The Facade begins to unravel - Page 14

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I feel like by the time the family finds out, Adi ko thodi aur clarity mil chuki hogi about why exactly he denied Kismat ka likha and married Malini😆....filhaal he's oscillating between realizing ki it was never love with Malini and that he has discovered love for the first time with Imlie, who also happens to be the one destiny tied him to by getting him married to her first.....toh he does need to find a way to explain all this when the time comes😆.....cuz obvious question sabhi puchhenge ki why did you make it seem like you married Malini out of your choice and ab bol rahe ho you don't want to be in this marriage.

If we go by the hints they are showing of the unraveling between AM via these arguments daily, then possibility toh hai of Adi bursting out one day admitting ki itne saal it just felt like an obligation that he nibhaaoed....and usi obligation ke chakkar mein shaadi bhi kar li😆....

Yup, his attitude towards saying "Sorry" actually came like that.... As if finally he himself is realizing that his life was with Malani was only filled with apologies and "manoa"

@bold: I hope Malini does not faint after hearing this...I am sure he is going to blow up but not sure what aftermath scene would be??

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

The chotu sa aparna and imlie scene again awesome ke jaise mithi has become adi's mom waise hi aparna knew imlie is disturbed the little hug and samjhaooing her ke shehar ke log only know to question and will never understand her shraddha again a subtle rebuke at the society and people who question her everyday in audience too and blame her for no fault of hers..

This scene was really sweet. I really like Aparna was the only person who realized at the end of the press conference, Imlie was shaken. Her pampering, her hug was so mummy types ki everything will be Ok and this is the way of life, accept it but do not change your values for anybody.

This is exactly what we see in Aditya, he is not ready to change his values for anything and anybody even if khud hi barbaad na ho jaaye. Hence, I noticed that though the closeness is missing due to whatever reason,, Aparna is on that pedestal where Aditya never refuses Aparna or follows on her words even though they are against his wishes be it maafi maangna, bring Malini back home or do not talk back to Mrs C.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I also keep coming back to Imlie's panic in the first scene....the lie is taking its toll on her too.

How tragic that she has gotten so used to hiding the truth that she has also now started fearing the truth....Adi in a sense feels liberated cuz he's stopped fearing the truth revelation...he feared it more before he realized his love for Imlie, but now he doesn't....and I guess in many ways he's passed that fear of the truth into Imlie in all the time he spent grilling her over it....cuz she can't shake it off anymore - iske mann mein ghar kar gaya hai woh sach ka darr. Poor thing :(

It's harder for Imlie also cuz she's used to putting others before herself....Adi is not😆. So I just feel the saddest for her ki woh darrti bhi hai ki sach baahar aake sabke rishte barbaad kar dega but at the same time, it is only with Adi that she finds a safe haven in this panic too. Stormy weather ahead for both of them....

So true.. I think she is even more afraid now to lose the love and yeh parivaar feeling jaisi bhi aadhi adhoori she bas grown to love it she is now so inhabituated to it and it scares her that they might not see her the same way And also ab iske mann main adi ko khone ka darr bhi hai in the sense ke she doesn't know what will be the future in terms of malini yeh khud peeche hate jaati hai and is like woh uska hi rahega beshak phir iski quebaani ki wajah se hi caz that is what she wants didi ki khushi but as she said back then ke.iski aadat lag jaayegi adi ki and ab ho gayi hai and asdat ke saath saath zaroorat marzi haq rishta woh sab bhi abhi jaise bhi hai adi iska bhi hai and by bhi I mean beshak they have to pretend and all but she can still think of his as hers can see him be around him with truth coming around the uncertainty remains that she may have to back up so much ke shayad phir kabhi na dekh paayein mil paayein caz of her own conditions and yeh bhi dekh chuki hai in PD how it becomes impossible for her to be without him ek din nahi reh paayi thi so kahin na kahin it is making her lose her mind even more.. caz woh ek subconscious realization hai.. which she pushes caz kabhi malini ki baat sun leti hai kabhi vachan de deti hai kabhi ehsaan maan leti hai didi ka ke she owes her that 🤗 my poor child. Phir yes adi ki baaton ka asar toh hai hi ispe ke bahar aa gaya toh kya toh ab she wants to hide it caz she has grown comfortable in jo jaisa hai waisa hai main bhi caz this gives her naisa bhi but thoda saath of adi and being with him..

