Ek Duje Ke Vaaste 2|Chat Club#10 - Page 73

Originally posted by: priya185

So I was trying to find videos to cheer me up and I found this

https://www.instagram.com/p/CBCySWiHXOP/?igshid=6dhg12tfru10

It's a cute video!❤️

Made me smile too!😳

TFS!

Originally posted by: priya185

So I was trying to find videos to cheer me up and I found this

https://www.instagram.com/p/CBCySWiHXOP/?igshid=6dhg12tfru10

glad you liked the video

My heart is still aching thinking about SSR's demise

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

Yes! Dil bechara which has been inspired from The Fault In Our Stars!

I was looking forward to watch that movie but it's going to be tough now!😭

Originally posted by: Meena_J

probably they are going to use an actor whose face will be reconstructed like sushant's face or the project will be scrapped or restarted from all over...who knows what will happen...his case kind of reminds me of pratyusha banerji case from few years ago...

In fast and furious Paul walker was added using technology

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

I saw some posts before where you guys were doubting Mohina😭🥺

I brought an exclusive pic from their 49th wedding [21(his bday)+28(her bday)=49] Their 49th wedding was the most grand one and probably the best👍🏼😆

They look so beautiful❤️

Long live the pair!🥳 Mohina Mohina🥳

The ones who will say this is photo-shopped I will pray that you get elaichi in your biryani, the cheese in your burgers and pizzas turns hard, your chocolates will be bitter, and what not🤣

Do not share this elsewhere! It's from a private photoshoot🤣

LOL Lavy you are so funny...man I hope Mohit never sees this though 😆 thanks for making me look so pretty btw...lol you combined the birthdates 🤣

Originally posted by: Meena_J

probably they are going to use an actor whose face will be reconstructed like sushant's face or the project will be scrapped or restarted from all over...who knows what will happen...his case kind of reminds me of pratyusha banerji case from few years ago...

I guess the shooting has been completed!

It was going to release this May!

Maybe the release would have brought him out of depression!

Corona has already caused so many losses

Originally posted by: alina.b

LOL Lavy you are so funny...man I hope Mohit never sees this though 😆 thanks for making me look so pretty btw...lol you combined the birthdates 🤣

Thanks!😆

Me too or if he sees this I am sure he is going to hate Pranushka_723 for the edit as well as getting him married😆

Show this to Isa when she comes tonight!😆

I am glad that I won't be here during that period or she would have killed me😆

I saw Sushant in Kai Po Che. My parents recently watched Chichore and said it was a really good movie. I believe this is the movie about suicide and depression. This is really heartbreaking. We never really know what someone is going through. Recently, his manager also passed away by suicide so I think that maybe that affected him too.

I think during lockdown, a lot of people have experienced mental health issues - some due to loneliness and some due to uncertainty of the future. I think one of you mentioned that he was depressed because his work wasn't getting recognized. We often base our self-worth on our success...that's because we live in a world that says that if we are not successful then we are a burden. But honestly, more than being successful, it's important to be a good person...that is something that is completely in our control. As humans, we are afraid of failure. We think that if we fail at our goal, that we have lost our purpose. That's not true....there is always light at the end of the tunnel and we have to hold on as difficult time will eventually pass. But, sometimes we don't reach goals and that's okay...because maybe this failure is a blessing in disguise. Maybe our purpose is something else...something better. It is good to be ambitious but at the same time, you should be comfortable with failure and not base your self-worth on success.

If you start thinking things like "What's the point anyways", "Do I even matter", "They would all be better off without me"...You DO matter...you matter to your friends and family...and sometimes to even a stranger who you give a smile as you walk by and that brightens up their day. We all have a purpose. I read this quote and I'm not a very religious person but it really hit me:

Another thing about depression is that you feel like you don't have any control over your life. It feels like you've fallen inside a ditch and can't get out. But nothing is ever the end. Life is like driving. There are many paths we can take when we drive and sometimes we reach a dead end....but you can always turn your car around and go another direction. The steering wheel, accelerator, and brake are all in your control....you have control over your life. Sometimes, we need to just take a break and reevaluate what we really want in life and then start on our journey again.

There is so much in life...so many paths, experiences, people, places to see...it's never the end. There is always a way. You are strong enough that you have made it this far and you are still as strong to keep going. I wish people would talk about mental health more openly not have stigmas attached to it. I saw comments like: He didn't even think about his family. OK but imagine how helpless someone must feel that they feel that taking their life is the only way out? We need to normalize getting help and seeing a professional therapist. Friends and families need to be more empathetic.

One thing that I saw that really bothered me was people saying that the friend he was staying with needs to be investigated. Do you even know how his friend must be feeling at this moment? He's probably blaming himself for letting him go by himself alone in that room. There's nothing worse than "I could have prevented this from happening". At least this friend accompanied SSR during his final moments in life...where was everyone else? Being around a depressed person is very difficult. Because you get in this mindset of "I can fix you" or "I will bring you back to who you were"...and we can't...then you're stuck thinking that "my love wasn't enough you" or "what more should I have done?" Before you know it, their depression starts engulfing you and then you are faced with the dilemma to save yourself or them? If you ever are in a situation like that, remember that you can only help another person if you're not drowning yourself, so choose yourself...you're not selfish. You did the right thing.

I wrote another essay yet again...but I feel like this is something very important to discuss. In a short time, you all have become very close friends. If there is ever something you just want to get off your heart, you can always reach out to any of us because that's what friends are for. Always remember, that you are loved and you do matter even if you don't believe it yourself sometimes....you have touched so many lives that you might not even remember. Life is hard but it's so beautiful. There so much to see and experience. One day, you will be old and will look back on life. It will be all the good things and bad things that will have made you into the person you are today and you won't regret a single thing. If you are going through a difficult phase, remember that this shall pass one day too. Never give up hope.

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

Thanks!😆

Me too or if he sees this I am sure he is going to hate Pranushka_723 for the edit as well as getting him married😆

Show this to Isa when she comes tonight!😆

I am glad that I won't be here during that period or she would have killed me😆

LOL Isa must be so fed up of us now 😆 but she should be used to by now lol. Hmm...are you not coming on our time so you don't get in trouble by Isa?? 🤣 Are you hiding from her?

Also, did you see Mohit's # of followers (68.1K) crossed Sautan's (67.7K)...idk why it makes me so happy 🥳 One day Pati will have 1M followers...but I hope he doesn't do some crap reality show like Bigg Boss...