Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 62

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Nahi voh aayega aur shayad uske saath bhagegi uske abhi tak spoilers true hau 🤣🤣

Uske sath kyu bhagne lagi bon😲🤣🤣 kya true nikla uska?😆

Originally posted by: dsm123

I hope I'm not in minority again. I've not seen episode yet but my friend gave me detailed update and I'm still not happy🤣

Bon's nibbi behaviour is lame excuse to justify Ani Ani was the one who had said bon will experience changes after hitting puberty both physical and emotional etc... ik bon is not at all in love with Ani right now.. she's behaving like this bcuz of kaka and society... but deep down it's also true that even if bon had crush on Ani its somewhere justified... Ani is only man in her life.. she's unaware of shadi truth.. and most importantly look at the way Ani used to behave with her.. doing all pati patni jaap,mann ki taar, dil ki ghanti etc.. kisi ko bhi crush ho jayega aise pati pe🤪🤣 and again I'm repeating its 1920 for god sake.. If bon actually had crush on him doesn't make her wrong. Here Ani needed to make her understand like he did during "good touch bad touch" or "periods"

But the way he's chosen is still unacceptable for me.. Calling marriage swang or jhut is a big big NO for me🤢 you're making her entire existence as BARC fake that too in front of entire village👏 isn't it still insulting and disrespecting? ARC was never ever aisa..never😵 Ani badly needs reality check on how last 100 episodes he himself behaved like a typical husband and at times behaved like in love makers have completely forgotten all this?

My only hope is BONDITA now. Makers better don't ruin her character more and please keep her self esteem intact...i've less hopes regarding this too😒 😔

@ bold: same pinch.. i said same while quoting other post.. just forget about their relationship for moment ,fir bhi agar bon ko ani pe crush na hota tohi problem wali baat thi.. dr. Ke pass ke jana tha😂 n here they have/had beautiful bond tab to crush hona hi hona tha..

In my opinion love is already there in their relationship ye crush baad me aaya.. ani badly needs to realise this pure love.. take strength from it and stand high with bondita against these social norms.. their marriage is all good n perfect for that era..

Baki episode to dekha nai hai so scenes pe nai bol sakati..

Originally posted by: Mugkale

Hii, first thing i haven't watched epi yet so cannot comment on scenes

As usual I loved your POV.. som ko to abtuk kitani baar crush ho bhi chuka hoga.. easne apane dada ko bataya nai hoga darake.. par ani ko som tak bhi jane ki jarurat nai, he himself had this experience, he had his 'childhood love'.. never thought ke kabhi ye bolungi but ani ek baar mini ko yaad karale... Even she must be of bon's age when she developed soft corner for him.. that too on just khayali batten because they were not together

n jaise ani ka AE ke bare me sochna natural hai.. utna hi bon ka ani ke liye.. just forget about ani bon moments for a minute.. fir bhi bon ke umar me ani jaise dashing n handsome ladake pe crush hona.. na hota to sochane wali baat thi..N here in bon's case I feel use pyar pahale hua n Crush baad me😂

ok, in my personal opinion deep love can be rooted only when we spent time with each other to understand each other... n Rudhita are pro in it.. love is already there, problem is they are fantasizing it under social pressure.. for ani fantasies are scary as he knows everything n bon fantasies are exciting Caz she knows very little..

Baki ani should realise it.. hold her hand tight n set n example of a strong couple who can drive their rishta on their own definition n not on social norms... Etc.. pahale hi bol chuki hun..

Mugsss...🤗 Love your points. Waqai, jab Mini ko iske liye crush develop hua hoga tou uss waqt sab sahi tha. 😆

Abh sab ghalat lag raha hai... but fault uski bhi nahi hai. I have started to believe ke us ne shayad kabhi Bondu ko iss nazar se dekha hi nahi tha jo hum sab itne time se samajh rahay thay.

Baqi miene na apna thoda sa view inke 'love' ke baray mien abhi thodi deir pehle dia tha. I dont think now that they love each other. They are very attached with each other as any two people who spend a great amount of time together would feel for one another.

I dont even think now that Aniruddh even takes Bon as a girl. Shes like a doting cat jo har waqt ghoomti rehty hai apne owner ke aas paas.

