
The idea of love varies for every person and its parameters are equally asymmetrical. Perhaps, the release of Kabir Singh has whiplashed all the pre-existing definitions of love and has revolutionized the way we express it.
The film has already transformed the orthodox perspective of love and its synonyms range from the intimacy shared between a girlfriend and boyfriend or husband and wife to the simple warmth between brother and sister. Meanwhile, Shahid Kapoor’s intense love affair has been criticized by fans and critics for the promotion of misogyny.
Actor Hrithik Roshan has admitted that Bollywood has largely promoted heroes with ‘victim syndrome’ and propagated ‘this idea of obsessive love’.
In a recent interview with GQ, Hrithik said, “Every single Hindi film hero, until 2006, has had a victim syndrome, and propagated this idea of obsessive love. I blame my people for creating this mindset. I agree whole-heartedly, (with) the reviews of Kabir Singh fresh in my mind. The Hindi film hero is a baby. The only reason he thinks he’s strong is because he knows he has an audience. So he’ll have his guitar in his hand, half a smile on his face, a teardrop in his eye and he’ll sing to himself because he knows he’s being watched. And anyone who’s grown up making that guy his idol is done for in life.”
While describing his love quotient with ex-wife Sussanne, he said: “It’s a beautiful relationship. With our kids, with us as friends, it’s all about wisdom. One thing is for sure: Love can’t turn into hate. If it’s hate, it wasn’t love. The flipside of love… Is also love. Once you understand that, you’ll keep finding ways back into love.”
It is difficult to draw the basic criteria for loving someone and it is really necessary to understand love has many faces which are diverse in their own way!
However, Hrithik feels contradicted in life as he talks about accepting his imperfections as a human being and shares wisdom about his psychological and physical flaws.
The actor has said he is now consciously choosing films that deeply move him. Hrithik said, “(then) The rest of the journey becomes easy. I’m not a very good actor, I’m not the fittest guy. I’m the opposite of these things, so movies for me are a very difficult thing [to make]. It takes a lot out of me to do the simplest things that other actors do instinctively. That’s why I need to find stories that fuel me to go through the entire process – to wake up at 6 o’clock, to take the aching back, knees, shoulders, the broken bones – and do what I do. Super 30 just hit it out of the park for me, especially the climax.”
He also claimed that he is happy to see that the star system is withering away. “We’re getting to a much better place. It’s far more real – that whole concept of actors being gods? The distance isn’t that much now. Look at Tiger (Shroff), Varun (Dhawan), Ranbir (Kapoor)– they’re chill. No one’s walking around like a star. But they’re still delivering hit films.”


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