Generation 1Papa Jindal-Guddan Maa Marriage vs Generation 2 Marriage
Whats missing or lacking between the 3 couples in Generation 2?
Even though AJ was married to Guddan by her Dhoka under the Veil, but they already have made so much progress in their relationship from not disliking and mistrusting each other to caring about each other to willing to sacrifice everything for the happiness and well being of the other spouse.
To me Akshan relationship represents what's lacking from the 2nd generation of Jindal's Couple marriage, all three of the couple has been married Longer than their Papa and Guddan Ma, Sasurjee- Saasu Ma. Still Generation 1 is the Ideal Couple who have trust, respect, care, concern, emotional bond and togetherness to do everything. Both Akshan has shown how they can give their life n take life for eachother.
Why is Durga Jindal the Ideal Bahu always mad at Guddan Saasu Ma?
Despite the circumstances of her marriage, in less time Guddan is making the place in the heart of her husband AKshat Jindal and the Jindal Bhavan but also the couple bonding is growing stronger. She always taunts and reminds Guddan that she cannot be a Perfect Bahu, Saas or Wife but is Durga really one herself?
Couple #1 Kishore-Durga Jindal: They have been married the longest approximately 5-7 years and may had a arrange marriage. After Saas-Sasur, the eldest Bhaiya and Bhabhi are portrayed as Mother-Father figure to their Devar-Devrani, they set up examples to the younger couples but here they failed.
Missing: Lack of Gratitude, Lack of Appreciation, Lack of Trust, Lack of Support
Lack of Trust:& Lack of Support During the Raadi Kand, Kishore went to Durga told her I believe that you are behind the kidnapping n what Guddan Ma is saying is the truth and even infront of his family he didn't support her. (Something like that)
On the contrary Papa Jindal knows deep down inside that whatever is His Wife said was the truth, because it was Diwali he let go. During Diwali, Papa Jindal stood up with Guddan Ma when everyone was blaming her regarding Siddhi's sucide he stood up. Last week, when the Pink Nazarwala Uncle was about to slap his wife- he showed Pink Uncle his aukkad n told him don't forget the person you are talking to is my wife is Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal n he said it the presence of the media.
Husband is questioning the woman who is shown as the Ideal Responsible Jindal Bahu but this shows she is not the perfect wife,
Couple #2 Vardhan- Lakshmi Jindal: they have been married for 2.5 years, it seems like they had a love marriage.
Missing Lack of Time and Lack of Appreciation, Lack of Emotional Bond
Vardhan Jindal is so much business in the Restaurant work that he doesn't have time to spend with his Babyboo wife who loves him dearly n once Lakshmi was cribbing about how he doesn't appreciate her or something. For Lakshmi- couple is all about Hanky Panky n the romantic gestures, she will be the one who will be ready to babysit her Future Devar ya Future Nanad
During Diwali time, when Akshat Jindal was taking over Dutta Business, n he stepped on Guddan Rangoli, he made sure he spent time with his wife, even after the restaurant kand he came back 2nd time in his room to make sure she was alright but his eyes were restless when he didn't find her.
Emotional Bond: This week beautiful Dard Ka Rishta and Gratitude Bond was formed over Antaras Painting.
Couple #3 Rahul Jindal-Saraswati Jindal: it seems they have been married more than 2 years but less than 5 years approximately.
Missing: Lack of Togetherness, Lack of Care
In the past episodes after the Card Party, it is implied that Saru Bahu must have created some misunderstanding between AJ and Rahul to make Rahul leave the house. Saraswasti Jindal is overshadowed by her greed for money, power, & fame that she herself has distanced her husband Rahul Jindal and pushed him out of her life and her home.
^ On the contrary even before wedding Akshan told Guddan, whatever we will do we will do Saath. Forgetting his OCD, Akshat Jindal helped his wife out by stepping in the mess n making the Diyas for the Dhanteras. Coat Washing Kand: AJ helped his wife out of the bathroom mess, kidnapping kand,
All the 2nd Generation of Jindal Couples are missing the Nok Jhok the zest in their life that their Papa Jindal and Guddan Maa, or Saas Sarsujee has.
If I am missing something, please write or give any example of what's missing in the 2nd Generation 3 Couples Marriage bond!!