Men don't feel guilty for cheating

I am not sure all men or all women but for sure Adi doesn’t feel the pain he is giving malini. Moral rule of conduct is also gone down to tubes. He is sooo wrong to bring imli back in the house. He is behaving like a spoiled rotten teenager wanting his toy.

Here comes Malini Brigade... Imlie is his 1st wife and Malini 2nd wife(Illegal). Yes he did wrong by marrying her and for that Malini can send him to jail but he is not cheating on her. He has known the reality that Imlie is his only wife and he is working to get Imlie her rights... He is always ready to tell the truth but he cannot because this lady is not ready to listen the truth... and is super fragile. Malini is in Pain.. what about Imlie... just because she does not keep doing emotional blackmail she does not deserve happiness...

She did not get father love and Malini Got...The girl has been in pain throughout and you guys still want her to be in pain... Imlie ke hisse me pain tha toh usne life me jhela and became strong... Malini can also try to be strong and move out from loveless life.. Imlie be there or not.. Adi would have soon realized the reality of this fake superficial relation. So stop blaming Imlie or Adi.

STOP spreading this as cheating.... Imlie is his first wife and he is giving the correct person correct rights.

Agree - this is NOT cheating.

IMHO - it is way bigger than cheating - it is a CRIME.

Adi must have annulled his marriage with imli before going ahead with malini - at least should have postponed second wedding until he is out of his marriage with imli legally.

adi is not some teenager - he is the mature man around 30, well educated and has explored the world - HE MUST BE WELL AWARE OF THE CRIME HE DID.

Imli and malin both have rights to send adi in jail - for double marriage.

@,telly agreed adi has not cheated on moon ..jinko pata nahi hai pls watch epi 26 ..wahan he did try to tell paar didi ko chakar aye ....so what was adi suppose to do tell her and take chance with her health ...

Secondly teeno ki zindagi twisted hai ...moon and adi because they tagged friendship as love ...

Adi imlie ...ki forced marriage ...but now he coming to his senses what is love who is his legal wife and what all he can do to repair the damage ...

Cheating tab hoti jab he knows his feelings for imlie but still trying to get close to moon ....

Originally posted by: water_83

@,telly agreed adi has not cheated on moon ..jinko pata nahi hai pls watch epi 26 ..wahan he did try to tell paar didi ko chakar aye ....so what was adi suppose to do tell her and take chance with her health ...

Secondly teeno ki zindagi twisted hai ...moon and adi because they tagged friendship as love ...

Adi imlie ...ki forced marriage ...but now he coming to his senses what is love who is his legal wife and what all he can do to repair the damage ...

Cheating tab hoti jab he knows his feelings for imlie but still trying to get close to moon ....

Yaar tum is moti roti ko reply kyun karte ho, isliye iske tewar chadhe hue hai...

Originally posted by: tellyme

Here comes Malini Brigade... Imlie is his 1st wife and Malini 2nd wife(Illegal). Yes he did wrong by marrying her and for that Malini can send him to jail but he is not cheating on her. He has known the reality that Imlie is his only wife and he is working to get Imlie her rights... He is always ready to tell the truth but he cannot because this lady is not ready to listen the truth... and is super fragile. Malini is in Pain.. what about Imlie... just because she does not keep doing emotional blackmail she does not deserve happiness...

She did not get father love and Malini Got...The girl has been in pain throughout and you guys still want her to be in pain... Imlie ke hisse me pain tha toh usne life me jhela and became strong... Malini can also try to be strong and move out from loveless life.. Imlie be there or not.. Adi would have soon realized the reality of this fake superficial relation. So stop blaming Imlie or Adi.

STOP spreading this as cheating.... Imlie is his first wife and he is giving the correct person correct rights.

This is not cheating😂😂 if my spouse marries and sleeps with another person, it won't be cheating. Because i'm the legally wedded person.

