When experiences becomes the best lessons

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Sometimes experiences of life makes the best lessons..and I feel thats whats happening with samaina..with each passing day they are learning the dynamics of their new phase of their life 😳
Ever since the HM ended..they have been having subtle yet meaningfull conversations...the best is they have been about their coming life as a married couple...

In the plane...naina opened up about her how she felt that now mayebe sameer will not love her as she is not able to match up to his standards...
Sameer immedialtely corrected...her ...bo matter whatever happens..he might scold her, he might be angry with her, but, will never stop loving till his last breath 😳

Then comes the the converations post mami...I loved that one to the core...indeed they are the one to decide what is right and wrong ..they might not be morally right in the eyes of society...but why be that if that doesn't give you happiness..why sacrifice your friendhip and happiness just to be morally right in the eyes of the society..rather its better to find a balance between the both... 👏

Yesterday the way naina felt that it was not right of her to say whatever came to her mind and that too infront of kanji...the same way sameer felt he should have kept mum and not let it go further...in short..yesterday they understood that their fights and arguments should be between them and not let it be a public thing, which is extremly important for a married couple to understand...the moment such arguments gets to display people get a chance to agitate them and create bigger misunderstandings❤️

I also loved naina VO yesterday...that mayebe this was a sign that indeed they still have lot more to learn in the road of marriage...however they will keep learning life lessons and with them nuture their relationship 😳

What more life lessons you want to see them learn?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Very good post Abida. I agree completely with you. There is no teacher in life than your own experiences. With no one to guide and no one to instruct Sameer and Naina have to learn every single thing of house management, finance management, career management and relationship and balance between them and society all by themselves. The lessons that you learn like this is going to give you enough strength to tackle further complicated issues that may arise in their life in future. This is going to be the best foundation for their married life and no matter how strong the issues created by their family members they will be able to solve it and win each one of them with flying colours.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Very true
I agree with each and every word
Sameer and Naina are on the road to know many things
With Thier togetherness they can achieve anything
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Posted: 6 years ago
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they will make mistakes
but will also learn out of it
and not repeat it
that is how samaina had been
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Nice post Abida..
Each and every incident in our life gives us good or bad experience..Samaina are also learning from their experience.

Feeling good to watch their conversation, accepting each other's mistakes and also helping each other..

Sometimes fighting Sometimes Romance perfect combination of a good couple..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Lovely post. I too agree with you. They are learning slowly. Marriage is a new phase of life .As the voiceover said that they are getting to know new things about each other which they didn't knew before marriage .They will slowly learn through their experiences .Each time they fight they learn new things andTheir new responsibilities . After all hum ladte bhi to ussse hi hai jissse sabse jyada pyaar karte hai.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree with you completely
experiences really teach alot
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Beautiful post
It's so true .. It's all new for them and both are learning
And yea .. Nowadays their conversation are indeed very good and with deep meaning
Now they've learnt the biggest lesson that is to not show your disagreement to the world ..
Which is must for any married couple
Let's sew how will be there journey of togetherness
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Posted: 6 years ago
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very true and whatever you have mentioned is absolutely correct and samaina are in learning phase so we have to wait patiently for their relationship progress in all means.

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