Hypocrisy thy name is Virat Chavan! - Page 7

Originally posted by: vimeo

See what u say is all true. But what did Sai even think before returning back to the house that late in the night - that she will be allowed home - after all the drama that happened? Didn't she have any common Sense? She being shown with the guts and bravery beyond her age. So they shud hv shown some akal in her mind also right? Who in their right mind will have the face to return home after orchestraing so much drama at the mantap? Imagine wud u hv come back to that house at all? I know abt all the ifs and buts of security - agar oh hota toh kya hota -- Either Virat wud hv been dead or Virat wud not hv married Sai etc etc..but all that didn't happen. What happened was that Virat is alive and married to Sai. Fact remains Sai was also very stupid!! After all this is itv and they hv to make the ml stupid and fl mahaan. And that's why all drama. Anyways each one has their own take on things!! And My take is Sai shud hv taken Virat into confidence for getting Devi married. By not doing so she justified her stupidity and invited her own downfall! Of course u can hv ur take on this issue!

@bold: no no, I didn't mean it as an if or but, I however meant that he's indebted to Aaba. Even if he hadn't promised him, he couldn't have been so ruthless with Sai, I feel so atleast.

She knew very well what she was doing, she knew Virat was going to get angry, she apologised many times in her mind, she just didn't expect to such extent that he'd throw her out at midnight. She even said that to him that if he had asked her to leave CN decently she wouldn't have minded, she was expecting severe consequences, but not to this extent so she went back to CN and moreover all her stuff was there too + UM too.

Yes Sai was stupid beyond understanding and I remember forumwaasis and people pointing that out too and being angry with her too. She should have waited till he came back and taken him in confidence. Virat had told her that he'd investigate again, she definitely could have waited. She has been impulsive and stupid. Completely agreed. I dissagree however that her behaviour justifies Virat behavior. No behaviour ever can justify domestic abuse. Two wrongs never make one right. People were right in being angry at Sai and also in bashing Virat. Virat's mistakes overshadowed Sai's mistake because they were much severe and bigger. But this is only my POV!

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

@bold 🔥🔥🔥🔥 because he is full of male ego and spineless creature.

Well I didn't say that 😆 He's very much flawed, but also realises his mistakes, a lot has to do with his upbringing and moreover there's progress in his character and am waiting for more progress eg realising the mental harassment that his ghar ke bade put not only Sai but also Aai, Sonali, Karishma and Mohit through and more such stuff. I can't get myself to hate him, as he's good at heart. We can't overlook that I feel but it also doesn't mean that we should turn a blind eye to his behaviour.

Originally posted by: vimeo

I don't know why so much of hue and cry is being made out of Sai being thrown out! Imagine from Virat's perspective - his wife has helped elope the daughter of the family that too a mentally retarded one with god knows who types. Obviously there was bound to be a hungama. What did Sai even think? That she will be welcomed with Aarti taali and all after doing all this khand! Any girl in their right mind wud nt hv returned to that house after doing so much khaand.! I for one wud hv stayed away from.chavans had I done.something like what Sai did!! Its beyond stupidity expect a man not.to.react to a situation like this!! Even in real life there wud hv been drama. But this being itv drama quotient was higher n they made Virat throw Sai out in the middle of the night!

But keep in Mind its itv. In real life no one will behave like Sai or Virat!

I imagined. And the solution to a solvable (if necessary) action is not textbook domestic abuse. He put her in serious danger, and the damage could've been irreversible.

The negation of that abuse is not welcoming with Aarti thaali. There are reasonable adult-like steps between the two actions, like having a conversation, like "Sai why did you do that?" And then she'd explain.

Yes, it's a show. But we're supposed to like the ML right?

(Also reminder that Virat's perspective was stupid in the first place, so he compounded his investigation idiocy with real, serious abuse.)

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Well most of us are here for sairat, arent we? I am sure none of us is kaku or ninad or karishma fan😆

So we know and want sairat to be the endgame.

I never said sairat are equally flawed. I said both are deeply flawed and not idealistic characters.

I have given up hope long ago from itv to present any lovestory with decent characters and near to reality.saas bahu, family drama, bahu pratadna, kitchen politics are main elements of any itv show. Majority of the viewers likes it also. They enjoy over the top drama without indulging in the good vs bad or morality vs entertainment debate. The trp of show says it all. And its not going to change anytime soon also.

In short, real life mein sai aur virat jaisa koi nahi hota. Ye sabko pata bhi hai. Sab itne mature hain ki koi inse inspiration to nahi lega. They are just fictional couple and we enjoy their chemistry and performance. So lets keep it restricted to here only. Enjoy the show for its main element which is sairat. Bar bar debate mein padke bhi kya hi ho jayega.😆

Cvs are not going to accept our demands because then they will have to change the entire storyline and characterisation🤣 so just chill and enjoy. Take it lightly. And if it still gets on the nerves (which I understand because it happens with everyone of us) then take a break and stop watching it for a while. I keep doing this😆

All good, but what kind of message does this send to young people? That one's sig other can engage in all kinds of abuse (and enablement thereof), without truly atoning for it, but they should just stick it out for the sake of it?

I think I'd be great if Virat truly showed remorse and growth, but treatment has been superficial, and he's just repeating his behavior in different ways.

Originally posted by: GandiAai

I imagined. And the solution to a solvable (if necessary) action is not textbook domestic abuse. He put her in serious danger, and the damage could've been irreversible.

