Selfish akshat Jindal?

I know I am about to offend many out there.After yesterday's episode i have been thinking .I felt Aj is a selfish man who place himself above his wife.ok.hear me out.He accepted guddan as his wife and tied the sacred mangalsutra in presence of family.But in what sense?A marriage is not just about respect,understanding, caring and loving.Physical relationship plays a very important role.Aj openly denied Guddan's rights as a wife in front of all jindals that there is no chance of them together in future.Guddan looked like she was slapped right in the face by him.it was a wakeup call for her for she had hopes and dreams about their future (kaala daaga and bunty babli conversation is the proof)no body can deny it.

Most women in this world dream of perfect family and motherhood. AJ turned out to be a hero for most of us even me when he stood up against bua in support of his so called wife.when I think about it he is being unfair to guddan who is very young and not yet experienced the world.i wont deny he cares about her a lot but what about her future. Does he expect her to grow old with him without experiencing motherhood and rights of wife .

I know its fictional characters and TV show things will change.I am team akshan not being biased here.i would still say AJ is one of the best ML out there.

At the beginning I said guddan should keep her mouth shut about private matters between them.Now it should apply to both of them.

I don't full agree that Akshat is selfish but yesterday the way he behaved was wrong. Akshat is mature and has experience of life and relationship. After he knew there is a huge misunderstanding among his family members he could have calmly clear it out like he always makes understand Guddan.

Akshat needs to control his anger and know what he is speaking. He needs to know that he will be the one who will always have take intially step in relationship as Guddan is young and naive.

The words Akshat blurted after that he should have talked to Guddan why he said and what actually he means but he vented his anger and went away living her alone was wrong as a husband.

totally agree with u ...after watching yesterday episode m so angry n he lost all his respect ....

Now what made me write this one?my husband. He casually asked what's going on with your show.i gave him a short version on yesterday's epi.you know what he said..budda pagal h.she should run away.i was offended😆He told me he is destroying her future and if he is still fixated on his first wife then she should leave the country 😆. For the first time I showed him the clip of aj's anger and he did not believe he is in 40s.then he called me pagal😆

I don't full agree that Akshat is selfish but yesterday the way he behaved was wrong. Akshat is mature and has experience of life and relationship. After he knew there is a huge misunderstanding among his family members he could have calmly clear it out like he always makes understand Guddan.

Akshat needs to control his anger and know what he is speaking. He needs to know that he will be the one who will always have take intially step in relationship as Guddan is young and naive.

The words Akshat blurted after that he should have talked to Guddan why he said and what actually he means but he vented his anger and went away living her alone was wrong as a husband.

[/QUOTE]he left her alone to face it.he failed there.anyway nobody is perfect

Originally posted by: poddav

totally agree with u ...after watching yesterday episode m so angry n he lost all his respect ....

Well I'm totally with you on this- the way he acted makes him sound very selfish.👎🏼

He is expecting a normal girl of 21-22 to stay married to him for a lifetime without giving her the happiness she deserves.??This is what is termed a marriage fraud. Whether it is in the form of pure spousal love as a wife which is manifested in a marital physical relationship or in the happiness of experiencing motherhood- a wife has full right on these things. And if he already knows this, why does he not free her from the relationship instead of leading her on. To be blunt, after the 7 vows he had led her to believe that their marriage will be a normal marriage. It's not Guddan's fault that she felt sad at his outbreak.💔

But again this is an ITV show and no matter what they show the character Akshat Jindal will still remain people's favorite. However this is a free forum and no mater how the entire forum reacts, you should be able to express your opinion whether it's a popular opinion or not.👍🏼 So I really appreciate your post.

To be very honest, I don't know what he means by "Main Guddan ke Saath hoon"He created this problem by saying that they will never be husband and wife in true sense. So he should have taken full responsibility for his actions in front of his family. He is the one not ready to take the marriage further.

