Why label Bro-Sis? Disappointed!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Some folks may not agree with me on this..but i wanted to share this. I am very surprised with Bro-Sis labels.

I don't know how to begin this but i am not sure why our (Indian) society has hard timing accepting or understanding or even approving the friendship between a Male and a Female. I totally understand how sensitive it is when it's about a married person trying to create friendship with opposite gender especially in India or smaller towns. Maybe because i grew up here in the U.S and people have different mindset here. I don't think people here need to prove or name the relationship as bro-sis. I know so many couples who have friends of opposite gender and respect each other friendship. It is totally ok to be friends with some one you admire or like as long as you have the trust in your partner and the relationship.


Why can't A man and a woman be friends. I am sure you can but its just that they are in different situation in a house locked and no way to divert their mind, But that doesn't mean they can't care for each other

I know it is wrong to have feelings for someone who is already married but Maybe its just a temporary phase once they'll go out. It will be back to normal. But why gotta tag Bro-Sis. Let's maybe its not true but even if she does like him as friend or has a crush on him...Why ruin that friendship by saying Bro-Sis? It is very awkward between them now. Why force someone to be in that relationship? Both are mature and grown up to know their limits. Is this the only way to prove that they are pure and won't have feelings for each other? They can simply erase any wrong intentions if they have for each other without all this.


If you have doubts or insecure about your partner..Then it will NEVER erase from your mind. You will always have that fear even after labeling them siblings. You will forever be insecure. If not with this person maybe someone else in future.


For the first time ever I agreed with Surbhi today when she gave the statement saying "Please look at their purity of friendship not in a wrong way".


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Posted: 6 years ago
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That part was extremly cringe.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Because when you claim to be just friends you tend to still flirt which is fine in real but on TV it looks wrong esp if one of them is married.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mz.gigglez

Because when you claim to be just friends you tend to still flirt which is fine in real but on TV it looks wrong esp if one of them is married.


Ok Agree. But by labeling this will give their partners secure feeling and peace of mind..

Thats what i think is wrong. Thats all
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mz.gigglez

Because when you claim to be just friends you tend to still flirt which is fine in real but on TV it looks wrong esp if one of them is married.

They did not flirt , it was just a friendly banter 😕 even Romil teases her for her makeup layers 😆 lyk friends
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Posted: 6 years ago
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in 2018 we also behave like we are in 1920
anyways..we romil fans dont care abt this .
we stand by romil
we love romil
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: doctor.zatka

Famous dialogue from maine pyar kiya " ladka ladki kabhi dost nahi hotay, yeh to bahana hai tadapti raaton main dhadakte dillon ko behlanay ka tareeka" 😆



🤣

tadapti raaton mein...dhadkte dil... W*F 😆




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Posted: 6 years ago
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Somi was placed in a very awkward position when Romil's wife just kept on mentioning behen like a dozen times. I felt really bad for her.

I can relate to their friendship because my ex-male manager and I shared the same type of friendship. He would tease me like there is no tomorrow. And he said he did it out of love. (I miss working with him :( ) We worked together for 8 years, and during those years he was also in a relationship and is now engaged to her, but our friendship was never questioned.

It sucks to admit that people are still so regressive in their thinking to date.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Waise Bro=Sis label doesnt guarantee any safety for the wife. Example... Sridevi used to call Boney her bro and even tied him a rakhi. We all know what happened there. 😃
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think it was until the spoilers about Diksha referrring to Somi as Romil's choti behen came out that people or atleast I got to know about their bhai-behen relationship. I always thought Romil and Somi were friends with Somi having feelings for Romil and Romil being aware of Somi's feelings.

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