A new birth for Adi - Page 9

Originally posted by: tellyme

I have one point here... If Adi himself declare himself as Imlie's husband with his own consent then he should convey the truth to Malini. After accepting the relation there is no point of hanging out with 2 wives. Coz that will be complete cheating and unethical. Imlie is ready to leave him but for whatever reason he is accepting Imlie as his wife he should give up Malini. If Malini then decide to even send him to jail he should be ready but it will be wrong to accept 2 women as a wife. I think even Imlie should not accept this sharing husband concept.

Till now he ad not accepted Imlie as his ife so PDA was acceptable but now it will be cheating both and in front of doing it with Malini will be clear hit on her respect. It will be like, I have accepted you as wife but you have to bear me romancing with my 2nd wife. It will also be cheating on Malini as he has accepted other woman as his wife and hiding truth from her... It will me somewhat similar to the act of Vanraj

I don’t think we should take the precap/promo in a literal sense. I think it is just to show the next phase in their relationship. In the bike convo that Adi and Imlie had, Imlie was able to accept everything that Adi said except for the fact that he is not her husband. Imlie’s belief is very important to her and she doesn’t have any expectations from Adi but she wants him to respect her belief. I think that is what will happen.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes it's very obvious especially if you binge-watch the show....which is what I did a month back when I fully got into it....and this is why I'd made that thread wondering about Adi's constant anger/scolding directed at Imlie.....there was a clear pattern that he was holding on to his anger desperately to not let her make inroads with him or his family.....and he did even tell her a few times that this is what he feared....that the family will get attached to her and then it will be harder when she leaves cuz her leaving is inevitable.

It is not at all a stretch to say that Imlie has a near magical ability to make almost anyone with a good/decent heart fall in love with her pretty quickly.....and Adi totally witnessed this ability of hers in real time with his family....she pretty much won over most of them within half a day of meeting them....lol by day 2 or 3, they were already calling her part of the family after that "thief" incident got resolved....so yeah takes over everything pretty quickly in a positive way, mad as she is.

Honestly, she is a perfect fit for the mad Tripathi family....they are also very good hearted people with a mad sense of humor about many things.....and Imlie's the same😆......I've said this before also ki apnapan hi apnepan ko samajhta hai......when you are someone who believes in genuinely trying to make a person feel apna, you recognize a kindered spirit.....Imlie is that person for the Tripathis. Inserts supreme tea ka catchphrase which is pretty apt yehi toh hai apnapan😆 idk how many of you are aware lol.. anyway coming back to the topic .. exactly this.. they don't need to do much but they connected like they haven't been able.to.makini sure they can be nice and trying to.coax her to.al.and care and be concerned but woh aonapan heavily lacks and gets taken over by a thick layer of formality even in their concern they can never be open to her in joking around or pulling her leg or showing concern sab bobat oopri oopri sa lagta hai despite then probably genuinly taking her as family but with imlie they don't even need any rishte ka naa. Yeh woh mazbooti dikhti hai the way they take decisions in her matter the way they show concern in her matter.. remember the goli incident or whe she fell sick before they were all off the hook in concern taking care as there very own jaise khokn se hi bandhe hain heck adi se zyada care and concern dikha di imlie ke liye 😆 Caz out of the 3 she is the one who is most connected to the family as a whole. Adi is their apna beta but baat wohi hai ke walls bohat banayi hain usne bhi he keeps then at bay so everyone stays out of that boundary .. with imlie they take full liberty caz she is the one who understands then the best and be there for them the most.. and then contrast it with the concern for malini sure they did Rona dhona but it didn't had woh genuineness ek bihat artificial feel tba ke it is expected from.them toh they are doing it and once she was home they were like whetever and still fussing over imlie aaeam kar rahi ke nahi the whole episode of everyone trying to make sure she rests and takes care .. it showed such a deep underatanding ke they know exactly what she will do.uski rag rag se waakif hain unlike malini who they took for she can care for herself. Not like imlie cannot but woh natural chinta ek dum from the deep bond they share usse aati hai..

Yes, Malini is a very nice/sweet person to them too....but nice/sweet doesn't always translate to apna....that is a deeper level of warmth.....and I could see from the beginning of the story only that while Malini was very nice/sweet to Adi's family, she could never really get to the APNA vibe with them.....and that is what I think is showing cracks now even more even though they are all rallying around her to support her in her complaints about Adi.....but it's not feeling like it's coming from a space of truly being connected as one family.

