Originally posted by: laksh
I said realise his mistakes, who said on his own . I am very upset that even after he found her staying outside his house all night long, he didn't think of reonsidering his decision or checking on her. He had no shame when he shouted at her, calling her mad in front of the neighbours even after she had told the neighbours that she doesn't want to file a complaint against him. He is a police officer and he cannot tell a neighbour that it is our personal matter 🤷♀️. Ghar ke andar hua hota, it is personal, when he didn't even let her set foot inside the house, what is he expecting?
I don't know why they added such stupid dialogues.
When I said that I want him to realise, I meant to say once he returns from GC, after Sai refuses to return with him. That should put some sense to him that whatever he has done is not a small mistake that she would give him a chance.
In the hand holding incident, yes he was very wrong, I didn't expect that he wouldn't realise until his Aai pointed it out to him. But again, the situation would have never occurred if Sai had shared with him or tried to convince him in a soft manner that she would let him know later. She could have taken him aside saying that she wants to talk to him alone and could have done that. I would want to see what would have happened if she had tried, would he have still not try to listen to her, not be willing to let her go? I also know that Sai was upset with him because he supported Pakhi the previous night and then she had also confronted him to which he never replied. It is all adding to her frustrations, though she never shows it out. It comes out in the way that it came out that day. If it was any other day, she might have tried to explain to him calmly.
This time, it is already proved that Sai was not wrong when she said that she saw the documents in her college. As you said, he needs proof sometimes, I agree, but some are like that. Also, they both are not in that stage of the relationship where they can trust one other blindly. That will be applicable or can be followed by couples who knows each other really well, who shares all important information with each other and who trusts each other. In this case, it wouldn't be right to expect Virat to blindly trust her. He should have investigated or verified details of Pulkit even before the letter from Sangeetha Deshpande.
Virat might take a long time to correct himself if he cannot realise his own mistakes. He is going to be at loss. Yes, others can make him look at his mistakes, but ths time atleast, he should have realised it much earlier.
One more thing is that he will listen to when people advice him. He will think about it if his Aai points it out to him, will try to realise it. That is a good sign. Some don't listen to anyone when they are having conflicts with their spouse, they won't even allow their own parents to guide them.
But realising them, correcting them wouldn't be enough. Ensuring he doesn't cross his line in the future is what is important. I don't want him to have a take it for granted attitude. The way he smiled in the latest episode, makes me think that. Let's just hope he doesn't develop that attitude
I don't think she can understand anything that he would say. Who can? Even if she had done a mistake, she tried to talk to him and he never gave a chance. Had he let her explain, she would have apologised to have betrayed his trust. I am not saying that she should apologise now, she can, but it depends on the state of mind of the person who has gone through this.
I meant to say that she should apologise, start trusting and valuing him after she returns. Just like how she had spoken to him calmly about the PD visit at the end of the day after shs received a text from Pari, she should talk to him about how she missed him when he went for the training and how she noticed that certain things were going unfavourable for Pulkit and how Pulkit had asked her to help. Only if they talk, will he be able to understand how and why she took that decision. That would help him to keep that in mind before the next time he starts to judge her actions.
She need not reveal the kidnapping part alone.
It might take her a while to be able to trust him even after she returns. There will be doubts about him in her mind always. He should also learn to trust her and value her.
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