Hanuman darling, please go and adopt Minnie legally and then ask your heart if you still want to marry Babita. If not, then call it off after talking to Minnie and Babita. If you do want to marry her, then ask yourself if now is the right time. If so, then you'd better start looking for a sherwani pronto. If not, ask the Commissioner to send you on more conferences and recruitment camps so that you are unable to take leave to get married any time soon. Also, please try not to scare or scar Lala, he still has dreams of being happily married to his Geeta Kumari.
Babita, now that HS has even taken over parenting from you, we expect you to have much more free time to introspect. Go and make some mango ice cream and think through things. If you still feel the need to compare HS and Ashok, then go to the police station where they have whiteboards and tabulate each man's faida and nuksaan columns so you can see the truth for yourself.
Both - don't let Minnie or anyone else make all the moves or decisions. Have more night-time chats and make more pots together if you need to, but decide on the wedding yourselves and also figure out how to handle finances as a family after you get married.