Imlie ka fear was painstrickingly hurtful.. the girl has dealt with so much and bigger things but she never lost it like that but ab yehi baag ke sach bahar asne se kitna kuch affect hoga her life her future which finally seems going in some direction now and woh sab bhi she may not have on her Mind just yet but the fear of losing adi in person and the disappointment in her that she made the blunder which could have caused him serious percussions made her so disturbed.. and adi went it's ok kuxh galat nahi hai but she couldn't beleive iss bechari se ho gayi galti since it meant she disappointed him too though he wasn't at all..

She doesn't show it but yeh bohat zyada zimmedari bohat bhaar leke chalti hai of never disappointing adi or become the reason of his unhappiness. *ssigh* jabke she is only his happiness ka zariya..

Originally posted by: pamk06

Yup, his attitude towards saying "Sorry" actually came like that.... As if finally he himself is realizing that his life was with Malani was only filled with apologies and "manoa"

@bold: I hope Malini does not faint after hearing this...I am sure he is going to blow up but not sure what aftermath scene would be??

LOL aisa hi kuch hoga most likely.....Adi may end up blurting out some portion of the truth and Didi will promptly fall ill taaki dono Adi-Imlie guilt mein aur tadpein that they are the cause of her health getting affected😆

@AY @ MuteButton

Regarding Imlie's ability to distance herself from Aditya- do you think she will be able to distance herself from Adi the way she has convinced herself that she can do when required?

Personally I think she is not capable of staying away from Adi now. We make fun of how Adi cannot stay away from Imlie but I think Imlie is also in the same boat as Adi. The feelings have deepened for eachother on both sides & I believe their intensity & fierceness is on the same level. The only difference is in the way that they express their feelings.

For Adi, it is his restlessness, his Defcon1 level protectiveness for her even on the smallest of things, wanting to stay behind her as her support in her journey, etc. For Imlie, it is her devotion to him, appreciating his gifts & gestures so whole heartedly even if she has to hide them, her unconditional understanding towards him as a person, etc.

Bacchi bhi apne BS ke bina nahi reh sakti hai ab. She was able to leave him before because he denied her the right to even nibhao their relationship on her own. It was because she thought it was his wish that she leave him. So she was able to gather the strength & leave him. But the time spent with Adi in PD totally changed their relationship. Where there was no haq then, there is haq today. It is she who is not accepting the haq because of her own selfless moral code. But she knows he loves her, he shows it to her in many little ways everyday & she cherishes these gestures & things even if verbally says she can't accept them.

We have to remember how listless & restless she was in PD after Adi left. She herself had sent him away telling him that they cannot meet or act on their feelings for each other because of Malini. But she was the one who was calling him to know whether he has reached safely. She initiated the first move of keeping in touch with him. Also she returned back to Delhi the very next day when the admission process was still away. It was actually because she missed him & could not stay away. I don't think BS's confidence in him being the reason for her return was misplaced. It actually was true however much she denies it.

Similarly now as well when Adi is not following his vachan to keep Malini happy, she is yet to confront him. More than confronting him, she has yet to draw a hard line which he cannot cross. Hopefully we may see this convo very soon with her witnessing Adi-Malini arguments constantly. But whatever that discussion will be I don't think Imlie will be able to distance herself from Adi. Only something drastic would be able to give her the strength to go away from her BS for his own good. Otherwise I don't think Adi-Malini fights are going to be enough to motivate her to distance herself from Adi. She can do token protests or opposition but no concrete action.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Absolutely that's part of it😆....and heck, Adi ne bhi isko isi point pe kaafi der tak sar pe chadhaya bol bol ke you understand me the most😆, you are the most adjusting cuz you waited 7 years for me....lol....toh ab toh lagta hai Malini only drilled that into him in roundabout ways and he started parroting it back to her ki haan aap toh Devi hain jo mujhe jhelti hain😆. Baaki Tripathis ko toh waise hi lagta hai koi bhi ladki jo Adi ke saath 7 saal tak reh sakti hai woh ehsaan hi kar rahi thi😆.....so no wonder ki Malini bhi aur badh chadh ke jataati hai ki MAINE jhela tumhein, ab mujhe REWARD do😆.this very thought process is so wrong.. rishte koi reward program toh hai nahi she needs to stop treating it is as that.. adjusting my foot .. Kara kya hai isne and kab. Iska wohi hai ke sab iske aas paas bolte rahe and ab she is lagta hai apun hi bhagwan hai mode😆rishton main Sauda nahi hota it is not a freaking business ke tum mujhe yeh do main woh doonga and is she thinks that toh am not sure yeh kahan se mila hai isse caz yeh toh AC ka bhi thought process nahi hai despite her classist elite attitude she also wants love and admiration and not transactional love from DC .. maybe meri perception galat ho ac ke maamle main.. but yeh didi ka apna hi hai kuch.. just caz 7 saal saatg rahe toh you owe me something .. uhh didi you were free to leave then and now too..

