Current Track - My Take - Page 6

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

My reading of this track is that pallavi has mandar and his family as the ideal. In that sense, from the snippet of her conversation with krishna before her marriage to raghav , pallavi says that mandar had conveyed that he didnt want a jhaddu pocha bartan cooking type wife but someone who would accept his family as her own. From that conversation, i feel that pallavis idea of marraige was just about the acceptance and taking care of family.

Where as raghav post his apology to pallavi outside the coffee shop very sincerely reiterated his marriage vows of companionship, partnership and spouse haq which encompassed everything between just the husband and wife as a couple.

so i basically see this track as pallavi exploring the companionship, partnership along with physical attraction for her husband as she should between the couple.
where as raghav in order to make amends and restore her happiness, he is going to be getting involved and accepting her family thus checking the box of pallavi’s idea of what marraige entails..

I agree, but my problem is mostly the family, and they frankly don't deserve either husband or wife. They deserve all the agony and pain, that they have put Pallavi through. And who better than VD's own kin doing that to him. Infact, even Sulochana and her sick daughters deserve hell. So it may highlight how Raghav and Pallavi have checked the boxes for each other about how a life partner should be, but Assmukhs truly do not deserve the honour of having them. Their depravity just makes me feel bad for RaghVi. Pallavi is blind, and Raghav has to put up with this freakshow of a family to keep his word of restoring Pallavi her life, which in her head is paradise, but is nothing short of a hell hole.

Originally posted by: libran90

Oh yes. ASR apologized to Khushi right before their engagement for all that he put her through since they met. And Khushi did forgive him.

Raghav feels a sense of responsibility which is mixed with his liking for Pallavi. He feels for her, but it hasn't reached that stage where he is consumed by love. He is donning the hat of a partner and husband, and ofcourse "kathin dagar hai panghat ki", but Raghav Rao never backed away from a challenge. Pallavi's strength is her ability to give people their due where they deserve it, cause she never has been given that. So, I am sure, she will appreciate his efforts.

Even if the Assmukhs accept Pallavi due to Raghav, their true test will come with Mandaar. He will show, if at all these people have ever loved Pallavi and if they at all respect Raghav. And internally, I am hoping for them to fail, cause then there are chances that instead of brushing things under the carpet, Pallavi would use that brush and rub it on their eyes and heads - kyunki aankhon me aur dimaag me gandagi bhari padi hai.

Yes now I remember.. I think you are talking about the scene where he sneaks upto her bedroom.. after he finds out that she got slapped by her amma.. Can't believe it took that long for him to apologise... 🤔

@bold- 😆 sahi hai. Hope that happens.. It'l be true test of Ayi. Baba pakka hamari ummeedo pe khara utrega😆

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Yes now I remember.. I think you are talking about the scene where he sneaks upto her bedroom.. after he finds out that she got slapped by her amma.. Can't believe it took that long for him to apologise... 🤔

@bold- 😆 sahi hai. Hope that happens.. It'l be true test of Ayi. Baba pakka hamari ummeedo pe khara utrega😆

Yes, that scene only, the night of the slap she got from her mother for defending Arnav before them.

Yes, it is a test for Sharada. Don't really believe Vijay. But you never know actually. The situation may reverse. Vijay could actually support Pallavi and Sharada may not. Although, Sharada hasn't achieved much by supporting Pallavi till now. But I guess she is not meant to either. Har kisi ka role defined hota hai. Raghav is meant to play that role, so he will do so.

Originally posted by: libran90

I agree, but my problem is mostly the family, and they frankly don't deserve either husband or wife. They deserve all the agony and pain, that they have put Pallavi through. And who better than VD's own kin doing that to him. Infact, even Sulochana and her sick daughters deserve hell. So it may highlight how Raghav and Pallavi have checked the boxes for each other about how a life partner should be, but Assmukhs truly do not deserve the honour of having them. Their depravity just makes me feel bad for RaghVi. Pallavi is blind, and Raghav has to put up with this freakshow of a family to keep his word of restoring Pallavi her life, which in her head is paradise, but is nothing short of a hell hole.

I might be the only one here but kindly bear with me for analysing vijay deshmukh’s arc in this story.. this is purely from vijay’s pov.

vijay deshmukh has harbored hatred and resentment for raghav for his character, personality, means of earning.. in short he hates everything about raghav since day one even before pallavi and raghav’s equation came to light to him.. the mms scandal.. temple fiasco in the first few episodes..