Adi didn't make a mistake. He only wanted to taste malini once. He didn't like , so throw her away.

Imlie suffered, so malini should also suffer😉

Originally posted by: Kaede

Yaar tum is moti roti ko reply kyun karte ho, isliye iske tewar chadhe hue hai...

Ok.. I know adi is not the perfect ML. He is shown with lots of flaws and neither are they glorifying his flaws. He did a mistake by not acting the way he should after the forced marriage , but again he is doing the same mistake if he doesn’t come clean in front of Malini and let her know that he fell out of love with Malini , coz it does happen in real life , people fall in love , fall out of love ... relationships end . People change over time . People are not just black and white , people are actually all grey . The cracks in their relation was shown where imli had nothing to do with it.

It’s just that adi being a man, didn’t take much time to get over it and while Malini being a woman still wants to cling to it and give it a try . Imli or no imli , the relation would have failed anyway , but imli being present in his life with open arms ( by which I dont mean that she lured him , I mean that there was already a half baked relation ) made things complicated for the three of them .

If he doesn’t have an honest talk with Malini , which I think he is planning to have , he will enter a new zone where he will be giving her false hopes and keeping her in the dark , which can also be interpreted as cheating .

there are marriage counselors for this very reason. But this is Indian TV , so they will show drama , and will expect couples to solve everything by themselves by holding them against Moral high ground.

coming back to the point.. has Aditya cheated ? Maybe yes , Maybe not yet , but he will soon enter into the cheating zone completely if he doesn’t come clean ... is it acceptable ? No. Can this be glorified ? No .
he got into a relation with Malini and before he himself decides to let go, he should also take Malini into confidence , make her understand the situation , give it that last chance for her sake , for the sake of those 7 years , for the sake of his promises he did in front of the whole society and law . If he can’t , he should atleast make it a process rather than cutting it off abruptly . With imli already present in his life , this has become abrupt for him . Remember , he didn’t pick imli , she was shoved into his life. Without imli , their marriage would have survived a little longer for both of them to realize that it will not work. They probably would have fought for their marriage , but not that chance is lost as Aditya is already invested somewhere else and sadly Malini is unaware of it.

This is a story of three people , how their lives changed due to one incident , how a third person enters in a relation and how the three people handle it.. things will be shown .. good , bad and ugly ... just sit back and enjoy the ride with them .. understand the back story rather than playing blame games ..and understand the bigger things like nothing is for ever in life .

Every character is at fault :

Aditya shouldn’t have done what he did - re married without putting proper end to the mess he was already in , not coming clean before Malini / his family taking Malini for granted. Not fighting for his marriage which in which he got involved whole heartedly. Untill he zapped all of a sudden.

Malini - making Aditya the center of her world for the past 7 years ... she must have ignored the signs that she’s bending too much for him and she doesn’t mean as much to him as he means to her , worse of all , she even judged her mom without knowing her mother’s pain and completely ignored her advice . Her mom with her experience was wise enough to understand that Aditya was not the right guy for her . Anus ways are wrong , but what she says is right.

Imlie - by holding on to her mangalsutra and forced marriage even after knowing that the other party in this marriage was not interested in doing so and already has someone in his life . What was all that drama of vrat and all.. the guys not interest for gods sake ! But then she has an advantage of being a villager , being raised by an uneducated mother who never had the privilege of getting a sindoor,

for Aditya and imli - This is the love story of Aditya and imli ... unfortunately, the roles shift here and Malini become the third person . The kind of love and bonding Aditya and imli have for each other is rare to find in everyone’s life time and it’s worth fighting for . This is the process of their fight for their love , soon Malini will also understand it , if she wishes for happiness in their lives.

For Malini - should understand that marriage or being married is not the need of life, times have changed. Women are independent, they don’t need a man to survive , they deserve to be happy with the person who values them , not just because he is your husband , you should bend so much that you convince yourself that your happiness is only with him.

