How Can Mishti Be Helped - Page 7

Biggest help would be Kunal,pari staying away from her.

As Mishti is 5, I don't think she can be send to juvanile home even in both cases.

Please hand over mishti to kunal he seems like a better parent than the ever confused and obsessed mauli.. who can't get past her X..

Sadly the issue with mishty is very serious. Research has shown that girls who did not have a supportive loving father often make incorrect choices in their adult relationships with men. They are the women who are most likely to end up in abusive relationships. They also say that if a girl does not have a supportive loving father it affects her self esteem..and again it affects her choice of a male partner when she's an adult. Therefore mishty needs the love and support of a stable reliable supportive father. This does not have to be a biological father ...an adoptive or stepfather who is also loving and supportive will also be fine. Mauli needs to make a decision. she needs to give mishty a stable environment with a father ...because although Ishaan is there he is not a full father yet. So Mauli either marries Ishaan and gives mishty a family with a mother and father ,..or she allows Kunal into mishtys life . But then Kunal has to make amends to mishty. He needs to be loving Nd supportive to her. He needs to treat her And pari equally .and he needs to do father daughter stuff with the girls ,.outings, games etc..and mishty will have to spend weekends at Least with him..but he's struggling as a single dad with pari already ..he working and gets a nanny ,.etc, so I think the best solution will be for Mauli , Ishaan to marry and give mishty a stable happy family,.

The only solution is Mauli should tell Misti that Maunal divorced for some personal reasons like their idealogies didnt match or something like that and she should tell her Kunal still loves Misti.This is what practically happening in real life divorced families.She shouldnt reveal that kunal and her best friend cheated her brutally until Misti becoming an adult and understanding the senstive issues.

@indira...giving mishti a stable family...its not enough...she is already in her perfect zone in her eyes in a complete family...currently she is more angry towards her Dr Cassanova father who left her and she wants answers to it and this leads her to hurt pari...you guys feel that marrying ishaan solves all problems...its going to be even more big trauma for mishti and mauli...she has to leave her real grandmothers to live with unknown strangers who can neglect her...mistreat her...its not easy as it seems...a divorcee with a kid adjusting in new household with orthdox family...its not easy...ishaan love n support is not enough...he is not going to be 24/7 with them...at one point he have to give up on this saas-bahu issues...he is already fed up now with his mom drama...

@indira

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@indira

I would like to read this study, no offense but this is absolutely ridiculous, so single mothers are not capable of raising their daughters, they need fathers? What if the father is not divine like Kunal or good natured like Ishaan?

Wrong choices regarding adult relationship -

Mauli had a loving father, yet she chose a man like Kunal who fell for kheer and cheated on her, isn't Kunal a wrong choice in Mauli's life?

Nandini had a father but she chose Rajdeep

Having a father doesn't guarantee a good marriage or adult relationship

Also, Mauli should marry Ishan for Mishti? Why? just because she is a mother she has no right to live for herself? It's her life, she should not marry if she doesn't want to, it's her choice..

One parent or two doesn't matter to kids, what matters to them is that everyone in their school or friend circle has both parents, they feel like they don't belong in this circle, girls can have both parents and make terrible life choices, terrible life choices means drugs or commitment issues.

I can tell you that most of the women in India are suffering from domestic violence or abusive relationships, and most of them have fathers, their husbands being jerk doesn't correlate with their fathers being in their lives or not... Abusive relationship is not a choice, hence they are victims...

@Mages

Kunal understands child psychology, he can handle Mishti... So you keep saying, Don't you think he would have called Mauli and enquired about Mishti's mental condition after Pari told him about what happened? Mauli is keeping him away from Mishti is just an excuse, Mauli also said he is a bad father, didn't you see how he manhandle her then told everyone how amazing father he is to make her believe that he is is a good father, in short, nothing can stop Kunal, Mauli is just an excuse.

yes single mothers definitely can raise daughters and sometimes they have to do it as there is no other alternative . However it has been found that the role of a father is very important in a little girls life . Research is usually based on a large sample of participants and it usually points to a norm based on the outcome of the study. This was just information that I provided that I have come Across . I never said single mothers don't raise good well adjusted daughters. And this is a forum where we all provide viewpoints about this fictional show ..So we really should not say another persons viewpoint is ridiculous without having proper knowledge about what person is talking about.

@fruittoasty...he has been telling in every M related scenes...he can't go up to his home becos of mishti hatred and also when shouted at mauli in camp he told her that he maintain a distance with mishti due to mauli as he don't want to hurt her...the hatred will affect the kid...all mauli needs to do is talk to mishti and advice her to meet her father...let the rest to kunu...he will handle it w/o even hurting the child feelings...

@indira I didn't intend to hurt you, if I did I am sorry