Aaj yeh pyar humari zindagi ka sabse badaa sach hai - Page 14

If you are looking for a direct apology then Pankaj did apologize to Imlie with folded hands even 😆 in the episode I mentioned before 😆

Again I am sure there will be redemption - let’s not get too hung up on this 😆 😆

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

If you are looking for a direct apology then Pankaj did apologize to Imlie with folded hands even 😆 in the episode I mentioned before 😆

Again I am sure there will be redemption - let’s not get too hung up on this 😆 😆

But that too because she revealed the truth about the cancer right? Again another element to validate that she "cares" for them so much, not out of realisation that she's innocent in the EMA accusation..may be I am reading too much into it Sandy ji 😆. That last episode just turned every notion I had about the Ts upside down. I mean "naagin", "nameless ladki" and all...just too much to process...Lets see what happens next, staying positive! 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

But that too because she revealed the truth about the cancer right? Again another element to validate that she "cares" for them so much, not out of realisation that she's innocent in the EMA accusation..may be I am reading too much into it Sandy ji 😆. That last episode just turned every notion I had about the Ts upside down. I mean "naagin", "nameless ladki" and all...just too much to process...Lets see what happens next, staying positive! 👍🏼

As I said if you want to stay hung up your choice but coming from.T's pov none if it is exaggerated we may not like it but put yourself In their shoes.. rest it is pointless to argue over that.

It is exhausting trying to put the stance upnfornTxs u think we have said it all we had too but if behas karne ke liye yahi hai toh excuse me ..I have no energy left and I would take a pass

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

As I said if you want to stay hung up your choice but coming from.T's pov none if it is exaggerated we may not like it but put yourself In their shoes.. rest it is pointless to argue over that.

It is exhausting trying to put the stance upnfornTxs u think we have said it all we had too but if behas karne ke liye yahi hai toh excuse me ..I have no energy left and I would take a pass

Just tring to gather my thoughts NM, there was no behas as such :) Sorry if I said something that had offended you.

Tbh I don't mind if they didn't do a direct apology

To me it is awkward to get a direct "sorry" apology from my own parents or any elder relative ( my own or inlows ), I will not accept putting them in this kind of situation

It is enough that they know what they have done wrong and trying to mend that , just accepting Imlie the way she is now just "Imlie" not as Imlie C , neither Imlie AKT, to go back to why they love her at the beginning and understanding her POV of the whole mess, and after that accepting her as dil and the wife and love of Aditya

And I am sure they will!

I stoped for a while reading SM and forum posts, for the hate and frustrations of the viewers, commenting and assuming things out of bts, actors personal life, bashing actors and characters, sometimes without a basis too!

I start to think they just want the Ts to accept Adili directly (which will be odd to me!) and Adili start romancing happily ever after!

Forgetting that it is a daily show 🤗

Like someone upset about how can Aditya accept that imlie set on the floor next to the bed, not on the sofa or the bed, that mean he don't respect her! How come setting on the floor is demeaning the person?

I realy don't know how ppl come with this sort of ideas, it amaze me!

Plz no ML 😭 it is stupid to go that way not now not later also, plz makers don't even think about it!

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Just tring to gather my thoughts NM, there was no behas as such :) Sorry if I said something that had offended you.

No need to say sorry and when i say behas I mean collective since this is what everyone is hing up on...just claritlfying

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Yea, that's exactly what I was getting at AY. I feel that they should not show regret at having misbehaved with her because she is being targeted by someone else, an NDE, her falling sick, or even Adi prompting them but just the realisation that they have wronged by simply jumping into conclusions and calling her names for no fault of hers. Otherwise it would seem hollow.

I am not really sure, but I cant recall an instance where they explicitly apologised to her just because they realised they were wrong. Because with that kinda viciousness we saw last week, I donno, it really put me down. She deserves a genuine one.😅✌🏼

I think the disagreement here is regarding whether an apology needs to be explicit or implicit to be considered genuine.

Sounds to me like you need it to be explicit in order for it to be considered valid. Like an “I’m sorry for XYZ specific thing I said to you”. While for me, it’s not the explicit I’m sorry that makes it genuine, it’s the emotion that’s conveyed as a part of the apology.