That is why it is probably throwing Malini off too ki Adi has now started pushing back on this perception that she is always right in every situation while he is some permanent culprit who must grovel before her everytime😆....aaj nahin kiya Adi ne toh that is why Malini's temper spiked too that how could he NOT grovel after rebuking her. But Adi ne baat ka basic point pakda that my way of speaking was wrong, I apologize for that but my point wasn't wrong otherwise about the form.....lol and woh Malini se bardaasht nahin hua.....she is also used to absolute groveling from Adi.....not this parsing of the complications of an argument. That is why then she grew it into a larger argument too to remind him of the MANY other galtiyaan he has done that she has been "tolerating"😆.so much for "adjustments" haan ke the one time or chalo not one but few times in last few days he simply put his pov forth and didi ka saara adjustment hawa ho gaya caz she simply cannot take his opinion in consideration. Just because he is speaking and putting his heights means he is only being tolerated wow. Matlab jo aurat baat and pov hi nahi sun sakti woh khud ko adjusting maanti hai.. baat pe ammal karna ya follow karna toh durr ki baat hai.. she doesn't even have patience to hear woh kya kehna chahta hai.. for all her tell me(s) she cannot even hear once what he actually is trying to say. So much adjustments BRAVA. Goonge se shaadi karti devi

The HM demand just cracks me up.....she wants a HM from the guy who lied to her and still hasn't told her where he was for 4 days?😆.....matlab bharose ki waat lagi padi hai but you think a HM will solve all issues? Without trust, this token so called "wifely haq" will be meaningless.....but Malini is incapable of understanding that I guess. Her biggest focus should be on the broken down trust between them....but now she is just lashing out wildly demanding all manner of random things....kabhi date, kabhi attention, kabhi biwi wala haq....all these things don't grow trust where none exists, Malini didi. Rofl for real it felt like after daant how kids go ok ab daant toh lia hai give me my chocolate now.. like saaara argument ya questions and talk gayi bhaad main nikalo mera HM😆 And the generosity she showed ke ab nahi chahiye mujhe I was like are you sure.. caz aapka asal gripe and resentment toh wohi hai ke HM pe nahi gaye jaise sab jaate hain... duniya main log hain who have lived a successful marital life despite not being ever stepping out of the house saath main for any kind of vacation or trip .. HM doesn't guarantee a smooth sailing understanding and trust and compatibility does.. HM isn't some ticket to success ke le lia toh sab kuch sure shot nibh jaayega HM ticket ke saath actual issues will be dissolved well no unless you guys get new brains.🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL that actually just made me laugh....she was trying to say it with her "cute" wala face accompanied with her usual giggles like it's oh so cute to laugh over Imlie ke "tamaashe"😆.....Malini and reading the room? Aap kuch zyada nahin expect kar rahi Didi se?😆

Malini definitely tries in her subtle ways to relegate Imlie either to naukar status or to an object of ridicule.....isse nahin bardaasht hota that Imlie becomes the object of admiration vis a vis being praised for her confidence/poise. She can praise Imlie but only within the parameters that are acceptable to her....that Imlie is some childish crackpot who solves ghar ke random issues.....anything more than that which inches towards the perception that Imlie can praised on an "equal" scale as her, toh Malini's face falls....as was obvious with her reaction to the family praising Imlie for the PC.

Education is a great equalizer na....and as Imlie climbs the ladder of education, acquires the polish that comes with it, she will come into her own full potential...which will not just pull her up to the levels of Malini in terms of education/appearance, but move her much beyond that cuz she is a much more naturally dynamic personality destined to draw awe from people. I feel like Malini subtly senses all of this and is acting out because of that also....right now, no matter how much everyone praises Imlie in the family, her social standing remains below that of Malini na, so Malini is ok with participating along in that praise since it never feels like Imlie can be considered equal to her/better than her....but as Imlie is crossing milestones in her education - first with this exam, now moving onto college, Malini is feeling that sense of superiority slipping away from her subconsciously.....and it's revealing an unpleasant side to her personality of envy, pettiness towards a girl who has unconditionally given her adoration.

