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Some folks may not agree with me on this..but i wanted to share this. I am very surprised with Bro-Sis labels.
I don't know how to begin this but i am not sure why our (Indian) society has hard timing accepting or understanding or even approving the friendship between a Male and a Female. I totally understand how sensitive it is when it's about a married person trying to create friendship with opposite gender especially in India or smaller towns. Maybe because i grew up here in the U.S and people have different mindset here. I don't think people here need to prove or name the relationship as bro-sis. I know so many couples who have friends of opposite gender and respect each other friendship. It is totally ok to be friends with some one you admire or like as long as you have the trust in your partner and the relationship.
Why can't A man and a woman be friends. I am sure you can but its just that they are in different situation in a house locked and no way to divert their mind, But that doesn't mean they can't care for each other
I know it is wrong to have feelings for someone who is already married but Maybe its just a temporary phase once they'll go out. It will be back to normal. But why gotta tag Bro-Sis. Let's maybe its not true but even if she does like him as friend or has a crush on him...Why ruin that friendship by saying Bro-Sis? It is very awkward between them now. Why force someone to be in that relationship? Both are mature and grown up to know their limits. Is this the only way to prove that they are pure and won't have feelings for each other? They can simply erase any wrong intentions if they have for each other without all this.
If you have doubts or insecure about your partner..Then it will NEVER erase from your mind. You will always have that fear even after labeling them siblings. You will forever be insecure. If not with this person maybe someone else in future.
For the first time ever I agreed with Surbhi today when she gave the statement saying "Please look at their purity of friendship not in a wrong way".
