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Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Guys the issue is we get so involved in shows and so much attached to characters v love that v hardly want to understand reality. All while we are talking abt Mini being matured and how we have not liked her.thus. But not liking her now when she really is behaving as expected means v have a problem just because we want the love story to go on. Honestly this is first reaction and isn’t it as expected. Here is a girl who loves her mother and is possessive abt her, who loves her father but has to hate him for the way he has behaved, who wanted a family but has seen her parents separate, who is not interested in marriage just because of what she went thru. She will def not want another man loving her mother. I mean isn’t that natural. Yes with time she may accept the reality, understand that her mother is a human being and has emotions, understand that her mother needs her space aswell and a relation other than mother daughter, that she needs a companion. But this is just the first time she has understood the feelings what HS has for her mother not for Babita (though always felt it was very evident that HS loved Babita so how Mini or anyone will not notice that.. is confusing) But as per the storyline she has not realised this till now hence first time would be shocking as per me. If they would show her accepting it easily then it would have been surprising. For her age her reaction is not wrong, infact this is the way she should have reacted. I hope you get the point m trying to make. I feel she might accept the fact or honestly might not in the long run. if we think from her perspective, we will find it right.

hello,

Its an open forum you are very much welcomed to write but do not tell me please what I have to do or think.THATS MY OPINION AND I VERY MUCH CLEAR ABOUT IT. I know you have a huge problame with h.S charecter( you print multiple write up aginst HANITA relationship) and I dont want toknow or ask you why? I never quote you or ask you if I dont agree with you.BOLD : Who told you I critisis minie beacuse of HANITA love story? Kindly read all my posts 1st. I am the last person who will get into this kind of petty issues but tioday I thought to tell you .Kindly dont assum everything just based on 1 comments. THANK YOU.

Originally posted by: Needblessings

hello,

Its an open forum you are very much welcomed to write but do not tell me please what I have to do or think.THATS MY OPINION AND I VERY MUCH CLEAR ABOUT IT. I know you have a huge problame with h.S charecter( you print multiple write up aginst HANITA relationship) and I dont want toknow or ask you why? I never quote you or ask you if I dont agree with you.BOLD : Who told you I critisis minie beacuse of HANITA love story? Kindly read all my posts 1st. I am the last person who will get into this kind of petty issues but tioday I thought to tell you .Kindly dont assum everything just based on 1 comments. THANK YOU.

I again wrote my view point like u wrote your’s. I feel her behaviour is justified. I do not have anything against the love story but don’t feel it should be the main story that is what I have emphasised on earlier aswell as now. But anyways that was not the context now. Context was Mini’s behaviour. You also have not read my posts properly as have not said they should not marry each other ever. But anyways having said that have nothing against you or your view points. You surely are free to write what u want and I read all viewpoints to get all perspectives aswell as personally feel it helps understand way everyone thinks as not all will think the way v do which is ok plus helps understand different ways of analysing a situation. This was just my view point.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I understand what you're saying. Even Ashnoor said that they are keeping the character and her journey realistic but showing her reacting this way. Plus, we knew from the beginning that she has anger management issues and recently was diagnosed with depression that she never fully came out of. Now they will focus on this.

Exactly her character went into depression a while back thought they did not want to stress on it. But to think of it a young girl getting burdened that way and being thought of to be so matured made her go into depression. That was really very much realistic but they cut it short as they did not want to focus on it. We have always said she behaves matured and her behaviour does not suit her age. They should have changed that. But today she is behaving as she should, it is realistic. I mean Evn if we think we are in her place for a second and the person who is our mother, whom v love a lot who we are possessive abt is being loved by someone who for us is another image all together, we can’t ever imagine him to have these feelings. This for us is a love story so we like it but it is not so simple for a 17 year old who has gone thru a lot already.

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Exactly her character went into depression a while back thought they did not want to stress on it. But to think of it a young girl getting burdened that way and being thought of to be so matured made her go into depression. That was really very much realistic but they cut it short as they did not want to focus on it. We have always said she behaves matured and her behaviour does not suit her age. They should have changed that. But today she is behaving as she should, it is realistic. I mean Evn if we think we are in her place for a second and the person who is our mother, whom v love a lot who we are possessive abt is being loved by someone who for us is another image all together, we can’t ever imagine him to have these feelings. This for us is a love story so we like it but it is not so simple for a 17 year old who has gone thru a lot already.

