Originally posted by: guddi01
I don't get why do we need to see a love interest for Mini, let her finish her Studies and do her further Education and her Travel Photography Course and Travel the world. Even HS has said to her follow your dreams and don't give up.
Who is saying we need it?????? And in any case how do having a bf and pursuing and achieving one's dreams, completing one''s studies, traveling the world, etc. contradict one other???
I do not want Babita to encourage this as Mini is still young and I hope that she is bright enough to see the parallel with her own life married at a early age and all ambitions ruined for the sake of puppy love etc.
Minnie will decide for herself. She is a strong, well balanced, intelligent young girl and even more mature than Babita for that matter. And where is the parallel???? They are two totally different beings with totally different upbringing and realities. And what's having a bf to do with getting married at 18????????????????????????????????????????????????? And why will ambitions be ruined??? And who decides if it's true love or puppy love????
Mickey from the beginning is shown as a fickle minded Boy going out with different girls at the same time is not good. Than after chasing Mini and getting nowhere decides to becomes boyfriend with Preeti. Does that not say anything at all about his Character towards girls. I would not want someone like that for my Daughters.
That's your decision for your daughters. Mickey is a young chap, still exploring himself. I don;t want to be judgmental about him. Even a casanova as you term him can truly fall in love isn't it? In any case he has been a true friend to Minnie and she really depends on him for help and advice and he has always stood by her and not supported her when she was going wrong as in looking for a new place to live in, etc. and he has always tried to make her look at different perspectives before jumping to a conclusion. That to me is a true friend. So even if we are being judgmental, Mickey is not a creep by any angle.
He is from a Conservative Punjabi farming family and he has no interests in Studying etc and I can see that if they paired them up another Babita in the making, which is not good as what will Mini have learned a Husband like her Father and She like her Mother looking after her in laws etc.
How do you know he has no interest in studying? In any case he is supposed to be a computer geek and very good with new technology stuff. Why are you fixated on marriage, in-laws, etc? Minnie is just 17 going on 18 for God's sake!!
This would mean taking your Friend's Boyfriend is a not done at all. This is not musical chairs that you change partners without thinking of your best friend feelings etc. In fact I would go as far has to say that Pretti is more suited for Mickey and fitting in with his family and serving the inlaws etc as she more docile and wants to get married etc and would fit in with them. Where as Mini is Bold and out spoken and has dreams which would not sit well with his Family.
You contradict yourself. Preeti is only as old as Minnie. Why such double standards? And why on earth would Minnie take her friend's boyfriend? May be they will break up, who knows????????? They are just kids after all.
I don't get how some will justify it by saying Mickey and Preeti don't look good together. Really this is crazy. Going as far as to say that a childhood friend is not good but a boy of a few months is a better friend really. Oh my.
Whaaaat??? You judge friendship by the amount of time spent with a person. How many years versus just a few months?? What about compatibility, sharing of ideas, same world view, etc.? Who does Minnie confide in? Mickey or Preeti? Who does she turn to immediately when she needs help? Mickey or Preeti?
In Friendship you can have a good friend who is a Girl or a Boy.
But I cannot get over this Mentality that when a Girl turns 16 years or so than she has to have a boyfriend no wonder there are so many issues regarding this harassment of young girls is crazy and many ruined young girls life's without z bright future etc.
No one is saying they HAVE TO have a boyfriend or girlfriend but they are teenagers and it's natural for them to be attracted to the opposite sex and these days at least in big cities like Delhi, Mumbai, etc., kids of that age do have bfs or gfs. No one knows if it's for keeps or not. It's normal. And no it's not going to make them neglect everything else. Kids these days are extremely smart, aware, pretty grown up and know their priorities and know how to balance things. They are very different from how we were.
And than on the other hand we worry about what will people say but ok for young girls to have boyfriends instead of studying and making something of there life's is crazy. Will people not talk than as well.
Is this for real. Please don't show this as there is already a big problem regarding this chasing of young girls with fatal results. Let us show that Girls too can have ambitions and reach for the stars without going the typical route girl reaches 16 to 18 years meets a boy and gets married while they are still children themselves without any ambitions in life and reaching for the stars is something that all Girls should be allowed to do instead of going the typical Marriage route of Marriage the minute they hit there teens is very sad and having children while they are still children themselves.
So sad.
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