This is what happens when you don't know how to manage your relationships....now you've made a spectacle of your husband and your marriage in front of his whole family....even if you felt "comfortable" enough to think you can just spill out all your random grudges to them and they will understand.....this doesn't really help bring families together.

Imlie juggled a crazy amount of things in her early days in the house....Adi's constant anger/denigration, her own trauma/hurt, bonding with each of the Tripathis in her own way.....and she came out weaving all of them closer together rather than picking them apart. As you said, none of it was ever from an ulterior motive....that was just who she was.....so yeah that subtle symbolism was there from the beginning only that Imlie had a unique knack to connect to this family, to Adi as well (even though he had walls up in defensiveness) and she built bridges in her entire time there until we've now reached a point that even Adi feel suffocated in the house without her.....and the family is listless missing her so badly. The same Adi who once told her that she can't connect to his family since she will hurt them when she leaves is now telling her to come back because his family treated her like a daughter so how could she leave? 😆

I also want to add that on the surface, Malini looks so put together as a person...sweet and nice to everyone in Adi's family too and generally appearing to be a pleasant part of the family now....but if you dig under the surface, she is a slow rolling chaos that's building up. While Imlie on the other hand looks like chaos on the surface....a true blue JHALLI with mussed up hair and wacky antics....yet on the inside, she is way more put together - emotionally and mentally strong enough to withstand n number of crises.

So goes to show, appearances are never the whole story and can be deceptive many times. 😛😆

Word about looks can be deceptive.. only chaos like imlie has the bearings to wither the equal amounts if chaos that the tripathis and imlie.can be.. malini.is too fragile to.handle anything they throw her way she isn't just made for those kind of things as she has lived a very protective life not.her fault but none of it prepared her for koi bhi hardships and not like dealing with sasural is counted as one hardship in real it is expected ke.samjh lo kar lo handle but asal main it is one and one has to walk on eggshells only to make the bonds and solidify ones position.. with imlie she was at a point where she had nothing to lose as well as she has seen life so slowly she can predict and expect what's to come she had that human emotions ke saath jaan pehchaan living In the village in an environment where everybody is your own and it.is a fact aaj bhi gaoon qasbon main people are so connected something happens at one.place and everyone is.invilved suddenly. Not something that hapless in cities.. also with malini she only lived with her problematic parents hardly got to experience life aise one to one.. so how can she presume how one will behave in a particular situation beyond what she has seen .. real life exposure hai hi nahi isse with her mother keeping her like a porcelain doll.. while imkie and tripathis gel on this only the very fact that they have a much wider workd and raw experiences with bahari duniya.. given their background

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think it might be Nishant ultimately if he survives his leukemia😆.....but you're right, one can't say what level of friendship he will manage to build with her.....lol I toh am just super amused at everyone's confidence over how much Adi loves Malini😆.....talk about putting on a good show, Adi babu *slow claps*....haha....the signs of them falling apart are staring everyone in the face but Adi's solid acting in all his PDA mush sessions has managed to overcome all these glaring cracks😆......like I said a few days back also....his true calling appears to be acting more then journalism😆.

Malini will play the victim card for as long as she can until she is finally forced to face the truth that she has lost Adi.....only after that is when she may have a phase of genuine self-reflection regarding how blind they both were in their 7 years together without really having known each other.

Do they really beleive that though ? Or they just roll with it caz according to them.malini nahi.toh koi nahi milti inke pyare adi ko uske bas ki baat nahi thi😆 To me it looks more and more like yeh bechare ehsaan tale hi dabbe hain ke kahin yeh bhaag gayi toh adi ka kya Hoga iss liye iski Minnatein samajatein karte raho😆 uthathe raho iski nakhre and ji huzoori .. poor people kahan phass gaye.. this is probably why they eat up their pride too in order to keep AC raazi khushi caz inke adi ka kuch na hota otherwise 😆 too bad adi ka bohat kuch ho chuka hai.. if Only they knew.. they would be the happiest ke apne jaise Mile and will have a blast with mithi😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Word about looks can be deceptive.. only chaos like imlie has the bearings to wither the equal amounts if chaos that the tripathis and imlie.can be.. malini.is too fragile to.handle anything they throw her way she isn't just made for those kind of things as she has lived a very protective life not.her fault but none of it prepared her for koi bhi hardships and not like dealing with sasural is counted as one hardship in real it is expected ke.samjh lo kar lo handle but asal main it is one and one has to walk on eggshells only to make the bonds and solidify ones position.. with imlie she was at a point where she had nothing to lose as well as she has seen life so slowly she can predict and expect what's to come she had that human emotions ke saath jaan pehchaan living In the village in an environment where everybody is your own and it.is a fact aaj bhi gaoon qasbon main people are so connected something happens at one.place and everyone is.invilved suddenly. Not something that hapless in cities.. also with malini she only lived with her problematic parents hardly got to experience life aise one to one.. so how can she presume how one will behave in a particular situation beyond what she has seen .. real life exposure hai hi nahi isse with her mother keeping her like a porcelain doll.. while imkie and tripathis gel on this only the very fact that they have a much wider workd and raw experiences with bahari duniya.. given their background