All of this is seperate from her resentment of Adi giving Imlie importance.....I think even without that, Malini is growing resentful of Imlie being viewed as anything other than a jhalli clown.....it is comfortable for her that Imlie be viewed as a joke...not something to take seriously....but that press conference challenged that perception as Imlie impressed everyone....and it gave Malini pause ki aise kaise ho sakta hai😆.

Hallelujah.. 🙇‍♀️. So much word to all this I felt maybe I was seeing too much but glad to know it wasn't just me.. her tries to put her down or ridicule her more these days are so much more highlighted she is always making those faces or giving those sarcastic smiles and acting as if imlie jis cheez ko chu li woh iske kaabil nahi rahi..basically her native and bitter aide is more and more becoming apparent.. she cannot see logon ka perception changing towards imlie too and the family appreciating her for more than the goofball that she has been so she purposely diverts their attention everytime with oh imlie the stupid girl who always makes mistakes who doesn't know how to carry herself so let me groom her let me be the attention holder still caz the whole.malini is star has slipped not only for adj but for fam too they are treating her more as one in the crowd too asking her for help.in domestic matters not giving her the VVIP treatment though they still maintain that distance .. but it is not like kabhi isko paani ke liye bhi nahi poochna type basically settling more into how normal families do after few months where he bahu becomes part of the household and the barriers are broken only in her case the barriers are very much there but they tend to ignore the special treatment In a sense so she wants that by putting imlie down more.. and then her being more intelligent more smart being able to deal with press or people and charm them even on her worst possible day too are the things that are making her more insecure ke imlie had that quality to become so much more and is that she doesn't need to demand the attention uske aate hi attention uski taraf jaati hai sabki is making her more deliberately ridicule her ke kahin uth na jaaye kisi aur ki narrow main basically she is trying to push imlie down more and more so kahin equal standing na honjaaye iski society main

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Absolutely it's a shame....but it would be an even bigger shame if the writers didn't unravel these past 7 years in some sense to address how they got to this point😆.....none of this is happening overnight or in a vacuum....Adi-Malini's inability to communicate with each other is a long standing issue that they have both avoided discussing directly. I honestly feel it's badly needed for Adi to address the fact that he's just been blindly apologizing to her for so long on autopilot without meaning it.....and why that has brought them to the mess they are in.

Malini asked him a lot of pointed questions in that convo that he needs to dwell on.....in the very least, the one regarding why he married her.....that demands introspection from him beyond whatever little he's done so far.

And yes, I agree that some kind of follow-up conversation is needed between Adi-Imlie after this.....I feel we just may get it in todays' epi.....let's see.

A follow up would be nice though but idk if today would be the right time due to the heated argument I think thida cool down ho jaaye adi before imlie approaches her in this matter.. warna toh dobara ladega hi ke ab tum bhi mujhe hi dosh do😆

Yes adi needs to replay this in his head and try to figure the answer ab toh iske dimmaag ki bati jalni hi chahiye. He should ponder ke sach main kyon ki.. an toh itna direct pooch lia didi ne. And usually his bulb turns on when someone asks so saamne se hi. Dekhte hain

Originally posted by: AreYaar

🤣....Wait, does this mean that Jhansi ki Rani wala Roop is acceptable now that delicate Didi has displayed it? 😛,.....cuz otherwise toh we were told not to expect this from her, right? 😆....we were told it's unfair expectation to expect Malini to be "strong"😆.....waise I don't think her tantrum yesterday showed any strength either toh khair chhodo😆.

To answer your question....yes😆....that is exactly what she conveyed....that she will get over everything - all his lies, avoidance of her etc. as long as he gives her wife wala HAQ😆....definitely seemed like desperation talking....cuz she didn't want to hear what Adi was saying at all....bas shout kar rahi thi and haq demand kar rahi thi.....and haq in her dictionary does seem to only constitute time and attention from him....uske aage I dunno😕😆

Koi didi ko batao sirf biwi wale Haq and tag se rishte nahi sambhalte nahi toh Dunia main koi bhi shaadi kabhi tooti nahi caz majority toh kisi na kisi point pe haq dete hi hain and phir bhi alag bhi ho jaate hain🤣

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Koi didi ko batao sirf biwi wale Haq and tag se rishte nahi sambhalte nahi toh Dunia main koi bhi shaadi kabhi tooti nahi caz majority toh kisi na kisi point pe haq dete hi hain and phir bhi alag bhi ho jaate hain🤣

Exactly...relationship need a lot more than haq🤣😆especially trust 😛. Aditya sach bol raha that but Malini ne believe hi nahi kiya na importance diya 😆😆