@indira
I didn't say that your viewpoint is ridiculous, I am saying this survey result is ridiculous, you have stated in your post that girls who don't have father are most likely to end up in abusive relationship, where reality is that husband hitting his wife depends upon the kind of person he is not upon whether girl had a father or not... It's like giving an excuse for people who hit their wives, none enters a relationship knowing that this person is abusive. What if her mother is single mother because her father used to beat her? So she should stay in abusive relationship to give her daughter a father, because apparently if she doesn't have a father she will be in an abusive relationship?
I would like to read this journal or survey, I just want to understand this concept because it's just too weird for me...
I didn't intend to hurt you, if I did I am sorry
hi it's fine. No worries 😊. But regarding the research ...it wasn't one study ...lots of studies or surveys have been done. And what they've found is that " A good loving supportive father " who has a loving relationship with his daughter builds her self esteem .. and these girls often make good choices in life whereas girls who did not have that loving bond with their father are often the girls most likely to have relationship issues with men in adulthood ...But remember these surveys are based on thousands of participants . So it doesn't mean that all girls who do not have fathers will make bad choices.. I think the gist of what they are saying is that a good loving father is good for the upbringing of little girls..but on the other hand a bad father will be detrimental. So in the case of a man who abuses his wife ...wife abusers on the whole are not good men ...so it's highly unlikely that he'll be a good role model as a father...but these are all just points of discussion ...let's just take is as just good debatable talk "...😊
Edited by Indira1211 - 6 years ago
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