He comes to know that raghav is the new owner of the shop and that pallavi has failed to inform him. And then asha makes s ruckus of pallavi and raghav in the room.. pallavi and raghav keep meeting each other for whatever reason and pallavi refuses to listen to vijay to have any kind of association with raghav n becomes friends with his enemy( lion climax where he asks when there were so many friends in hyd why she chose to go to raghav for help)

His ego is hit with pallavi continuing to associate with raghav tempered with his already brimming hatred and resentment for raghav.. the climax of which is that raghav comes and defames pallavi.. the most important dialogue from vijay’s perspective is that dont u dare to touch my daughter.. and raghav says not in front of u but what when we are alone.... followed by raghav revealing that shop has been running in losses and raghav has given ownership of the shop to pallavi .. raghav has hit him personally and professionally..

Ousting pallavi out of the house that night is a punishment for pallavi for continuing to associate herself with raghav despite his warnings and not listening ti him..

And then tada pallavi marries his enemy... actually the treatment that has been meted out to pallavi is unfair and wrongly directed but underneath that is his resentment for raghav.. vijay deshmukh will accept pallavi only when he changes his view towards raghav cuz his behaviour with pallavi has got to do more with raghav and a lot less with pallavi is what i feel..

the drama in pallavis life and hence the show , was and is being driven by the two men in her life raghav and vijay deshmukh with sulochana just stirring the pot here and there. Rest of the deshmukhs are just mere spectators who keep siding with or against pallavi but have no real role in the drama..

i find it interesting that the whole drama of this show is being driven by two male characters when usually its the females on itv..

Also since i log in from phone, i have issues liking posts.

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

I might be the only one here but kindly bear with me for analysing vijay deshmukh’s arc in this story.. this is purely from vijay’s pov.

vijay deshmukh has harbored hatred and resentment for raghav for his character, personality, means of earning.. in short he hates everything about raghav since day one even before pallavi and raghav’s equation came to light to him.. the mms scandal.. temple fiasco in the first few episodes..

He comes to know that raghav is the new owner of the shop and that pallavi has failed to inform him. And then asha makes s ruckus of pallavi and raghav in the room.. pallavi and raghav keep meeting each other for whatever reason and pallavi refuses to listen to vijay to have any kind of association with raghav n becomes friends with his enemy( lion climax where he asks when there were so many friends in hyd why she chose to go to raghav for help)

His ego is hit with pallavi continuing to associate with raghav tempered with his already brimming hatred and resentment for raghav.. the climax of which is that raghav comes and defames pallavi.. the most important dialogue from vijay’s perspective is that dont u dare to touch my daughter.. and raghav says not in front of u but what when we are alone.... followed by raghav revealing that shop has been running in losses and raghav has given ownership of the shop to pallavi ..

Ousting pallavi out of the house that night is a punishment for pallavi for continuing to associate herself with raghav despite his warnings and not listening ti him..

And then tada pallavi marries his enemy... actually the treatment that has been meted out to pallavi is unfair and wrongly directed but underneath that is his resentment for raghav.. vijay deshmukh will accept pallavi only when he changes his view towards raghav cuz his behaviour with pallavi has got to do more with raghav and a lot less with pallavi is what i feel..

the drama in pallavis life and hence the show , was and is being driven by the two men in her life raghav and vijay deshmukh with sulochana just stirring the pot here and there. Rest of the deshmukhs are just mere spectators who keep siding with or against pallavi but have no real role in the drama..

i find it interesting that the whole drama of this show is being driven by two male characters when usually its the females on itv..

Also since i log in from phone, i have issues liking posts.

I get the analysis, but there is a point of difference here. Vijay knows Pallavi longer than Raghav has. Raghav is blinded by his bias against women, and his ego. But, he is still the stranger in Pallavi's life. He never mattered to Pallavi.

But Vijay is the father figure here. His resentment for Raghav is greater than his love for Pallavi, that he chooses to punish Pallavi, and not ignore Raghav and his misleading statements, then he has no right to call himself her father. Children make mistakes, they lie, but parents don't throw them out of the house in the middle of the night. Then ideally, he should have done the same with Amrita. For Vijay, his ego was bigger than his love for his "daughter". He doesn't deserve any respect or love.

If Pallavi forgets all this and accepts this family, it would be disgraceful. That family doesn't deserve her. They should ideally try to earn a place back in her life, not Pallavi. Hope we get to see Pallavi shutting the door on this family.

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

I might be the only one here but kindly bear with me for analysing vijay deshmukh’s arc in this story.. this is purely from vijay’s pov.

vijay deshmukh has harbored hatred and resentment for raghav for his character, personality, means of earning.. in short he hates everything about raghav since day one even before pallavi and raghav’s equation came to light to him.. the mms scandal.. temple fiasco in the first few episodes..