Another part of it is the fact that in recent times, Minnie has seen the men related to her Mother, who were supposed to respect and love her, do nothing but hurt her very badly: Ashok, Pinku, and even Dadu at times. To make things worse, she saw that her own father mistreated the woman he left her mother for. She doesn't trust men in general.

HS and Lala showed her a different side to men so she put them in a different slot altogether. Lala is like a brother to Babita so he's in the "safe zone" but she holds HS in such high regard as a dignified and honorable man that she cannot even picture him in anything but her mother's friend zone. The moment it goes into romantic feelings she gets freaked out because she feels that in some twisted way he betrayed her trust. Even though HS did no such thing Minnie will react this way because her image of her Hanuman Uncle has shattered. As I said in another post, this is also about Minnie learning to see HS in a different light, as a potential permanent member of her family.

I am really looking forward to her spats with HS. Their dynamics are the most interesting thing on this show, and I am curious to see what messages the writers will convey regarding depression and parenting teens.

For once keeping the HanIta angle aside,I feel more frustrated at how the Mother-Daughter duo treat HS and take him for granted.I understand that it's difficult for any to imagine someone else with their parents.I also get that some kids can be possessive of their parents.

But excess of anything is harmful and over possessiveness ruins relationships.Minnie's behaviour is obnoxious.This is not how you behave with a man who has unconditionally supported you and your mother without harbouring any ill intentions.This is not how you behave with elders.Period.

Giving HS a cold shoulder is what I call a natural reaction.But Minnie has a habit of going overboard with everything.At this rate Babes and Mini should better pack their bags off to some deserted island where the Mother-Daughter duo can alive alone without having to interact with fellow human beings.

Babita clearly likes HS but she has left him hanging on a thread because she can't allow anyone to enter the inner circle which her and Minnie are a part of.And Minnie,well,she eats and breathes Babes.I don't blame her for being attached to her mom but at the end of the day she and Babita are two different individuals.This isn't mere possessiveness.This is obsession.

I know that drama is necessary in order to push the story ahead but there should be fairness as well.I want Minnie and Babes to repent and realise that the way they treated HS was wrong.The writers have a tendency to justify Mother-Daughter's actions and validate them under the excuse of maa-beti ka pyaar.But this is clearly wrong.If they do walk out of the haveli then I don't want them to return because they feel that they are doing HS a favour by staying with him.They should return only when they understand how much HS means to them and how he is a part of their life.

Originally posted by: LawlessLawyer

For once keeping the HanIta angle aside,I feel more frustrated at how the Mother-Daughter duo treat HS and take him for granted.I understand that it's difficult for any to imagine someone else with their parents.I also get that some kids can be possessive of their parents.

But excess of anything is harmful and over possessiveness ruins relationships.Minnie's behaviour is obnoxious.This is not how you behave with a man who has unconditionally supported you and your mother without harbouring any ill intentions.This is not how you behave with elders.Period.

Giving HS a cold shoulder is what I call a natural reaction.But Minnie has a habit of going overboard with everything.At this rate Babes and Mini should better pack their bags off to some deserted island where the Mother-Daughter duo can alive alone without having to interact with fellow human beings.

Babita clearly likes HS but she has left him hanging on a thread because she can't allow anyone to enter the inner circle which her and Minnie are a part of.And Minnie,well,she eats and breathes Babes.I don't blame her for being attached to her mom but at the end of the day she and Babita are two different individuals.This isn't mere possessiveness.This is obsession.

I know that drama is necessary in order to push the story ahead but there should be fairness as well.I want Minnie and Babes to repent and realise that the way they treated HS was wrong.The writers have a tendency to justify Mother-Daughter's actions and validate them under the excuse of maa-beti ka pyaar.But this is clearly wrong.If they do walk out of the haveli then I don't want them to return because they feel that they are doing HS a favour by staying with him.They should return only when they understand how much HS means to them and how he is a part of their life.

