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Speculation
Domestic violence. Rape. Gender equality
Everything already is used, for the sake of obtaining the desired result
Opinions can be different, this has never been abolished, but the overt cynical speculation of such concepts goes far beyond the framework of a normal society
Does anyone really know what rape is?
Rape is coercion by force, by threat to intimacy
Now about the difference between a man and a woman. For those who particularly zealously like the issue of gender equality
In rape, a woman and a man will never be equal. So nature ordered or God, as you wish
You can't just force a man to have sexual intercourse, for this, in any case, his participation is necessary. It is a fact. So, sorry, the act itself is arranged
In the case of a woman - this isn't so. A woman can be against, fight, resist, but can't protect herself in this case, she doesn't have a natural defense mechanism in this case
In the case of a woman, it is an intrusion IN her body, in the literal sense of the word, without her consent
Do I need to explain that when you have sexual intercourse with a man in a natural way, sorry, will there be no intrusion IN the body?
On the side of men there is always an advantage - it is physical strength, it is what uses when someone wants to commit rape
Do I need to explain that even with a similar body composition, the man have more strength?
Domestic Violence
Violence can take many forms, including moral and psychological. The most common type of domestic violence is physical violence. Physical violence is causing harm to the body of a person. It doesn't to offer him a massage
And grab her hair, twist arm, smash nose accidentally, push into the wall, into the column when he want - he use advantage of his physical strength
With this, domestic violence begins! And not so far from here are broken bones, and bruises all over the body!
Moral and psychological torture - sorry, but not to allow a man to drink more than two glasses of alcohol is not torture, from the lack of preferred food still no one died. It's not pleasant, not comfortable, but no more!
Arjun freely goes to work, he freely stuns surprises in the ring with beating himself, he freely leaves after this incident and gets drunk with more than two glasses of alcohol unknown where, he calmly leaves for work, but instead goes to a meeting with Ayan - this is not a restriction freedom of person! He moves, he works, goes to the gym, he communicates with people, he meets people - this is not a limitation of freedom!
Constantly insulting a person, humiliating him, bringing a person to suicide, driving a person mad intentionally, knowing that person is unstable is moral and psychological violence
Arjun has the simplest way out of this situation - to let Maya die, the good he brings her to suicide with an inveterate frequency
Nobody justifies Maya's actions - in the case the ambulance, she went overboard. With cameras too
In this case, at minimum, mutual domestic violence, on the one hand bordering with completely physical
I feel sorry for them both in this case - they are walking around in a circle in hell, unable to get out of there, and Arjun isn't really trying to do it. She has a salvation in illusion, and he in pours of his anger at her, neither one nor the other doesn't help both
Gender equality is a separate great topic, on which it is already possible to write a thesis
Gender equality is not to speculate with facts and such acute and complex, sensitive and delicate questions as rape and domestic violence
Only people in modern society could evert inside-out the idea of gender equality, which asked for equal rights and freedoms (yes, the same freedom for a woman to study, participate in elections, have the right to choose her husband, have the right to normal work, and an equal salary with a man with equal work) in the possibility of speculating by such concepts as rape and domestic violence
It is impossible to imagine if there was a man in Maya's place - this is speculation!
Suppose there were Saanj, Vandana, Simmi, Suman in Maya's place - would you be interested in what trying to find Ayan, what were his hidden true intentions, or will it be just an attack on a girl at minimum with a sexual subtext, as maximum attempt to rape girl?
Ayan and Arjun fought in the pool, Ayan tore Arjun's shirt, it seems no one had any problems with it
Imagine instead Arjun's place Saanj or Simmi - if Ayan had torn Saanj's blouse, it would not have been still same case, would it?
And these people are surprised then why so many victims of sexual violence are silent - therefore. She is to blame. This is indeed the only crime in which a victim is accused, not a criminal. She was dressed not as she must, she was walking late alone, she was walking the wrong road and another millions of reasons why she was to blame, that some vile person took advantage of his superior physical strength and raped her
Yes, these victims are frightened that they will be poked with a finger, they are disgusted even to think about what happened to them, not to mention telling about it, but it is necessary to tell in public, to answer in detail the questions "Where is he touched you? And what happened then? He hit you? And where? How? When did he take off your shirt? And how did he invade IN your body? How long did it last? "
And do not say that the words "You will can't look at yourself, I will do something worse than death with you" is something incredibly different, and not a menace of a completely certain action. There aren't many options to implement this. There are actually a two of it. Rape or option number two to pour acid - mutilate physically and morally.
What is most magnificent in this picture of the universal bacchanalia is that women do it. No wonder, they say that a woman for a woman is the worst enemy. This is the truth, in the literal sense of the word
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