He is actually again repeating the same mistake that he accepted making in front of Dadi: He is making decisions for him and his wife singlehandedly without even asking his wife what she wants. It's pretty obvious she wants a normal marriage from him but he is too blind to see it.👎🏼

But I have a slightly different take on this. He is also supposed to be human and this is one of the occasions when the great Akshat Jindal has made a mistake. Sometime he just acts childish and then the result is opposite of what he says🤪

1. He said he will never let her in on his bedroom and then 2 weeks later she was sleeping on his bed and he was on the couch.🤪

2. He broke her mangalsutra. A month later he was pleading her to let him tie the mangalsutra on her neck🤣

3. He said he will never accept her as a wife and with two weeks again he was taking the seven vows with her and accepting her as a wife🤣

To be very fair he has been always little selfish from the beigning ..every human has both good side and bad so AJs defieciet is his anger and selfishness ..yup he has been always like that like when he married her then he had not accepted her ...until a great whole push and now we see them as dost but .. again he is not ready to move forward with Guddan coz he is thinking for his POV not Guddan as a women .. I am sure until a big push will not create he will be kept going like this

Actually problem is Guddan here she is so naive to demand anything ...actually both need to sit and think especially Guddan need to clear it out what she want ..actually ajkal ki duniya me adhikar mangne see milta hai until Guddan strongly take a stand for herself kuch nahi hone Wala AJ will be more than happy in this Dosti phase being selfish

Still he is far better

I can say AJ one of the best ML Charachter written despite having facade unlike those male tycoon chavuanist ,!!

Originally posted by: shena07

but will be back loving him today after today's epi.we viewers will forgive and forget😆

Haha I agree. I'm not sure I was gaga over him after watching the second half of yesterday's episode but seems like most people forgave him already. The thing is Bua ji was correct in saying what she said to Akshat except the controlling your wife part. She went overboard when she abused Guddan but she was not wrong questioning Akshat.

To me "Main Guddan ke saath hoon" is a very lame way of saying that "I want Guddan in my life but I dont want her to give her all the happiness she deserves"😳

Originally posted by: castaway11

Well I'm totally with you on this- the way he acted makes him sound very selfish.👎🏼

He is expecting a normal girl of 21-22 to stay married to him for a lifetime without giving her the happiness she deserves.??This is what is termed a marriage fraud. Whether it is in the form of pure spousal love as a wife which is manifested in a marital physical relationship or in the happiness of experiencing motherhood- a wife has full right on these things. And if he already knows this, why does he not free her from the relationship instead of leading her on. To be blunt, after the 7 vows he had led her to believe that their marriage will be a normal marriage. It's not Guddan's fault that she felt sad at his outbreak.💔

But again this is an ITV show and no matter what they show the character Akshat Jindal will still remain people's favorite. However this is a free forum and no mater how the entire forum reacts, you should be able to express your opinion whether it's a popular opinion or not.👍🏼 So I really appreciate your post.

To be very honest, I don't know what he means by "Main Guddan ke Saath hoon"He created this problem by saying that they will never be husband and wife in true sense. So he should have taken full responsibility for his actions in front of his family. He is the one not ready to take the marriage further.

He is actually again repeating the same mistake that he accepted making in front of Dadi: He is making decisions for him and his wife singlehandedly without even asking his wife what she wants. It's pretty obvious she wants a normal marriage from him but he is too blind to see it.👎🏼

But I have a slightly different take on this. He is also supposed to be human and this is one of the occasions when the great Akshat Jindal has made a mistake. Sometime he just acts childish and then the result is opposite of what he says🤪

1. He said he will never let her in on his bedroom and then 2 weeks later she was sleeping on his bed and he was on the couch.🤪

2. He broke her mangalsutra. A month later he was pleading her to let him tie the mangalsutra on her neck🤣

3. He said he will never accept her as a wife and with two weeks again he was taking the seven vows with her and accepting her as a wife🤣

castaway115/10/2019 8:07:16 AM