Originally posted by: Inese_20
 
Warning: a long long rant 😵
Exactly! Let’s say Raghav goes back being a playboy, (let Pallavi go, blast her, leave her be with the Ds- like people suggested in the EDT- their words, not mine) - my question is would Raghav be happy? Was he happy while he was doing all such things?
chalo let’s say they only want the swagger Raghav back, angry, blasting people here and there, they say they miss him. But would Raghav want to get back to being the old himself? Hell he was angry all the time because he was so hurt and so in pain, that aggression was only a way to get back at the world. Pallavi came, put her trust in him, got him his mother back, made him a priority, and she just makes him happy- as simple as that! It’s like she’s thawing a frozen heart (again ‘Frozen’ reference😆). He wouldn’t ever want to loose all this- he wants to be happy ya- everybody does!
now if he gets back to the all time angry Raghav mode- would he be really happy?
When I say all the RR fan girls are shallow- this is what I mean. Don’t they want things to be alright for him? Don’t they want him to have an easy, a life as possible to normal as he can have? They claim to love Raghav, but they don’t. They just find few character traits attractive and they want to see it all the time.
Where’s character development then? Where’s Raghav as a person? Would Anjali make him happy? Would any other girl trust him or love him like Pallavi does? Pallavi is different, that’s the reason he’s different with her and she rightly deserves so.❤️
They want him to ‘blast’ (😵) Pallavi for mentioning mandhar. Okay, as if this word deserved any kind of mentioning anywhere! But whatever. I understand Raghav might feel jealous/ hurt and he has every right to feel so - but for the matter of fact he didn’t. They have that kind of understanding, maybe. Not everybody thinks like you. Raghav as a character comes out much more mature at times than we expect of him. 
But even if he did feel jealous, or does at any point of time in future- you don’t want RaghVi to sit and talk about it, Pallavi assuring him, Raghav allowing himself to be vulnerable- that would make a beautiful conversation which is actually ‘SO RAGHVI’. 
No. Instead, you want him to blast her, go back to being a playboy, not play any heed her, get an Anjali back in his life. WHAT EVEN! 
You don’t really love Raghav. You don’t want all these things for his own good, but for yourself. Period.