Have to agree with Toshu's monologue 🤷 - Page 2

When first time 4.0.trp aayi anupama ki to us time cafe ka review hua tha aur vanraj ko tax notice mila tha

Aur doosre baar ki trp 4.0 mein anupama ne ek taraf gane mein perform kiya

Originally posted by: janecastle

Toshu's words were definitely wrong. But he was merely repeating what he has heard all his life. Vanraj Shah giving gyaan when he is the root case of the kids turning out like this. He and Baa are the ones who put such a negative thought in kids' mind against their own mother by constantly demeaning her in front of everyone. Now both them have become saints suddenly. 🤪 And Vanraj has not changed much. Whatever he used to do with Anupama, now he is doing with Kavya. Only thing is, Kavya is not silent or meek like Anupama and gives it back to Vanraj equally.

Yeah and even then his words were only wrong when it came to Anu and Bapuji to some extent, everything he said about Vanraj, Baa, Mamaji flirting with Rakhi and this weird new living arrangement of Anu and Kavya under one roof was completely right imo.

The way he said it was wrong, but that doesn't make the content untrue.

And it is so farcical how Vanraj is being presented as a better person than Toshu, because he really isn't. Toshu may not be perfect but at least he is a loyal, caring husband and an honest, straightforward person who is being up front about what he wants and why... the same definitely cannot be said for his suddenly so sanskari pita ji lmao.

All the elders of this family (especially Vanraj and Baa) needed to be shown the mirror by someone, and though it came from the most unlikely person and wasn't conveyed in the best way, I'm glad it happened 👏.

Haha so true!

Vanraj is acting all high and mighty right now. But in the show's timeline, he was ill-treating Anu literally yesterday! How does he expect his children to learn from his mistakes while he actively continues to be a bad influence on them?

LOL Pakhi too was only mimicking Baa with her sharp tongue. But the kids are still, overall, much better human beings than the elders who keep scolding them.

Sbs mein aaya hai toshu akela pent house chala gaya. And i am. Sure toshu isliye galati nahi suna raha hai ki shah family galat hai. Agar aisa hota to yeh baat pehle bhi point out kar sakta tha jo ki usne nahin kiya

It is clearly irriatiion of toshu isliye use luxury life rehne ko nahin mil raha hai

Pent house jaayega aaram se air conditiner mein soyega bada sa bed hoga bada sa TV hoga but kinjal maan hi nahin rahi to toshu ka frustation hai

Questiion to toshu

Tum vanraj ki nakal kyon karna chahte ho koi jaroori hai agar vanraj ne anupama ko bura bola to tum wahi bolo

Jub baa rakhi se bateemji se baat kare to toshu feel bad jub itne year se baa anupama se batmeeji se baat karti thi tub toshu khuch nahin bola baa ko ki yeh galat hai

Tub toshu ne kabhi nahin kaha ki jis baa ko respect dene ki baat karti hai usne to aapko ( anupama)se kabhi pyaar se baatein karte nahin dekh itne year mein. Jis baa ko respect se baat karne ko kehte hain woh to aapse kitna rudely baat karti hai

Baa ki galati tabhi kyon nazar aayi jub baa ne rakhi ki insult ki

Every character will be slowly butchered so that madam Anupamaa can be shown as right and mahaan

I couldn't stand to look at Anu facial expressions..they have been so exaggerated and weird...she is still my least fav character in the show

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Haha so true!

Vanraj is acting all high and mighty right now. But in the show's timeline, he was ill-treating Anu literally yesterday! How does he expect his children to learn from his mistakes while he actively continues to be a bad influence on them?

LOL Pakhi too was only mimicking Baa with her sharp tongue. But the kids are still, overall, much better human beings than the elders who keep scolding them.

Yes Vanraj misbehaved with Anu throughout their marriage, and is insulting her even after divorce by remaining in the same house along with Kavya.

Vanraj is a terrible influence on his children, and actually if you look at it one way, Toshu HAS learned from his mistakes.

He married the girl he loved as opposed to caving in to family pressure from his father and grandmother the way Vanraj himself did when he married Anupama. And now he is moving out of this toxic household to reclaim his peace of mind and salvage his reputation in society before it's too late.

I actually thought they would show Toshu eventually becoming a mini-Vanraj who will mistreat his wife, and expect her to put up with everything the way Anupama did (and they actually seem to be taking things in that direction earlier on).

But instead they show that Toshu has recognised what's wrong with his family, wants to lead his own life differently, and that makes him a bad person?

Pankhi I would say was a different story though, she was genuinely out of control but she got let off the hook so easily with no slaps or anything!

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Every character will be slowly butchered so that madam Anupamaa can be shown as right and mahaan

I couldn't stand to look at Anu facial expressions..they have been so exaggerated and weird...she is still my least fav character in the show

Exactly same feeling for anupama .. can’t stand her facial expressions 🤢

Toshu is wrong to insult Living standard of shah family

Toshu is wrong to feel. Ashamed just because anupama Dont english. Apni rashtrabhasha hindi bolne mein kaisa embarasament. Aaj kul bank school har jagah english ke saath hindi mein form bharne ka option hota hai. To yeh toshu to bilkul bekaar ki baat karta hai ki english aani compulsory hai agar english nahin aati to woh person back ward hai such A wrong thinking by toshu

Toshu wrong to have objection on samar and anupama teaching dance class. Kyon samar and anupama dance hi seekha rahe koi chori to nahin kar rahe that u feel ashamed.??

Toshu want to live seperately he can live. Agar rakhi ne London America mein toshu ke naam property kar di hai to to to toshu sure jaaye and if he is happy to live in London, America and property given by rakhi he can surely live there aur agar toshu kabhi waapas nahin aana chahta shah family to nahin aaye

But he has no right to insult Living standard of shah family

I Dont feel right when he insult Living standard of shah family. This is so wrong

And two wrong does not make right

Baa vanraj subah galat hai but jo toshu jaise sabki middle class ki Living standard ki insult kar raha hai woh bhi sahi nahin hai

Toshu said all the truth. The truth and the truth only. But the way he said it was completely wronft

Wow kya baat hai 👏 Toshu bhaiya ki Jay ho😲

Sab ko lagta hai ke mamaji, baa ko Toshu e kaha wo sahi tha👏👏 to jab ussi ghar mai are rakhi aur kavya ne sab ke samne chilla chilla ke Anupama ko chalu aurat kaha , haukrani kaha tab usse sharm nahi ayi? Tab kyu Toshu ko nahi sharm ayi? Matlab baa, mamaji bole character dhila rakhya kare to raasleela? Wow👏👏 Anupama kisi ka apman nahi karti par agar wo apni baat chilla ne ke badle Shanti se samajdari se kehti hai to 5 paane ka bhashan 👏👏 matlab aaj ki duniya mai rakhya, baa, Vanraj ya Toshu ki tarah taunt ya apman karke chilla ke bolo to sab sahi hai 😳sahi hai Anupama aur unke jaisi Shanti mai believe rakhnewale ganwar hi hote hai