What was the precap? - Page 6

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

Real life me aisa hota toh aj koi relationship nahi hota.

I know, she isn't aware that he is going to be her BIL. But, itna to common sense sabke pas hota hai when someone is just caring for you or has any romantic inclination toward you.

Dadi loves Pari & she is her granddaughter I know.

But, she is mature enough. See, I would really be skeptical or atleast a thought would have occurred to me, when I see, two people not getting along without any reason. Though, they don't get along, the man doesn't utter a word when the girl is rude. The man goes to jungle to save her. Immediately after that, girl breaks up with the fiance. Overnight, Girl & Man, becomes closest friends. They are seen together going & returning home many times.

Am I wrong? Please correct me, if I am wrong. I won't mind..

Completely out of touch with whats been happening around her toh hai hi Pari. Tabhi toh when she comes to know about Mishaan, she'll feel like she's been hit by a truck out of nowhere even when its been crystal clear that Ruhaan feels nothing but friendship for her.

Consider Mishaan from Daadi's point of view though:

You have a granddaughter who is a mature, sensible, sorted person. She chose a guy to get married to and was 1 month away from the wedding. You caught them making out in the shower once and so you think they are super into each other. The life-and-death situation of the jungle experience made her realize that she isn't in love with her fiancee after all, and she broke up with him. The reason she cites you is that she is not in love with him, which you found hard to grasp but you made peace with it anyway. Would you ever, in your wildest imagination, consider that your responsible granddaughter was involved with her then-fiancee's proclaimed best friend? No na- in fact if someone suggested that your granddaughter got involved with someone else right after calling off a wedding, you would admonish them for speaking ill of your poti. There are 2 women in that house- one is single and seems to be in love for the first time, and the other just came out of an almost-wedding. If she thinks Ruhaan is involved with one of them, her mind would obviously go to the one who is not his proclaimed best friend's almost-wife.

My problem is with Daadi thinking that he is into either of the 2 women- just because he is a guy and they are women, doesn't mean that he has to be interested in either. He could just be friendly with both too right?

And the same goes for you- Let me know if you disagree, I won't mind either!

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

I don't have a problem with Ruhaan here. I understand his Sulking. Ab bcz, we don't want Pari & Ruhaan, Ruhaan cannot stop speaking to her na..Feeding someone is toh very common na baba..Office me ya colleges me colleagues bhi khilaadete hain..Usme uthna react karne ki kya baat hai.

See, I am a MisHaan fan through & through. But, I am not blind. Aisa nahi hai ke kisi aur ke saat dikhna hi nahi hai MisHaan ko.

Also, it's really fine with me if Pari loves him. You can fall for anyone even if they don't reciprocate.

What I don't like is drooling, assuming without any confirmation. Real life me aisa koi b karega toh pitega..

I know you wouldn't blaming Ruhaan for anything like this, Arfa. :)

HeartBeat321 asked about the criticism of Ruhaan from twitter fans, so just gave her a summary for the reasons behind that reaction.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why did veer mom lock veer inside room

Why did mishty eat so much chilly?

Is mauli will be shown on Monday

1. Who knows why that woman does anything she does?

2. Childish tantrums :D

3. Not sure, I don't think so though . I think all the revelations will happen first, followed by angst and confusion, post which Mauli would appear for some advice time.

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

Completely out of touch with whats been happening around her toh hai hi Pari. Tabhi toh when she comes to know about Mishaan, she'll feel like she's been hit by a truck out of nowhere even when its been crystal clear that Ruhaan feels nothing but friendship for her.

Consider Mishaan from Daadi's point of view though:

You have a granddaughter who is a mature, sensible, sorted person. She chose a guy to get married to and was 1 month away from the wedding. You caught them making out in the shower once and so you think they are super into each other. The life-and-death situation of the jungle experience made her realize that she isn't in love with her fiancee after all, and she broke up with him. The reason she cites you is that she is not in love with him, which you found hard to grasp but you made peace with it anyway. Would you ever, in your wildest imagination, consider that your responsible granddaughter was involved with her then-fiancee's proclaimed best friend? No na- in fact if someone suggested that your granddaughter got involved with someone else right after calling off a wedding, you would admonish them for speaking ill of your poti. There are 2 women in that house- one is single and seems to be in love for the first time, and the other just came out of an almost-wedding. If she thinks Ruhaan is involved with one of them, her mind would obviously go to the one who is not his proclaimed best friend's almost-wife.

My problem is with Daadi thinking that he is into either of the 2 women- just because he is a guy and they are women, doesn't mean that he has to be interested in either. He could just be friendly with both too right?

And the same goes for you- Let me know if you disagree, I won't mind either!

Yes! I think, you are right. I understand, bcz Mishti got out of a relationship & given her track record, she wouldn't assume that something might be happening in between her or Ruhaan.