Totally agree. Let them both pine for his attention and unconditional, pure, true love. Otherwise, they don't deserve him. He's way too good for them. He would go nuts all alone in the house but it's better than being treated this way over and over again. I only expect it will get worse in upcoming days.

Originally posted by: LawlessLawyer

For once keeping the HanIta angle aside,I feel more frustrated at how the Mother-Daughter duo treat HS and take him for granted.I understand that it's difficult for any to imagine someone else with their parents.I also get that some kids can be possessive of their parents.

But excess of anything is harmful and over possessiveness ruins relationships.Minnie's behaviour is obnoxious.This is not how you behave with a man who has unconditionally supported you and your mother without harbouring any ill intentions.This is not how you behave with elders.Period.

Giving HS a cold shoulder is what I call a natural reaction.But Minnie has a habit of going overboard with everything.At this rate Babes and Mini should better pack their bags off to some deserted island where the Mother-Daughter duo can alive alone without having to interact with fellow human beings.

Babita clearly likes HS but she has left him hanging on a thread because she can't allow anyone to enter the inner circle which her and Minnie are a part of.And Minnie,well,she eats and breathes Babes.I don't blame her for being attached to her mom but at the end of the day she and Babita are two different individuals.This isn't mere possessiveness.This is obsession.

I know that drama is necessary in order to push the story ahead but there should be fairness as well.I want Minnie and Babes to repent and realise that the way they treated HS was wrong.The writers have a tendency to justify Mother-Daughter's actions and validate them under the excuse of maa-beti ka pyaar.But this is clearly wrong.If they do walk out of the haveli then I don't want them to return because they feel that they are doing HS a favour by staying with him.They should return only when they understand how much HS means to them and how he is a part of their life.

👏👏👏.exact.you stated everything so nicely. Mother daughter both a have behavioural issues. No control over their words ,actions and emotions. Easily hurt other`s emotions and then ask for help when in trouble. But they can not take any sort of no from anyone. wow!!

Originally posted by: inlieu

Totally agree. Let them both pine for his attention and unconditional, pure, true love. Otherwise, they don't deserve him. He's way too good for them. He would go nuts all alone in the house but it's better than being treated this way over and over again. I only expect it will get worse in upcoming days.

More than HanIta it would hurt me to see Veer Balika turning away from her Hanuman Uncle.But I am just hoping that this is the first step for HS to get out of the unclezone and become Minnie's dad for good.

Yes, considering how much these two have been hurt by others, they seem to have become insensitive.

At the end of the day, HS is a widower who had been lonely all these years after Imarti died, who has no close relatives and has lived a very simple existence.

He showed his faith in them and let them live in his house when no one was helping them. He spent hours and days and nights helping and guiding these two. He laughed with them and cried with them. He overlooked their irrational behavior because he knew they were hurting.

Now that they've tasted success, which is clearly going to their head as he keeps hinting from time to time, they are even more insensitive. Basic courtesy is missing sometimes and I think they are also going to end up hurting Naeem bi at some point, because she too has been a great parental figure in their lives and has stood by them through all this. I know that HS will really lose it if that were to happen because she's the closest thing to family he has (as well as Lala).

Originally posted by: LawlessLawyer

I really want to trust the writers and hope that this track will eventually result in something positive.Just like the darkest nights are followed by dawn maybe this painful track will lead to Minnie-HS-Babes' bond emerging stronger than before.

More than HanIta it would hurt me to see Veer Balika turning away from her Hanuman Uncle.But I am just hoping that this is the first step for HS to get out of the unclezone and become Minnie's dad for good.

@bold - unclezone, indeed. We should use this term more often, thanks for coining it.

I agree with you, it would be hard for me to see her distance herself for HS. Today's episode proved how much she respects and loves him. I think she's going to be hurting on the inside as well while she turns away from him. I hope the writers will focus on their dynamics more than just the love story. It's a beautiful bond, rarely seen on ITV. I fell in love with HS' character because of this more than anything else and I hope the writers do justice to show how he would also be hurt as a father when his Veer Balika leaves him.