Yes, the main thing to note here is that conflicts are INEVITABLE in life.....no one is saying that everyone needs to have immense mental/emotional strength to handle all of life's challenges....it's not even possible for everyone to have that capacity....some people are as strong as Imlie, many are not....and that's totally fine.....everyone's different.

The main problem here is that Malini is totally incapacitated by any mild disagreement or argument.....that is just not sustainable for any relationship. Conflicts will always come and go....if this is how you handle each one, your relationship will keep falling apart. Again, the focus is all on the fact that Adi left for two days, Adi lied....yes, those are all wrong things that she as a wife deserved answers to.....but to me, her handling of all this has superseded Adi's mistakes right now too cuz she's just been SO ridiculous in FUELING the chaos......problems toh aani hi hoti hain....but instead of trying to put out the fire, you are putting ghee in it....that is what Malini did all of last week despite her "main bechari" raag.

The contrast on the other side was so stark....Imlie faced far more complicated situations than Malini again.....trying to hide the fact that her husband never accepted her as his wife.....trying to protect said husband after he suddenly shows up in PD acting all weird😆....then trying to study for her exams....then literally seeing her husband almost dying in front of her eyes again.....she handled ALL of this without trying to add to the chaos.....at every point, she kept her wits about her even as she was dealing with so many emotional blows.....that is what makes her Imlie.

The simple reason in one line why Adi-Malini are not suited for each other is because Adi's life will always have conflict in it.....one, his work will take him to risky/conflict-ridden places and then two, he himself as a personality has lots of potential for conflict due to how complex he is......while Malini disintegrates at the first sign of a little conflict.....two people should strengthen each other's weak points....not make them worse. Malini is incapable of managing Adi's complications and Adi will sooner or later break under the burden of managing Malini's emotional weaknesses.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Do they really beleive that though ? Or they just roll with it caz according to them.malini nahi.toh koi nahi milti inke pyare adi ko uske bas ki baat nahi thi😆 To me it looks more and more like yeh bechare ehsaan tale hi dabbe hain ke kahin yeh bhaag gayi toh adi ka kya Hoga iss liye iski Minnatein samajatein karte raho😆 uthathe raho iski nakhre and ji huzoori .. poor people kahan phass gaye.. this is probably why they eat up their pride too in order to keep AC raazi khushi caz inke adi ka kuch na hota otherwise 😆 too bad adi ka bohat kuch ho chuka hai.. if Only they knew.. they would be the happiest ke apne jaise Mile and will have a blast with mithi😆

LMAO😆......and that just makes me laugh even more ki Adi ki image is SO LOW in the eyes of his own family🤣.....they literally behave like he's the worst guy in the world who could never find any woman toh bas ek Malini ka hi sahara hai....uske liye sab kuch jhel lo - including AC ki relentless beizzati.

Pehli baar kisi show mein apne hi ghar ke bete ki koi izzat nahin karta and considers him so gaya guzra that no girl can nibhaao with him 😆.

Review dekhna h meko kal 😆 raat tak epi ka wait nahi ho payega😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, the main thing to note here is that conflicts are INEVITABLE in life.....no one is saying that everyone needs to have immense mental/emotional strength to handle all of life's challenges....it's not even possible for everyone to have that capacity....some people are as strong as Imlie, many are not....and that's totally fine.....everyone's different.

