Posted:
@ Timbarucha
@blue This was the another problem with Ishu she have all the good values in her but when it comes t
o her insecurities and fears all the good values get lost. For a single second she was not sorry about the slap or the way she treated sona in the infertility ishu. and my question is if she really feel gulity then why she has done any effort to find them out and say sorry to them. when she become the mother of dev dixit. she can have the money to fix the sona's marriage after the breakup. She have the money to give to khtri. But why not to use it to say sorry to the person she hurt. She never say sorry for her mistakes unless and until she is fores to acknowledge. e.g when she goes to bose house to meet the soha. she try to put the blame on the soan and bose family but when sona tells that she come with soha 6 years back and she sent her away she was force to say sorry. This is my observation. Ishu leaves in the bubble where she feels that she is always correct and very few times she come out of that mostly may be in front of her brother.
This is what I feel. She will only come out of her bubble when she will forced to accept she is wrong and this will happen when she will be get cheated by mami and vicki .
Sorry to differ. CVs did not show Iswari's side of the story. It will be done once Iswari enters IN. I am sure CVs will make her say she very much tried to find out the family but she could not. So we should not come to conclusion thinking that she did not bother to pursue the matter.
Iswari said sorry a number of times. When Sona was the nutritionist she throws away the food and when Dev make her realise she says sorry.
Iswari says sorry to Dev after she came to know that she did not let Soha enter IN along with Sona.She says I hope you had forgiven me...something like that.
She said sorry to Neha also for neglecting her ...
I am sure CVs will make her say sorry to Sona after she realises how she faced Khatri... Then she may admit her regret for pre nup and infertility issues.
Iswari is never shown greedy for money. She lives a simple life despite living in such grand palace like house. Her only obsession is food. She makes it a point to see her children eat well. After Sona entered as a nutritionist,she realised the importance of eating healthy food and cooperated with her.
Iswari needs money only for her children. She never interfered or objected when Dev spent money for family or for others.
Dev bought a new phone better than Sona's old one Iswari did not mind.
Dev bought a costly car for Saurav She did not interfere. Yes. She had issues with swing. But it is more to do with Dev's inconvenience. We find some MIL s sulk when DIL spent her own money even. But Sona buying a swing is not a problem but the placement is a problem for her.
Iswari was miffed with Dev not for him investing in Saurav's business but for not letting her know.
Iswari has three daughters. Being a daughter's mother I can understand her concern for them She needs Dev's money to settle them well. Any mother will be.
So what I want to say is Iswari is not a greedy woman. She will definitely say sorry not that she has no such word in her vocabulary itself.
I wonder why should any one feel that Dev should give away his money and start from zero. As far as I know Iswari's stolen money was for the purpose of him getting educated in high level institutions. Not for business purpose. Even Vicky says so.So that money helped him study and excel in academics.For Iswari's theft he has to forego his degrees it seems. What about the knowledge he earned during his studies? Will he be able to take it out and give it away?
Parents will do do many things to get their children educated. Sometimes they may offer bribes to get them appointed in any job. Is everything so righteously done nowadays? Children may not even know what kind of means were adopted by their parents to meet their needs.
I find it wrong when Dev is asked to sacrifice his money and position. That doesn't mean he should support what Iswari had done. Still circumstances should be taken into account while deciding the future action.. Dev is going to trace them and help them out. For him that is the way to get rid of his guilt. For Iswari the revelation of her truth before her son itself serves as punishment.Lifelong she will live with that guilt.
A son should help the parent by guiding him or her towards light . He need not hate or leave the parent in isolation. When Bharat blamed Kaikeyi for sending Sri Ram to forest Rama did not support him. He says" There will be a bad ruler but there will never be a bad mother." Mata Kumata na bhavati.
Prahlad knows his father Hiranya Kaship is wrong . Hiranya Kaship tortured sages and people who worshipped Vishnu. Still Prahlad did not renounce him. He helped him attain salvation by making him meet Vishnu and die in his hands. After that Prahlad ruled his father's kingdom for many years. He did not say since his father did wrong and developed his kingdom he won't take it.Prahlad did not say he he hates himself for getting educated with his father's money.
In my view Dev need not sacrifice his property which was the fruit of his hard work and intelligence. And taking loan from Jatin? Never. Atleast I can't swallow it .
I think CVs will show a reformed Iswari this time. I am sure she will be ready with her sorry for every one around. That makes her live with mental peace. I am looking forward to that phase.
Lakshmi
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
