Originally posted by: aekiel
Interesting observations.
What would one choose?
1) The person that's fundamentally better
2) or the person who has changed as a partner, but could revert back to his old self at any stage (like Ahaan did in Friday's episode- old habits die hard after all!)
Hmm...very, very tough choice, but I'd probably pick the fundamentally better one.
Yes it is very tough to choose.
In one case you have naturally a good partner so there are no arguments, no fights, not much adjustments and compromises. Both will be comfortable and happy but there may not be further scope to improve and noone is ideal. In other case, a person is always changing/learning so there is no stagnation point in the relationship. There is always a hope for it getting better than present. But at the same time there is a problem of losing individuality in later case if change does not happen naturally and is forced. Also baseline from where you start also matters.
I personally like struggling love stories. Naturally compatible partners is very practical but I would choose the one who is always trying to improve/change/fight back. But yes, there is some base criteria for the partner, he shouldn't be a bad human being like dadi😆
I like imperfect love stories and realtionships with flaws. As we say, no person is perfect in a same way no realtionship is perfect.
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