Message for Hanita - Page 4

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Not exactly. I don't think Lala is more matured than he is. Both are equals, Lala might be only less. Actually I don't think we can compare them, they're true life long companions with different personalities. If HS holds onto things, Lala always is the one who will let go, mitti pao person. They complement each other very well.

Wisdom comes with maturity! Lala seems less because he is not the lead, his character isn't explored in the same depth as HS'.

HS identifies and solves problem. (Like apologizing after paraya mard lecture- although apology didn't come voluntarily but never mind.)

Lala knows how to not create problem in the first place. He knows what to say, but more importantly he knows what not to say. That's wisdom. Comes with age and experience.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Wisdom comes with maturity! Lala seems less because he is not the lead, his character isn't explored in the same depth as HS'.

HS identifies and solves problem. (Like apologizing after paraya mard lecture- although apology didn't come voluntarily but never mind.)

Lala knows how to not create problem in the first place. He knows what to say, but more importantly he knows what not to say. That's wisdom. Comes with age and experience.

Exactly. He is more sensible.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Wisdom comes with maturity! Lala seems less because he is not the lead, his character isn't explored in the same depth as HS'.

HS identifies and solves problem. (Like apologizing after paraya mard lecture- although apology didn't come voluntarily but never mind.)

Lala knows how to not create problem in the first place. He knows what to say, but more importantly he knows what not to say. That's wisdom. Comes with age and experience.

But then will we have the same affection towards someone who doesn't err or rather isn't very expressive?

Lala's like me. Exactly like me. He got GK's letter and didn't open it for the fear of response. And that made him lose out on the movie date and perhaps the whole prospect of the relationship. Such introvert people require a little Poonam type dynamic women who know how to express. All I'm saying is that different type of people come with their own set of problems. What isn't a problem for HS can be a huge one for Lala. They're starkly contrasting in nature hence get along so well. They needn't be great and perfect as individuals.

From my POV, if I get someone like Lala, I don't think it'll ever work. I want people like HS, hence more affinity for him.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Uffff and THIS is the bottomline 🤣

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Originally posted by: inlieu

I knew you were going to say that. No chance with Lala, he is very much committed to GK.

Oho why does life have to be so complicated?? Finally when I thought I had Jean on another track and the line was clear for me, there comes Geeta Kumari Ji!!!😭

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Geeta Kumari writes him letters. He buys her gifts. They go for movies. So it seems that both are doing well in their relationship. It's not much discussed though. From what we see, it looks like Lala strikes balance with Geeta. They're not at loggerheads openly or secretly. HS and babita are not striking balance and more importantly HS is taking one step forward and then takes two backwards. Like they're undoing their love story. And I feel it's totally unnecessary.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Not now, yes.

HS needs someone who can understand him . I feel Babitha has not understood an inch of his character even after living in close quarters with him for so many months. Else she would have seen through his pain in apology drama. Now no matter how the CVS justify this I can't think of them having happily ever after. So I think they both should find someone else who can give them what they need from a life partner. It's just my opinion. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings.