour for everyone.
Mama ji is embarrassing AF. Even people with mental issues know how to behave better. Bapu ji is no less for lacking self awareness & giving teeli to Mama ji instead of guiding him to be better.
Mom & step-mom cohabiting is cringe AF. Any normal person would skirm at having to explain that to friends.
The whole family pouncing on Kavya made no sense. They had already had 4 major arguments in the last 24 hours. Everyone knows arguing with Kavya is talking to a wall. This conversation should have happened in Kavya-Vanraj's bedroom. Anu & Baa jumping in to spat did feel like they enjoy drama.
Toshu is right when he says this family enjoys sacrifice over success, makes it hard to love or even sleep, etc. He might be partially wrong, but he feels like the only normal person in the family right now.
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