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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: bollyqueen0


Absolutely agree with your point that everyone's boundary should be respected.


As for your question - hmm, if I try to put myself in his shoes and think from his perspective...I think it is because when he is in a task he is fully ready and fully expecting people to touch him and him to touch others. When he is just going about in the house, he does not expect or want random people touching him because he has not given consent nor does a situation call for it.

That makes sense

Thank You

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Posted: 4 years ago
#12

I don't like this unnecessary discussion over his touch issue .


Koi aur mudda nahi milta kya 🤔

First Kavita & now Aly 👎🏼


That's why I low-key hate when BB asks hms to expose their secrets, yeh Aisa mazak banta hai serious issues Ka 👎🏼🤢

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: bollyqueen0


Absolutely agree with your point that everyone's boundary should be respected.


As for your question - hmm, if I try to put myself in his shoes and think from his perspective...I think it is because when he is in a task he is fully ready and fully expecting people to touch him and him to touch others. When he is just going about in the house, he does not expect or want random people touching him because he has not given consent nor does a situation call for it.

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This sounds a sensible approach 👍🏼

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Seriously ppl need to stop with the mocking now and put this topic to rest.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#15

If Rubina is criticized for using personal life to get mileage, the same applies to Eijaz too. Can we please keep personal issues aside and focus on what the contestant is doing on the show...just because others are not talking about their personal issues does not mean they don't have any!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: Miss.Zaidi

Honestly i have never liked people making issue of this topic be it on forum or in house .. i mean i always thought he had such terrible incident stop judging him .. but at the same time i do feel he gets carried away in tasks he pushed kashmira very badly in the task .. but just to be clear i dont for once doubt about his past .. i feel he cant lie such a big thing just for a game .. i feel bad for him


He didn't push kash. Kash locked him from the back. He shoved her hands off him. Lol.


Also just cuz someone has gone through a trauma toh who plays sports will stop playing? He obviously meant touch outside the task without his consent. Don't twist.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: cory

his thousand trigger points, his weird mood swings his childhood list goes on

What an insensitive comment.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Miss.Zaidi

Honestly i have never liked people making issue of this topic be it on forum or in house .. i mean i always thought he had such terrible incident stop judging him .. but at the same time i do feel he gets carried away in tasks he pushed kashmira very badly in the task .. but just to be clear i dont for once doubt about his past .. i feel he cant lie such a big thing just for a game .. i feel bad for him


Woh uske upar Chad rahi thi. She can do anything but kisi ke upar chad jaana, usne bahut baad mein nikala, kaafi samay tak woh chadi rahi, kiski ko gale se pagdoge toh woh nikalega hi

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dokudu_1


Woh uske upar Chad rahi thi. She can do anything but kisi ke upar chad jaana, usne bahut baad mein nikala, kaafi samay tak woh chadi rahi, kiski ko gale se pagdoge toh woh nikalega hi


Han agreed i was talking about other incident in which kash was inside that box cleaning the area and eijaz pushed her ..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aegon


Even if someone didn't face the trauma and doesn't like being touched, one should respect the boundary set by an individual.


But can you explain something without mocking or judging, how Eijaj has no problems with touch when he is in a task?

Like last task where he was pushing 3 people and 2-3 were behind him?

Everyone's Psychology is different but how do you know the limit?

Matlab, He will touch people in task but others can't touch him as it is a psychological issue which can trigger his past experience. I'd be cautious around him and make sure I don't touch him, but then he would push people he had problems with during task, how?



If I speak about myself, I don't like being touched therefore I don't touch people to make sure that they don't feel that they have a liberty to touch me. that's me, and I understand Eijaj is a different man with different issues


If I don't like people touching me, I won't do it too, how is it different in task?

A person who has touch issues has to make conscious efforts to overcome them. Secondly, you can’t compare the task touch with touch issues. In the task, with that much adrenaline secretion, people tend to go overboard. Don’t relate this to touch.

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