tbh this happens in most of the households. I am telling you example of a friend of mine.
She wanted that both of her parents giver her some privacy in case of chats and talk about issues like menstruation, bf/gf during teenage and issues like that
but her parents come from conservative background where these issues were not discussed openly . Hence kaafi jhagde hue and bat ko ghar ki shanti ke liye rafa dafa kr diya gya.
@bold : Your friend's background is conservative but shah family's background does not look conservative because conservative mindset can never think about doing affair in middle age or bringing new wife in the house when you have daughter -in-law in your house. Vanraj is ultra modern who did affair in the middle age and also got married again after his son's marriage. Baa/Bapuji is also ultra modern who wants ex-wife/current wife both together in the house with their son. Anupama is also ultra modern who accepted this set up .
Shah family is ultra modern so they can communicate about issues openly and can bring it on table but it's mainly because of anupama jisko shanti ke liye important matters ko bhi rafa dafa karne ki and divert karne ki bahot bad habit hai.
"Shaaant raho" "Chup raho" "Jane do" yeh sab bol bol kar important matters ko bhi rafa dafa kiya jata hai. The thing is yeh log basic bolne/chalne ke manners ke piche itna bhagte hai but badi badi matters ko rafa dafa karte hai🤢
Anupama ne toh khud ke character assassination jaisi badi baat ko bhi last moment par rafa dafa kar diya and started day dreaming about living with kavya happily with zindgi mere ghar aana song in the background. 🤢
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