I didn’t feel like the previous apology was meaningless simply cuz the Ts fixated on feeling bad about misunderstanding her rather than specifically apologizing for each mean thing they said….they also didn’t “forgive” Imlie over going that distance for the charity performance….it was more like they felt touched anjam by her large heartedness and remorse over misunderstanding her.

And following that incident, there was a scene of Aparna Radha talking about how they wanted Imlie to be strong enough to respond back even to them when they say mean things to her. So the implication was that they know they talk bakwaas in anger 😆….and they don’t want Imlie to take crap from them when they are being unfair to her. Lol I found that more interesting than an apology….they want to empower Imlie more than coddling her with apologies.

That said, I still feel they will apologize for the excessive things they are saying this time. Woh samajhne ki baat hai ki that some people say cliched crap in anger that they don’t mean. Aparna is in that category.


Baaki coming back to the explicit vs implicit point again. Even Malini didi ji said so called “I’m so sorry” many times but were any of them genuine? Nope. Coz it was obvious she never really gave a damn and said token sorrys for the heck of it. While the Ts may be saying mean things right now but none of it is from a genuine sense of venom like her. And the apology will be far more heartfelt than any of hers even if they never say a direct sorry. That’s how I view them 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Baaki coming back to the explicit vs implicit point again. Even Malini didi ji said so called “I’m so sorry” many times but were any of them genuine? Nope. Coz it was obvious she never really gave a damn and said token sorrys for the heck of it. While the Ts may be saying mean things right now but none of it is from a genuine sense of venom like her. And the apology will be far more heartfelt than any of hers even if they never say a direct sorry. That’s how I view them 🤷‍♀️

Sorry but didi is another case by itself, I dont feel shes even worthy of being dragged into this discussion. She lives entitled in her delusionland lives her life unsure of things she say and practice.

The T's in contrast were portrayed different, they were people who actually practiced what they preached. I believe that irrespective of the age difference or social status, if a person thinks they have wronged someone, they need to apologise genuinely.

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Sorry but didi is another case by itself, I dont feel shes even worthy of being dragged into this discussion. She lives entitled in her delusionland lives her life unsure of things she say and practice.

The T's in contrast were portrayed different, they were people who actually practiced what they preached. I believe that irrespective of the age difference or social status, if a person thinks they have wronged someone, they need to apologise genuinely.

I think you have built up the Ts to be more in your mind than they are. They have their own flaws too and not some perfect souls who don’t make mistakes.

Baaki I’ve explained as best as I could but you are determined to not see it so I’ll drop it for now 🤷‍♀️

Kinda sad ki yeh waali Aparna log itni jaldi bhool gaye hain😆

This is a hug of genuine love.....and nowhere does this indicate that they consider Imlie less than them as a "maid".

I guess people have forgotten Ts ki tendencies to jump to conclusions since their earliest introduction in the story.....they trust easily and also come into duniya ki baatein pretty easily too......that does not make them a "don't practice what they preach" set of people.

They never were promoted as paragons of virtue who don't have prejudices.....they were promoted as warm/loving people who don't look down on someone for their social status.....and even now as they claim ki they can't accept Imlie as a bahu cuz she's a naukraani - that isn't really the issue.....they are looking to retaliate in hurt cuz they feel betrayed by Imlie.....that is why this label. But these are the same people who made Imlie sleep in the kitchen when they thought she was harming their bete ki shaadi and then themselves kept getting confused in melting towards her too.....lol you don't melt towards someone you consider inferior to you like that.

Aparna has loved Imlie like a daughter.....and she still does.....she's just blindsided by the shock of learning Imlie is married to Adi.....so she is using all manner of labels to blame Imlie for turning her worldview upside down......it's a journey for her as well to understand Imlie and this whole turn of events better.

It's unfortunate that Imlie has to hear hurtful things along this way and obviously no one enjoys seeing her be put through that.....but everyone is making their own set of mistakes in this journey.......to me personally though, it's pretty clear who are the hollow people in this story and who are not. Baaki if the knee jerk reaction continues to be to paint anyone who says hurtful things to Imlie with such a broad brush without acknowledging any dhang ka context, I guess I should also stop trying to reason after a point *shrugs*😆.......if people are enjoying their daily bhaashans of "Ts are beyond redemption, they need to grovel at Imlie's feet for any apology to be considered genuine", that's up to them I suppose.