He comes to know that raghav is the new owner of the shop and that pallavi has failed to inform him. And then asha makes s ruckus of pallavi and raghav in the room.. pallavi and raghav keep meeting each other for whatever reason and pallavi refuses to listen to vijay to have any kind of association with raghav n becomes friends with his enemy( lion climax where he asks when there were so many friends in hyd why she chose to go to raghav for help)

His ego is hit with pallavi continuing to associate with raghav tempered with his already brimming hatred and resentment for raghav.. the climax of which is that raghav comes and defames pallavi.. the most important dialogue from vijay’s perspective is that dont u dare to touch my daughter.. and raghav says not in front of u but what when we are alone.... followed by raghav revealing that shop has been running in losses and raghav has given ownership of the shop to pallavi .. raghav has hit him personally and professionally..

Ousting pallavi out of the house that night is a punishment for pallavi for continuing to associate herself with raghav despite his warnings and not listening ti him..

And then tada pallavi marries his enemy... actually the treatment that has been meted out to pallavi is unfair and wrongly directed but underneath that is his resentment for raghav.. vijay deshmukh will accept pallavi only when he changes his view towards raghav cuz his behaviour with pallavi has got to do more with raghav and a lot less with pallavi is what i feel..

the drama in pallavis life and hence the show , was and is being driven by the two men in her life raghav and vijay deshmukh with sulochana just stirring the pot here and there. Rest of the deshmukhs are just mere spectators who keep siding with or against pallavi but have no real role in the drama..

i find it interesting that the whole drama of this show is being driven by two male characters when usually its the females on itv..

Also since i log in from phone, i have issues liking posts.

You penned the words from my mouth. The two men VD and RR are responsible for Pallavis situation...RR is redeeming himself...hope VD recognizes his part soon. Although if they showed VD as kind understanding father he would never judge or throw Pallavi out..and this forced wedding track would not have happened. So I think makers purposefully made VD more and more negative towards Raghav as you said...to allow this wedding track. Also when RR came to tell truth if VD accepted it immediately , this track of bonding with deshmukhs for Pallavi would not happen. So RR ke redemption ke liye...they had to make VD more grey. Wonder if Milind replacement was due to that..or other genuine reasons.

Originally posted by: libran90

I get the analysis, but there is a point of difference here. Vijay knows Pallavi longer than Raghav has. Raghav is blinded by his bias against women, and his ego. But, he is still the stranger in Pallavi's life. He never mattered to Pallavi.

But Vijay is the father figure here. His resentment for Raghav is greater than his love for Pallavi, that he chooses to punish Pallavi, and not ignore Raghav and his misleading statements, then he has no right to call himself her father. Children make mistakes, they lie, but parents don't throw them out of the house in the middle of the night. Then ideally, he should have done the same with Amrita. For Vijay, his ego was bigger than his love for his "daughter". He doesn't deserve any respect or love.

If Pallavi forgets all this and accepts this family, it would be disgraceful. That family doesn't deserve her. They should ideally try to earn a place back in her life, not Pallavi. Hope we get to see Pallavi shutting the door on this family.

I Agree.. i was not justifying vijay but just what i feel drives his actions.. raghav and vijay both have wronged pallavi with their misplaced ego, hatred, anger.. raghav is making amends.. we have to see what they do with vijay..

as for pallavi, well he is the closest father figure she will ever have in the show.. she somehow seems fixated on having parents disregarding her blood bro who seems to have brought her up with such goodness , kindness and values.. may be vijay will make it up to pallavi.. also if pallavi has given a chance to raghav to make amends then may be when vijay apologieses and ask why will she not..

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

I might be the only one here but kindly bear with me for analysing vijay deshmukh’s arc in this story.. this is purely from vijay’s pov.

vijay deshmukh has harbored hatred and resentment for raghav for his character, personality, means of earning.. in short he hates everything about raghav since day one even before pallavi and raghav’s equation came to light to him.. the mms scandal.. temple fiasco in the first few episodes..

He comes to know that raghav is the new owner of the shop and that pallavi has failed to inform him. And then asha makes s ruckus of pallavi and raghav in the room.. pallavi and raghav keep meeting each other for whatever reason and pallavi refuses to listen to vijay to have any kind of association with raghav n becomes friends with his enemy( lion climax where he asks when there were so many friends in hyd why she chose to go to raghav for help)

His ego is hit with pallavi continuing to associate with raghav tempered with his already brimming hatred and resentment for raghav.. the climax of which is that raghav comes and defames pallavi.. the most important dialogue from vijay’s perspective is that dont u dare to touch my daughter.. and raghav says not in front of u but what when we are alone.... followed by raghav revealing that shop has been running in losses and raghav has given ownership of the shop to pallavi .. raghav has hit him personally and professionally..

Ousting pallavi out of the house that night is a punishment for pallavi for continuing to associate herself with raghav despite his warnings and not listening ti him..

