No offence taken whatsoever.......AJ is in the wrong because he stated in front of all his family that he would always uphold Guddan's self-respect when he took the seven vows...........This is clearly not the case here.
Guddan should break ties temporarily from AJ, either go on a well deserved break or visit her family for a bit stating to AJ that she will return when she feels ready......Leaving it all up in the air so that AJ realises her true value, after all the poor girl has had herself as well as her father degraded beyond any doubt, but she kept her faith in her husband and was always pulling the family out of all kinds of catastrophes, but instead of showing any appreciation she is consistently shown the door (figuratively speaking).
This would ensure AJ would value her as his wife in the proper sense......