The negation of that abuse is not welcoming with Aarti thaali. There are reasonable adult-like steps between the two actions, like having a conversation, like "Sai why did you do that?" And then she'd explain.

Yes, it's a show. But we're supposed to like the ML right?

(Also reminder that Virat's perspective was stupid in the first place, so he compounded his investigation idiocy with real, serious abuse.)

We may not share same opinion, but I love how respectfully you put forward your opinion even if you disagree, just saw an ugly discussion so it suddenly dawned upon me. Love your username and pic btw 😆 trolling level 💯 😆

Who is asking u to like Virat. What I wanted to put forth is Sai is equally responsible. Actions have consequences. Newtons third law says every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So drastic actions like Sais will beget drastic reactions. U r saying virat put Sai in grave danger. Even Virat thought, by getting Devi married off to someone whom he believed was a cheat, Sai had put Devi in even more greater danger! Remember Virat doesn't know that Pulkit is a good person and Devi is mentally retarded! Why don't you guys even understand had Pulkit really been a cheat what wud b Devi's state!! Only the mahaan Sai Joshi knew abt Pulkit being good and not Virat. That's what I have been saying - not taking Virat into confidence in this whole drama was Sai's greatest blunder.

Originally posted by: vimeo

Who is asking u to like Virat. What I wanted to put forth is Sai is equally responsible. Actions have consequences. Newtons third law says every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So drastic actions like Sais will beget drastic reactions. U r saying virat put Sai in grave danger. Even Virat thought, by getting Devi married off to someone whom he believed was a cheat, Sai had put Devi in even more greater danger! Remember Virat doesn't know that Pulkit is a good person and Devi is mentally retarded! Why don't you guys even understand had Pulkit really been a cheat what wud b Devi's state!! Only the mahaan Sai Joshi knew abt Pulkit being good and not Virat. That's what I have been saying - not taking Virat into confidence in this whole drama was Sai's greatest blunder.

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The reasoning you gave the ans yourself

Virat thought Devi is in danger. Instead of going and helping her (if he thought so) he put his young 18 year old wife in the same danger. Why? Simple. He wanted to take revenge from Sai. Otherwise Why didn’t he go after to look Devi then? By putting Sai at the road in midnight where she could have even faced sexual harassment he just wanted to take revenge. If he was concerned for Devi worried about safety he wouldn’t have put another women (especially his wife) in the same danger. He basically put Sai in a more dangerous position than Devi was in with his ignorance and revengeful instincts. That puts him in the same bracket as Bhavani and Kaku who are criminals. He is the hero right. How can hero behave like criminals?

He wud hv done it the next day anyways! And before doing that he even verified abt Pulkit. And he did go to Pulkits place nxt day and apologised. In fact in reality not many men admit their fault and apologize. Which Virat does! 2 wrongs wont do a right I agree. But Sai harping on the fact that Virat and Pakhi hv an affair in public also wont correct things right. And when Sai brought this in public was this not revenge?! When in fact Virat had nvr crossed any lines so far! You might say she was provoked. But so was Virat. Why two different standards for measuring things?

There are faults on both sides. In our lang we have a saying we need two hands to clap. Had it been only Virat then so much khaand wud not hv happened at all.

Originally posted by: vimeo

He wud hv done it the next day anyways! And before doing that he even verified abt Pulkit. And he did go to Pulkits place nxt day and apologised. In fact in reality not many men admit their fault and apologize. Which Virat does! 2 wrongs wont do a right I agree. But Sai harping on the fact that Virat and Pakhi hv an affair in public also wont correct things right. And when Sai brought this in public was this not revenge?! When in fact Virat had nvr crossed any lines so far! You might say she was provoked. But so was Virat. Why two different standards for measuring things?

There are faults on both sides. In our lang we have a saying we need two hands to clap. Had it been only Virat then so much khaand wud not hv happened at all.

He believed a 5th std fake letter. Please lets not talks about his verification skills. That will be another beizzati.

See the point is he put Sai in a more precarious situation just to take revenge and show his power. He could have waited till next day morning just like how he went about Devi & Pulkit. Did him throwing out Sai benefit Devi in anyway. If Devi was at risk of being taken undue advantage by a stranger Virat did worse by keeping Sai on roads at midnight. Where’s different standards coming from? Because of difference in actions. Are there actions equal? No. Can’t you see the gravity of his mistake? Did Sai do anything like that? No

I didn’t say Sai was provoked. But you are saying Virat was provoked. So you basically alluding his despicable inhumane behaviour was a result of this provokation. Like a revenge. You proved my point. Thanks

The parallels you draws are funny. How’s Virat putting sai at the risk of being assaulted at midnight equal to her questioning him on his past? He had a relationship with Pakhi. He promised his whole life to her. He shared the same with Sai. Sai is harassed by his ex because she is his wife. Why can’t Sai question that? Also he himself called her pyaari cheez, called him the most valuable thing in his life. Its his words and actions. Sai asked him because as she said he can’t keep both bhabhi and wife. Also why is he not letting this obsessed bhabhi leave? He asked her to stay back. You will be at a greater loss by bringing in Virat- Pakhi to this convo because its his mistake.

No it’s not faults on both sides. That way we are equating them. Virat’s faults are 100 times more than Sai. Look at their actions objectively. You nitpicking on Sai is actually making Virat look much worse

Getting a mentally retarded person married off is not funny!