I am not saying this in a derogatory way. Its just an example. 😳

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Hi! Ayesha!

We may have thode alag views but aaj ke episode me Ani was a bit like that Bade bhai ka dost/dost ka bada bhai who often tends to be the first crush of a girl. So uske POV se dekhe toh he can see that someone he cares deeply, is going down the wrong path, and that society is celebrating it. And to his credit he is also aware that it is Bon's circumstances/society which is responsible for such behaviour.

I feel he is torn. On one hand he sees Bon is going down a wrong path and he wants to correct her, on the other hand Bon's crush is also a bit embarrassing for him. I think he would have been less embarrassed if Bon was crushing on someone else. And he also doesn't want to hurt Bon's feelings, just bring her back on track. During the whole episode he was trying and failing to explain something a mother or an older sister could do in a flash.

And yes he is failing today, because he has been pushed into the deep-end without being taught to swim. We shouldn't forget that he too is very young, too young to be parenting, let alone parenting a teenager.

Ashleyyy! 🤗 Its okay buddy. Disagreement hona koi ghalat baat nahi hai. 👍🏼

And what you are saying is quite right too.

Haha...i loved that baday bhai ka dost ya dost ka bada bhai analogy. 😆

What I think that Bondita is loving the idea of being in love with Aniruddh. And her gestures and all are freaking the hell out of Aniruddh because

1) He doesnt see her in that light.

2) He doesnt want her to go down the wrong path and deviate from her lakshya...

However Ashley, mujhe honestly inn sab baaton se ya Ani ke AE ke liye lovey dovey feelings hone ya na hone se bhi farq nahi padta.

Mujhe jo baatien ghussa dila rahy thyn woh Aniruddh ka tactless and useless tareeqe se saray matter ko handle kerna tha. As I mentioned in my post.

Aniruddh ka point ghalat nahi hai...uska tareeqa buht ghalat hai. Aur iss tareeqe woh actually ziada nuqsan pohancha raha hai Bondita ko.

Kher...miene Nima ko bhi yeh baat boly thy ke Uski acchi intention ke liye shayad I will find it somehow to forgive him. Until then, I will try to keep my reservations intact and see how it all unfolds eventually.

Abh iss sab ke baad if he starts realizing that he also loves Bondu (the non-physical types), tou kitna ajeeb lagay ga. Jab eventually accept kerna hi tha tou itna drama kis liye.

Kher...lets see kia hota hai.

Originally posted by: Indira12

Hi Ayesha!😳(Got to know your name from one of the above posts)

Aj ke episode mei they didn't show Ani having pyaar with Azadi Express. They showed more as Ani having admiration for her. Also he was thinking about Bon most of the time and when AE to praised Bon, he gave a wide smile too.

It looks like makers did plan a love story between Ani and AE but scraped it off due to the immense backlash they received on social media. It's like the makers are more confused than Ani. Else once they show that fb thing, the very next time they show only admiration. That letter wirting part could have more subtle but no, they want to show it with 'God knows what' implication. All these things about Bon changing in accordance with her puberty and Ani getting confused could have been shown without AE in the picture. And even if she was, a good friendship could have been shown too between Ani and AE which triggers Bon's jealousy. But they fed us with the fb scenes, Ani reminiscing her and all of that. And now they MIGHT completely ignore that part as if nothing happened.

Heyy Indira... 🤗Sorry for the late reply. Your points are very valid and I agree with them.

The makers scraped off because of the fan's reaction. And now they are trying to control the damage.

I am amongst those very few people who were not bothered about his feelings for AE because kt didnt matter for many reasons. I was preaching about normal hormonal locha and was advocating about his loneliness and all.

I got angry after I saw him announcing their marriage truth in such a stupid manner. And I am still unhappy with how hes dealing with the whole matter.

But lets just wait and see how all of this turns out eventually.

I was tou open to the idea of divorce too...I mean, I was actually being very open minded and practical about all the eventualities, human emotions and everything. Mager mera ganda wala popat hogya. 🤪

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Hi! Ayesha!

We may have thode alag views but aaj ke episode me Ani was a bit like that Bade bhai ka dost/dost ka bada bhai who often tends to be the first crush of a girl. So uske POV se dekhe toh he can see that someone he cares deeply, is going down the wrong path, and that society is celebrating it. And to his credit he is also aware that it is Bon's circumstances/society which is responsible for such behaviour.