Yes. Why does she have to assume that Ruhaan is intrested in Pari or Mishti, even? He can be just friendly. Just seeing an ILY card, you assume.

There was no name written on it. He was just feeding her na. Usme kya hai? Dadi toh itni mature hai na..Looks se she can understand na whether the guy really reciprocates or not?

Coming to Pari, if you notice, he speaks neutral topics only with Pari. Now, agar koi banda tum me intrested ho, toh will he not try to be around you or talk to you? He doesn't notice her half of the time. Didn't stay back when she asked him to. He responds only when she is the one who approaches first, mostly.

I am really trying to put my point neutrally. Just a straight neutral reasoning without bringing my liking for MisHaan..

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

I know you wouldn't blaming Ruhaan for anything like this, Arfa. :)

HeartBeat321 asked about the criticism of Ruhaan from twitter fans, so just gave her a summary for the reasons behind that reaction.

I know Arjita. It was your response for Twitter criticism. I was just giving my opinion, too 😛😛

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

Yes! I think, you are right. I understand, bcz Mishti got out of a relationship & given her track record, she wouldn't assume that something might be happening in between her or Ruhaan.

Yes. Why does she have to assume that Ruhaan is intrested in Pari or Mishti, even? He can be just friendly. Just seeing an ILY card, you assume.

There was no name written on it. He was just feeding her na. Usme kya hai? Dadi toh itni mature hai na..Looks se she can understand na whether the guy really reciprocates or not?

Coming to Pari, if you notice, he speaks neutral topics only with Pari. Now, agar koi banda tum me intrested ho, toh will he not try to be around you or talk to you? He doesn't notice her half of the time. Didn't stay back when she asked him to. He responds only when she is the one who approaches first, mostly.

I am really trying to put my point neutrally. Just a straight neutral reasoning without bringing my liking for MisHaan..

I completely agree that Pari has built these giant castles in her head when the reality is a broken-down shack.

Originally posted by: Vartika026

I'll have to watch again....Ruhaan feeds her too but I don't remember who starts it

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

I completely agree that Pari has built these giant castles in her head when the reality is a broken-down shack.

I really don't want Ruhaan to know about her feelings please. Bekaar me he is also going to be embarrassed.

I hope, pari gets to know about them, before dadi or anyone says anything about her feelings to Mishti

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

Completely out of touch with whats been happening around her toh hai hi Pari. Tabhi toh when she comes to know about Mishaan, she'll feel like she's been hit by a truck out of nowhere even when its been crystal clear that Ruhaan feels nothing but friendship for her.

Consider Mishaan from Daadi's point of view though:

You have a granddaughter who is a mature, sensible, sorted person. She chose a guy to get married to and was 1 month away from the wedding. You caught them making out in the shower once and so you think they are super into each other. The life-and-death situation of the jungle experience made her realize that she isn't in love with her fiancee after all, and she broke up with him. The reason she cites you is that she is not in love with him, which you found hard to grasp but you made peace with it anyway. Would you ever, in your wildest imagination, consider that your responsible granddaughter was involved with her then-fiancee's proclaimed best friend? No na- in fact if someone suggested that your granddaughter got involved with someone else right after calling off a wedding, you would admonish them for speaking ill of your poti. There are 2 women in that house- one is single and seems to be in love for the first time, and the other just came out of an almost-wedding. If she thinks Ruhaan is involved with one of them, her mind would obviously go to the one who is not his proclaimed best friend's almost-wife.

My problem is with Daadi thinking that he is into either of the 2 women- just because he is a guy and they are women, doesn't mean that he has to be interested in either. He could just be friendly with both too right?

And the same goes for you- Let me know if you disagree, I won't mind either!

You explained it so nicely. I also don't think dadi is wrong here to not think mishaan are involved with each other. I don't blame dadi here she is seen what is shown to her and misunderstood it. She stop herself to revile ruhaan name to mishti because she thought that just because they are friendly that doesn't mean unke beech kuch chal raha hai, which was really sensible of her. Abhi she feels or almost clear that pari is in love and she knows that's not arnav, so unke mind me ek hi naam aaya ruhaan. They seems friendly with each other happy too. She is dadi of pari after all she will understand pari 's feeling more than ruhaan's 😂😂 i neither blame pari nor ruhaan nor dadi. Its all about bad timing and not being aware of their surrounding.😛😂😂

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

I completely agree that Pari has built these giant castles in her head when the reality is a broken-down shack.

💯💯 how do nail everything u write? Just went through this thread. Wonderful points u put across.

As for Pari, the moment she knows for sure abt mishaan, a GIANT hit and heart break are coming her way. It's strange how ur own expectations and feelings can hurt you worse than anyone or anything else. How she comes out of it will tell us who she is. I hope the makers dont screw this up.