Spending your life time with the right person (for Malini ) and fighting for the honor of that relation is what is needed.( for Aditya and imli) is what I see it as.

Originally posted by: prietyp

Ok.. I know adi is not the perfect ML. He is shown with lots of flaws and neither are they glorifying his flaws. He did a mistake by not acting the way he should after the forced marriage , but again he is doing the same mistake if he doesn’t come clean in front of Malini and let her know that he fell out of love with Malini , coz it does happen in real life , people fall in love , fall out of love ... relationships end . People change over time . People are not just black and white , people are actually all grey . The cracks in their relation was shown where imli had nothing to do with it.

It’s just that adi being a man, didn’t take much time to get over it and while Malini being a woman still wants to cling to it and give it a try . Imli or no imli , the relation would have failed anyway , but imli being present in his life with open arms ( by which I dont mean that she lured him , I mean that there was already a half baked relation ) made things complicated for the three of them .

If he doesn’t have an honest talk with Malini , which I think he is planning to have , he will enter a new zone where he will be giving her false hopes and keeping her in the dark , which can also be interpreted as cheating .

there are marriage counselors for this very reason. But this is Indian TV , so they will show drama , and will expect couples to solve everything by themselves by holding them against Moral high ground.

coming back to the point.. has Aditya cheated ? Maybe yes , Maybe not yet , but he will soon enter into the cheating zone completely if he doesn’t come clean ... is it acceptable ? No. Can this be glorified ? No .
he got into a relation with Malini and before he himself decides to let go, he should also take Malini into confidence , make her understand the situation , give it that last chance for her sake , for the sake of those 7 years , for the sake of his promises he did in front of the whole society and law . If he can’t , he should atleast make it a process rather than cutting it off abruptly . With imli already present in his life , this has become abrupt for him . Remember , he didn’t pick imli , she was shoved into his life. Without imli , their marriage would have survived a little longer for both of them to realize that it will not work. They probably would have fought for their marriage , but not that chance is lost as Aditya is already invested somewhere else and sadly Malini is unaware of it.

This is a story of three people , how their lives changed due to one incident , how a third person enters in a relation and how the three people handle it.. things will be shown .. good , bad and ugly ... just sit back and enjoy the ride with them .. understand the back story rather than playing blame games ..and understand the bigger things like nothing is for ever in life .

Every character is at fault :

Aditya shouldn’t have done what he did - re married without putting proper end to the mess he was already in , not coming clean before Malini / his family taking Malini for granted. Not fighting for his marriage which in which he got involved whole heartedly. Untill he zapped all of a sudden.

Malini - making Aditya the center of her world for the past 7 years ... she must have ignored the signs that she’s bending too much for him and she doesn’t mean as much to him as he means to her , worse of all , she even judged her mom without knowing her mother’s pain and completely ignored her advice . Her mom with her experience was wise enough to understand that Aditya was not the right guy for her . Anus ways are wrong , but what she says is right.

Imlie - by holding on to her mangalsutra and forced marriage even after knowing that the other party in this marriage was not interested in doing so and already has someone in his life . What was all that drama of vrat and all.. the guys not interest for gods sake ! But then she has an advantage of being a villager , being raised by an uneducated mother who never had the privilege of getting a sindoor,

for Aditya and imli - This is the love story of Aditya and imli ... unfortunately, the roles shift here and Malini become the third person . The kind of love and bonding Aditya and imli have for each other is rare to find in everyone’s life time and it’s worth fighting for . This is the process of their fight for their love , soon Malini will also understand it , if she wishes for happiness in their lives.

For Malini - should understand that marriage or being married is not the need of life, times have changed. Women are independent, they don’t need a man to survive , they deserve to be happy with the person who values them , not just because he is your husband , you should bend so much that you convince yourself that your happiness is only with him.

Spending your life time with the right person (for Malini ) and fighting for the honor of that relation is what is needed.( for Aditya and imli) is what I see it as.