I feel he is torn. On one hand he sees Bon is going down a wrong path and he wants to correct her, on the other hand Bon's crush is also a bit embarrassing for him. I think he would have been less embarrassed if Bon was crushing on someone else. And he also doesn't want to hurt Bon's feelings, just bring her back on track. During the whole episode he was trying and failing to explain something a mother or an older sister could do in a flash.

And yes he is failing today, because he has been pushed into the deep-end without being taught to swim. We shouldn't forget that he too is very young, too young to be parenting, let alone parenting a teenager.

Loved your thoughts... I have slightly different perspective on bon's crush.. may be Caz of my personal experience..having crush in teenage never distracted me from my studies or other personal chores.. it was just another beautiful feeling .. n I am sure this is the case with most of us

so i don't think bon is going on wrong path.. n for ani even he had such feelings for mini but he stayed focused for his degree even achieved gold medal, could set goal for life other than being happily married n wealthy person ..

the problem is he is unaware/ not accepting his own feelings for bon.. n at the same time he is having admiration/attraction towards another person....

@bold: cannot agree more

Originally posted by: sharafah

Awww you so sweet Aisha🤗🤗... Can't do that Aisha :( I really admire Ani for everything he has done for Bon but still upset with him until everything is cleared in the upcoming epi. so far the promos have 💔💔

@bold-reminds me of the scene in JAB WE MET 😆

Haha... yes yes Sharafah... its from JabWe Met.

And the scream wala idea is from Life in a Metro. Irrfan Khan suggested Konkona Sen Sharma to do this when she was heck frustrated about her boy friend who turned out to be gay and generally over her non-existing love life. 😆😆

Originally posted by: Mugkale

Loved your thoughts... I have slightly different perspective on bon's crush.. may be Caz of my personal experience..having crush in teenage never distracted me from my studies or other personal chores.. it was just another beautiful feeling .. so i don't think bon is going on wrong path.. n for ani even he had such feelings for mini but he stayed focused for his degree even achieved gold medal, could set goal for life other than being happily married n wealthy person ..

the problem is he is unaware/ not accepting his own feelings for bon.. n at the same time he is having admiration/attraction towards another person....

Good argument, Mugss... 👏 Valid points too. Thought provoking perspective.

Waqai...if it was okay for Aniruddh himself, why not for Bondu?

Sorry posted same thing by mistake

Originally posted by: Mugkale

@ bold: same pinch.. i said same while quoting other post.. just forget about their relationship for moment ,fir bhi agar bon ko ani pe crush na hota tohi problem wali baat thi.. dr. Ke pass ke jana tha😂 n here they have/had beautiful bond tab to crush hona hi hona tha..

In my opinion love is already there in their relationship ye crush baad me aaya.. ani badly needs to realise this pure love.. take strength from it and stand high with bondita against these social norms.. their marriage is all good n perfect for that era..

Baki episode to dekha nai hai so scenes pe nai bol sakati..

Totally agree with you Mugs.. Rudhita already have purest form of love from both sides.. ab suddenly Ani ko leke jo U Turn maara hain its 👎🏼

And the thing I didn't get at all is Ani was himself aware about having changes after hitting puberty.. he knew bon might develop such feelings (for him or not but in general) so instead of making her understand ki its all natural n all (but its time to focus on studies).(she doesn't have crush on him but hota toh ka bol rahi main🤣) .. He's kind of telling her ki she shouldn't have such feelings for "HIM" as their marriage is fake? matlab agar inka normal shadi hota toh Ani wouldn't have mind it?? Like he said during consummation fiasco ki wife adhikar nahi de sakta bcuz zimmedari maanta hu? Matlab normal shadi hota toh deta?🤪🤣 these ppl need to be careful what they're writing and what type of things we might conclude from whatever they are showing 🤣 mujhe samjh nahi aata kya phook ke likhte hain😵😆

Or they're Trying to show that Ani will never ever accept her as wife? If it is the case then Ani needs solid reality check 😡 all his pati patni jaap, Pati babu ki bon n allwhat's that???

Iss sabse Ani ka redemption kaise hoga yaar😭🤣