How Can Mishti Be Helped

currently lets keep the debates of the quadrangle n EMA to backseat at the moment...it will go n on

Mishti's issue has become extreme.What she did with pari is cruel.It is a major problem now.I think the elders should try to help her a sort the issue.But then she will question why kunal left her and her mother.What they will say?If they say the truth she may become more bitter.I think in this case a counseller's help should be taken.

Originally posted by: Silpa91

Mishti's issue has become extreme.What she did with pari is cruel.It is a major problem now.I think the elders should try to help her a sort the issue.But then she will question why kunal left her and her mother.What they will say?If they say the truth she may become more bitter.I think in this case a counseller's help should be taken.

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I know its hard to digest but the only way to calm down mishti is positive interactions of kunal mishti and pari...Its really hard to live hating your biological father..It would be hard for mauli but she needs to create a decent if not great image of kunal in front of her..What she heard that day was very heartbreaking, Kunal's impulsiveness is destroying so many lives..

Originally posted by: Kavyaaa

I know its hard to digest but the only way to calm down mishti is positive interactions of kunal mishti and pari...Its really hard to live hating your biological father..It would be hard for mauli but she needs to create a decent if not great image of kunal in front of her..What she heard that day was very heartbreaking, Kunal's impulsiveness is destroying so many lives..

There's no way she can avoid kunal even after mauli marries ishan because ishan's family will be discriminate mauli as outsider. She needs to have nuetral feeling towards kunal and pari because this growing hatred can disturb her moral development.

There is no way other than that, you can not live your life peacefully by hating anybody.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I agree and Mauli would have done just that she was coming around the idea of Kunal being a good father but this adolescent trapped in 30 years old body Mr. Kunal decided that he should make Mauli jealous by parading Nandini's friend as a symbol of his virility

It is a very sensitive issue Mages, and if not handled properly can create havoc with Mishti's brains. Her mom, popsie, Kunal along with her grandmas have to take this issue seriously. So much hatred wherein you are ready to physically harm another person is alarming and needs to be dealt with pronto. I can understand where Mishti is coming from, it is not at all easy for the little girl to digest the fact that her real father left her mom and her.. she doesn't know the reasons yet, nor is she capable enough to understand the whys and ifs of it, so the grown ups will have to cushion the blow as much as possible while giving their reasonings to her, take professional help if need be. Like you said a simple assurance to her from Kunal that he loves her and Pari and she are not the reasons for him to leave her mom, well I don't know if that much is suffice but for the time being maybe it might mellow her down. A child needs security and constant assurance that her/his parents, family members love them unconditionally and I think her mom and popsie will have to put in extra efforts to instill that security back in her cuz deep down it has shaken her very belief coming to know the fact that her dad left them. She and Pari are at a very impressionable age and with time and love can be moulded well.
But then I don't know if the writers have it in them to deal with such an issue. They might as well shrug this matter off under their costly carpet as if it isn't a big deal, maybe a stern look or talk from Mauli here n there and that's all. Right now their main focus is to make their characters look like utter fools and create love triangles and squares and pentagons and hexagons amongst them, so let's see where this goes.

loved all the comments...its really a sensitive issue and needs to be handle seriously...the hatred is affecting mishti's childhood and also affecting pari...its high time the parents n elders do something for both the kids

First thing is that her mother should talk to her by keeping aside her personal issues. Child need communication. If that doesn't help then Ishaan can try. Kunal can be made to communicate if they like. If nothing works then comes the counsellor. But Mauli should have the first talk with her. The bond of mother-daughter has to be explored in the show at this moment rather than a jealousy track.