And then tada pallavi marries his enemy... actually the treatment that has been meted out to pallavi is unfair and wrongly directed but underneath that is his resentment for raghav.. vijay deshmukh will accept pallavi only when he changes his view towards raghav cuz his behaviour with pallavi has got to do more with raghav and a lot less with pallavi is what i feel..

the drama in pallavis life and hence the show , was and is being driven by the two men in her life raghav and vijay deshmukh with sulochana just stirring the pot here and there. Rest of the deshmukhs are just mere spectators who keep siding with or against pallavi but have no real role in the drama..

i find it interesting that the whole drama of this show is being driven by two male characters when usually its the females on itv..

Also since i log in from phone, i have issues liking posts.

You wrote something that I have been thinking about for a while..

And I thought might be the only one who thought Vijay Deshmukh's concerns were genuine regarding Raghav....IMO it could be any father of Indian society in his place, who has certain fixed beliefs about izzat and sharafat and all. They didn't have any good impression of Raghav like audience was fed.

Them not trusting Pallavi was the issue, and initially they blindly trusted her but the seed of doubt was planted and Pallu couldn't adhere to his conditions because of her deal with Raghav. It was kind of situational. I won't say their relationship was ideal, but the affection was genuine, the bonding was there. Just that it came with terms and conditions, and it was too sugar coated to have any scope for genuine conversation. However, the way he treated Pallu on that day was horrible and it kind of reflected on how toxic men in Indian society can be. There was distrust and more... After that, their relationship wasn't worked upon... and Vijay Deshmukh as a character became more and more unidimensional... Why Mansi behaves in such a way is beyond my understanding?

In my opinion if Raghav can have second chances, why not Vijay Deshmukh? Sulo should be taught a lesson, and the rest of the family will do fine by themselves I feel. Mandar, Nikhil, Aai are kind people and understand others, so putting them under the same category of "trashmukhs" also isn't justified. With regards to Pallu, they might not be the ideal persons to trust your life with, but they are just like other people, weak, helpless, selfish, caught in the web of relationships...

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

You penned the words from my mouth. The two men VD and RR are responsible for Pallavis situation...RR is redeeming himself...hope VD recognizes his part soon. Although if they showed VD as kind understanding father he would never judge or throw Pallavi out..and this forced wedding track would not have happened. So I think makers purposefully made VD more and more negative towards Raghav as you said...to allow this wedding track. Also when RR came to tell truth if VD accepted it immediately , this track of bonding with deshmukhs for Pallavi would not happen. So RR ke redemption ke liye...they had to make VD more grey. Wonder if Milind replacement was due to that..or other genuine reasons.

The casualty for the forced wedding track was raghav’s amma.. the track wouldve panned out just fine even without vijay ousting pallavi.. he couldve got heart attack due to raghav’s revelation.. vijay inhospital, nikhil in jail.. enough for pallavi to go ahead with the blackmail marriage..

I dont think vijay has been made more grey for raghav’s redemption.. what exactly has raghav done till now that vijay’s hatred has to come down... also pallavi has married his enemy willingly, the intentions be damned..

this track of raghav mingling with pallavis family will change his perception towards raghav and he will cool down..

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

You wrote something that I have been thinking about for a while..

And I thought might be the only one who thought Vijay Deshmukh's concerns were genuine regarding Raghav....IMO it could be any father of Indian society in his place, who has certain fixed beliefs about izzat and sharafat and all. They didn't have any good impression of Raghav like audience was fed.

Them not trusting Pallavi was the issue, and initially they blindly trusted her but the seed of doubt was planted and Pallu couldn't adhere to his conditions because of her deal with Raghav. It was kind of situational. I won't say their relationship was ideal, but the affection was genuine, the bonding was there. Just that it came with terms and conditions, and it was too sugar coated to have any scope for genuine conversation. However, the way he treated Pallu on that day was horrible and it kind of reflected on how toxic men in Indian society can be. There was distrust and more... After that, their relationship wasn't worked upon... and Vijay Deshmukh as a character became more and more unidimensional... Why Mansi behaves in such a way is beyond my understanding?

In my opinion if Raghav can have second chances, why not Vijay Deshmukh? Sulo should be taught a lesson, and the rest of the family will do fine by themselves I feel. Mandar, Nikhil, Aai are kind people and understand others, so putting them under the same category of "trashmukhs" also isn't justified. With regards to Pallu, they might not be the ideal persons to trust your life with, but they are just like other people, weak, helpless, selfish, caught in the web of relationships...

Agree.. it all started with good intentions of looking out for his daughter.. who in the right mind would want his daughter associated with a man like raghav who seems to have a bad reputation in public.. pallavi defying him coupled with his own ego , misplaced anger just catapulted into something else..

also even now everyone from sharda and sulochana keep using pallavi’s name and keep stoking his ego.. sharda keeps saying pallavi says this taking loan is bad.. sulo keeps badmouthing pallavi to get the desired effect of him losing his mind and following her wishes.. they really need to shaant his ego and let the man have some peace so he can think rationally.. everyone is just riling him up..