Speculation - Page 2

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Laska both rape and domestic violence can happen to a man and woman. As far as I can see Maya has not raped Arjun. She massaged him, she kept her head on his chest. But domestic violence yes Maya has done domestic violence to Arjun. There is no escaping that. Because domestic violence it is said that emotional violence is greater than physical violence and in many cases women are made to believe they are worthless. You cannot see scars of emotional domestic violence even in ladies that much. But it is the conditioning that a man has a right to slap his wife ingrained in many women.

What Maya did to Arjun is emotional violence. Yes he might have contributed to the beyhadhness of this violence.But still he is a victim of emotional violence. Only thing is that the entire blame of what happened to him is not on Maya, he is also equally responsible for the mess.

But that doesnt justify what Ayan has done. He has physically assaulted her, emotionally intimidated her and yes as far as I could see it was an attempt of rape as I felt lust in his eyes, and even before he entered the way he told to Saanjh and Vandana I will teach Maya a lesson a smirk was there, which is not just rescuing his brother.

So Maya will have to pay for what she has done, even if now there is a truth in her accusation.

Originally posted by: Laska

Speculation

Domestic violence. Rape. Gender equality

Everything already is used, for the sake of obtaining the desired result

Opinions can be different, this has never been abolished, but the overt cynical speculation of such concepts goes far beyond the framework of a normal society

Does anyone really know what rape is?

Rape is coercion by force, by threat to intimacy

Now about the difference between a man and a woman. For those who particularly zealously like the issue of gender equality

In rape, a woman and a man will never be equal. So nature ordered or God, as you wish

You can't just force a man to have sexual intercourse, for this, in any case, his participation is necessary. It is a fact. So, sorry, the act itself is arranged

In the case of a woman - this isn't so. A woman can be against, fight, resist, but can't protect herself in this case, she doesn't have a natural defense mechanism in this case

In the case of a woman, it is an intrusion IN her body, in the literal sense of the word, without her consent

Do I need to explain that when you have sexual intercourse with a man in a natural way, sorry, will there be no intrusion IN the body?

Omg! Do you even realise what you have written? Men cannot be raped???? I would sincerely advise you to do some research on rape before blabbering on. In U.S alone 1 out of every 10 rape victims are male. And this is excluding all the men who have been raped but didn't report because of the social stigma of "men cannot be raped"

@bold: since there won't be any intrusion, that means a man cannot be raped? Rape means forceful sexual intercourse. It is a gender neutral crime.

On the side of men there is always an advantage - it is physical strength, it is what uses when someone wants to commit rape

Do I need to explain that even with a similar body composition, the man have more strength?

By that logic, how was Maya able to hit Samay in the lower part of his body and trap him in the trunk of the car using force?

Domestic Violence

Violence can take many forms, including moral and psychological. The most common type of domestic violence is physical violence. Physical violence is causing harm to the body of a person. It doesn't to offer him a massage

And grab her hair, twist arm, smash nose accidentally, push into the wall, into the column when he want - he use advantage of his physical strength

With this, domestic violence begins! And not so far from here are broken bones, and bruises all over the body!

Moral and psychological torture - sorry, but not to allow a man to drink more than two glasses of alcohol is not torture, from the lack of preferred food still no one died. It's not pleasant, not comfortable, but no more!

Arjun freely goes to work, he freely stuns surprises in the ring with beating himself, he freely leaves after this incident and gets drunk with more than two glasses of alcohol unknown where, he calmly leaves for work, but instead goes to a meeting with Ayan - this is not a restriction freedom of person! He moves, he works, goes to the gym, he communicates with people, he meets people - this is not a limitation of freedom!

Oh Maya was so generous to Arjun! She allowed him to communicate with people, allowed him to go to gym. So what if she constantly keeps an eye on him to the extent of even installing cctv cameras in the bathroom.

Constantly insulting a person, humiliating him, bringing a person to suicide, driving a person mad intentionally, knowing that person is unstable is moral and psychological violence

Arjun has the simplest way out of this situation - to let Maya die, the good he brings her to suicide with an inveterate frequency

Arjun has been trapped in a suffocating and toxic relationship for 3 years. Maya has controlled every minute of his life in the past 3 years. But he is still not allowed to vent out his frustration? Maya is mentally unstable and she needs help, no doubt about that. But it shouldn't be at the cost of Arjun's mental health.

@flaunt did he lie to her, go and meet dusky got drunk with her, told ILU to her and then came back. Maya protected Dusky from burning, Dusky and Arjun hugged each other, no one looking at those burned hands. holi dusky came and put colors on Arjun. Maya is an insecure girl and he just added to her insecurity. Obviously he would have done more things for her to keep CCTV cameras. Arjun was not that neat in past. He has stolen movie passes, have drunk beer in the office and have done a lot of thinks trying to hoodwink his employer.