The main problem here is that Malini is totally incapacitated by any mild disagreement or argument.....that is just not sustainable for any relationship. Conflicts will always come and go....if this is how you handle each one, your relationship will keep falling apart. Again, the focus is all on the fact that Adi left for two days, Adi lied....yes, those are all wrong things that she as a wife deserved answers to.....but to me, her handling of all this has superseded Adi's mistakes right now too cuz she's just been SO ridiculous in FUELING the chaos......problems toh aani hi hoti hain....but instead of trying to put out the fire, you are putting ghee in it....that is what Malini did all of last week despite her "main bechari" raag.

The contrast on the other side was so stark....Imlie faced far more complicated situations than Malini again.....trying to hide the fact that her husband never accepted her as his wife.....trying to protect said husband after he suddenly shows up in PD acting all weird😆....then trying to study for her exams....then literally seeing her husband almost dying in front of her eyes again.....she handled ALL of this without trying to add to the chaos.....at every point, she kept her wits about her even as she was dealing with so many emotional blows.....that is what makes her Imlie.

And that is why she only gets respect she is dealing with so much more than any other peer of her age can be with so much grace.. iss bacchi main jitna sehan Shamta hai adults main bhi nahi hoti just the ability to hold herself together in such emotional distress is next level apllauseworthy if only we all had thoda sa bhi of it.. usually people break a lot sooner and bade gyaani and duniya dekhe huye bhi.. yeh toh phir abhi itni inexperienced hai yet when it comes to her strength and her making any calls she can leave badon badon ko peeche with her simple presence of mind and sheer ability to talk it out and using her brain and mental strength. Not easy for her being this alone between her real family too... at this time she is pretty much alone in PD too but she is still putting itna brave foot forward taking all that life had to throw at her with not a single line of her face..

imple reason in one line why Adi-Malini are not suited for each other is because Adi's life will always have conflict in it.....one, his work will take him to risky/conflict-ridden places and then two, he himself as a personality has lots of potential for conflict due to how complex he is......while Malini disintegrates at the first sign of a little conflict.....two people should strengthen each other's weak points....not make them worse. Malini is incapable of managing Adi's complications and Adi will sooner or later break under the burden of managing Malini's emotional weaknesses.

Exactly ! This is the weirdo who knowingly walks towards death just so his jhalli can give an exam he prefers dying over making a compromise with the gaoonwalas.. how is malini capable to handle any if that when she cannot even deal with a 2 din ke liye jaana lie.. her thinking betrayed isn't wrong but her the way she is reacting to it is and no nothing can justify the way she made a tamsha over it.. even if she was hurt and unsatisfied she should have waited for adi to explain to her when he gets back .. that would have added to one feeling for her garnering some sympathy that yes it was wrong on his part but not anymore as salman khan says every season in BB rubber kar dia issue ko .. agar sahi bhi ho toh bhi itna keechna ke it loses its meaning and makes you look stupid instead.. which is what happened with malini and how she disrespected her own relationship.. jo bhi tha at the end of the day it was aapsi maamla that should've remained that.. and agar phir bhi koi explanation na milta toh OK she could have involved family but yeh kya tantrum hai Mai phone nahi karoongi her Sui is literally stuck there while she keeps elongating and making it the bigger issues then it is instead of trying to solve it..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes it's very obvious especially if you binge-watch the show....which is what I did a month back when I fully got into it....and this is why I'd made that thread wondering about Adi's constant anger/scolding directed at Imlie.....there was a clear pattern that he was holding on to his anger desperately to not let her make inroads with him or his family.....and he did even tell her a few times that this is what he feared....that the family will get attached to her and then it will be harder when she leaves cuz her leaving is inevitable.

It is not at all a stretch to say that Imlie has a near magical ability to make almost anyone with a good/decent heart fall in love with her pretty quickly.....and Adi totally witnessed this ability of hers in real time with his family....she pretty much won over most of them within half a day of meeting them....lol by day 2 or 3, they were already calling her part of the family after that "thief" incident got resolved....so yeah takes over everything pretty quickly in a positive way, mad as she is.

Honestly, she is a perfect fit for the mad Tripathi family....they are also very good hearted people with a mad sense of humor about many things.....and Imlie's the same😆......I've said this before also ki apnapan hi apnepan ko samajhta hai......when you are someone who believes in genuinely trying to make a person feel apna, you recognize a kindered spirit.....Imlie is that person for the Tripathis.

