Originally posted by: milkcakejamun
@bold, I believe a large part of her anger stems from the fact that Shiva never saw her or respected her as a person (forget about respecting her as a wife). If he had respected her as a person, he would have had a serious conversation with her about the kangans, instead of making decisions by himself.
Another part of her anger probably stems from how he treats Maami--the woman who raised Raavi at the end of the day. I know there was discussion on the forum about how Raavi continued to support Maami without knowing the truth. It's simple as "Blood is thicker than water." If our family members are accused of something, we always give them a benefit of doubt that no one else gets. We stand by their side, and fight for them the best we can, and that's exactly what Raavi did.
Shiva can be angry at Maami, but that does not give him the right to push her off a ledge. That does not give him the right to hold a sickle against her neck.
And, from every possible decision he could take, he chose to jump off the ledge like a coward. He didn't think about the consequences of who he was leaving behind. He didn't think about GauRa, DevTa, Krish, his mother. And he certainly did not think about her. Shiva's death would have severely impacted Raavi's mental health and growth. Even if the Pandya family told her otherwise, she would never be able to get rid of the guilt that he died because of her Maasi-Ma's actions.
So I think her anger is justified in every way possible.
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