Yes, Malini is a very nice/sweet person to them too....but nice/sweet doesn't always translate to apna....that is a deeper level of warmth.....and I could see from the beginning of the story only that while Malini was very nice/sweet to Adi's family, she could never really get to the APNA vibe with them.....and that is what I think is showing cracks now even more even though they are all rallying around her to support her in her complaints about Adi.....but it's not feeling like it's coming from a space of truly being connected as one family.

This is what happens when you don't know how to manage your relationships....now you've made a spectacle of your husband and your marriage in front of his whole family....even if you felt "comfortable" enough to think you can just spill out all your random grudges to them and they will understand.....this doesn't really help bring families together.

Imlie juggled a crazy amount of things in her early days in the house....Adi's constant anger/denigration, her own trauma/hurt, bonding with each of the Tripathis in her own way.....and she came out weaving all of them closer together rather than picking them apart. As you said, none of it was ever from an ulterior motive....that was just who she was.....so yeah that subtle symbolism was there from the beginning only that Imlie had a unique knack to connect to this family, to Adi as well (even though he had walls up in defensiveness) and she built bridges in her entire time there until we've now reached a point that even Adi feel suffocated in the house without her.....and the family is listless missing her so badly. The same Adi who once told her that she can't connect to his family since she will hurt them when she leaves is now telling her to come back because his family treated her like a daughter so how could she leave? 😆

I also want to add that on the surface, Malini looks so put together as a person...sweet and nice to everyone in Adi's family too and generally appearing to be a pleasant part of the family now....but if you dig under the surface, she is a slow rolling chaos that's building up. While Imlie on the other hand looks like chaos on the surface....a true blue JHALLI with mussed up hair and wacky antics....yet on the inside, she is way more put together - emotionally and mentally strong enough to withstand n number of crises.

So goes to show, appearances are never the whole story and can be deceptive many times. 😛😆

@bold - it is almost like it’s devotion. Her Meera reference was plugged in right. Aditya has always been first for her. She took in the Ts because they were connected to him, apart from the fact that it is her basic nature and that she knows the value of having a family as a support system. Her decisions have always had Aditya’s well being in the center and he is aware of that. The pull he has had is because while he might be the chiraag of the house and all that, he’s never been the DNA. Imlie made him that strand. And that is why she will always be his foremost priority as well because she is the other strand for him. It is another thing that he is using his family as a shield instead of trying and answering the questions swirling about in his head.

The Ts are not a bad bunch by any standard. They are a wholesome lot and dysfunctional as any other family. Imlie touched a chord with them and they reciprocated immediately. And that is the sheer beauty of how families operate. The fact that Aditya’s parents do not understand him completely - well uske liye bhi toh Imlie hai. Time aane pe theek kar degi sab kuch.

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Review dekhna h meko kal 😆 raat tak epi ka wait nahi ho payega😆

I'll suggest you to expect the worse because this show is an emotional roller coaster. Bechari meri sis musicmuse tak na jhel paye, she quit the forum like me. Mein to bas aiwayi hun, kuch din ke liye. Yahan pe mun aur uska jaap.chalta rahega.

Adi accepting her as wife in heart will be crucial, if he will accept her as sis in law then the show will be doomed. Right angle triangle will fall flat aur phir nishlie ki love story dekha jisme muzhe ghanta interest nahi hai, praklie ke liye to dekh bhi lun because although praksh is not Greek god, his character seems real and he's better looking than Nishant

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LMAO😆......and that just makes me laugh even more ki Adi ki image is SO LOW in the eyes of his own family🤣.....they literally behave like he's the worst guy in the world who could never find any woman toh bas ek Malini ka hi sahara hai....uske liye sab kuch jhel lo - including AC ki relentless beizzati.

Pehli baar kisi show mein apne hi ghar ke bete ki koi izzat nahin karta and considers him so gaya guzra that no girl can nibhaao with him 😆.

Rofl yup but adi.maharaaj thinks he is the best🤣 iska bas chale toh peeche BG score laga ke chale I am the best I am the best I am best..🤣

Rofl adi ko.chodo the mummies who otherwise were so thrilled to find a bahu for nishu jaisa boring insaan too were just resigned in adi ka matter they also gave up on their match making skills ke iska liye na ho paayega poori dilli milke bhi auntiyan na kar paayein yeb🤣

It is kinda refreshing though to see them treat like this rather than the usual humara heera beta crap 😆 who can do no wrong yahan ultra hai.bechara sahi bhi.karta hai toh they go oh adi no he can never do anything right 🤣