Want to ask some questions from Maya and sanjh fans

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

I am a Jennifer fan i love her alot from kzk days

But i am only asking in general

If you all were in real life or in place of Arjuna without bias tell me what you would have done

I have seen slot in my life due to some disease that people due to misconception or missundertanding my disease someone will show sympathy or someone will be like oh no type

But i am those who don't care for all those i believe in myself and care for noone but i would never marry someone without telling myvtrth as today I am not suffering from that but if they know that i have suffered from this disease then some poor for money only will marry my mother tell me it's past now it's over so marry with keeping this secret hidden as everyone do this but i am totally against and as telling truth would affect my sibling so i have taken discision of being single all life and keeping my secret hidden

But tell me if only everyone has understood these truth and supported me then how the world would be

REASON BEHIND EVERYONE ACTION IS THEIR PAST AND LIFE EXPERIENCE BUT IT ONLY MATTER OF TIME HOW WE HANDLE OUR PROBLEM

ITS CORRECT THAT EVERYONE WANT TO LIVE HAPPY AND NOT ABLE TO UNDERSTAND OTHERS PAIN IF THE WORLD WAS LIKE THAT EVERYONE WOULD BE HAPPY AND AT PEACE BUT WITHOUT SADNESS HAPPINESS CANT PAIN WITHOUT PAIN RELIEF WOULD NOT COME

JUST LIKE WORLD THERE IS MOUNTAIN RIVER LAND SAND AND EVERYTHING HAS ITS OWN PLACE AND ALL GIVE SOMEONE HAPPINESS AND SADNESS

BUT THE ONLY POIBT IS HOW YOU HANDLE IT

Now coming to Maya what she is today has a very large hand of past which she not asked

Sorry as I have said my story if i would be in place of arjun i would have simply done what she has asked to keep her happy if i was truly in love

As it is tightly said in this world there is only love true is of parent but if you say in other way then it's also conditional as they love us as we are his own child or blood

Anyway i have seen a case in my neighbour my land lord son was totally mad and hypen and they married him to a very poor girl and the girl married due to her shortcomings but now you will say they are happily married couple although the boy is now even mad but when he is with that girl he goes in some different world and they are happily married from five years

In this soap everyone is bad and Maya is worst but she is ill alone lonly

Victimised person can't take steps but the person who is well to do can only set it right

As i said i cant take steps on that disease if i will give speech and tell truth then people will say that i have suffered from it so talking big and many other thing but if one non victimised would speak then everyone would understand

I have took other option like would have got married in well to do family by hidding my truth but lead a happy life

ANYWAY MY ONLY POINT IS EVERYONE HAS TO UNDERSTAND MAYA NOT MAYA HAS TO UNDERSTAND AS SHE IS MAD ILL

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well said. And I'm sorry for u dear that u have gone through so much.

Even I understand the problem as I have seen closely such issues.

And the thing is "love is unconditional" so if arjun loved maya he wouldn't find ways to escape but ways to solve his marriage issues.

But the man child as long as it all looked like a great package without any problems was bouncing to enjoy all those comforts of maya and today when he got to know her problem is running away.

People who are called sane like saanjh, Vandana are not matured enough and think rationally then u can't expect maya to be rational.

Anyway u have said ur pov nicely.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

@gaushiv treatment for illness happen only if you accept the illness is there. You can stand up for a victim if you understand his or her path. The struggles that the victim has to undergo. Change in a society happens when a man is able to understand a woman and stand up for her cause.

Why you have to hide a disease, why Maya has to put up a facade. Because her truth wont be accepted. Society wont allow her to live if she doesnt fall in the template set by the society. It is very difficult to live.

Judgements are made on perceptions.

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@gaushiv treatment for illness happen only if you accept the illness is there. You can stand up for a victim if you understand his or her path. The struggles that the victim has to undergo. Change in a society happens when a man is able to understand a woman and stand up for her cause.
Why you have to hide a disease, why Maya has to put up a facade. Because her truth wont be accepted. Society wont allow her to live if she doesnt fall in the template set by the society. It is very difficult to live.

Judgements are made on perceptions.

In my case i was not having anything but society has made it equal to that very disease even i got such perception from my mother but as i am educated so i completely searched about it and the reality what people think in India and i got to know the truth but people don't understand

I think earlier people were much more knowledgeable than us like in early day it was said that you can't cut nail in night now even my mother say but i make her understand earlier there was no light so our hand could get cut so they don't use to cut that time but today that is not the case or there is a rule that you can't clean house in night it was earlier not now

People throw coin euro notes in river but earlier it was made trend as the coin was made of copper and it would make water pure but now it is not the case

Earlier there was rule that I'm periods girl can't go to take temple or touch anything which is practised till now but do people try to know that earlier people have not alot thing to keep themselves clean but now it's not the case this is paractised by everyone rich very educated only some people understand the true reason but due to minority not able to oppose

So there is attend set in earlier which people not knowing the reason are practicing till now

That's similar case that in earlier days both disease looked same but the symptoms cause or effects are different in earlier days there was no such development that people are not able to differentiate but now this is not the case but there is a large butt

Ya Maya don't know her illness but as yesterday we seen how arjun showered some fake love and she came into it if arjun has accepted reality then there would be no problems

What she is doing she is allowing him to go to office daily only she is installing camera but if you are not doing wrong then why feel suffocated

AS I HAVE TOLD IN OTHER THREAD I HAVE KNOWN A COUPLE IN WHICH WIFE WAS NOT ABLE TO TRUST ANYONE AND SHE GIVEN A RING WITH I DONT KNOW WGAT BUT SHE USED TO GET COMPLETE INFORMATION ONE DAY HE CAME TO KNIW THE TRUTH AND GOT ANGRY ON HER BUT SHE CONFODED IN HIM AND TOLD HIM THAT I CANT TRUST OR NOT ABLE TO TRUST AS IN MY LIFE I TRUSTWD TWO OF MY COUSIN SIBLING AND THEY BOYH INSPITE OF BEING MARFIED ATTEMPTED RAPE BY CHEAT AND FROM THAT DAY I LOST TRUST AND NOT ABLE TO TRUST ANYONE WITH MY DAUGHTER OR MYSELF AND HUSBAND TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD HER CASE AND HE WORE THAT RING AGAIN .BUT IF SHE WAS REALLY SUFFOCATING HIM THEN I DONT KNOW AS HE NOT FELT SO HE WOULD HAVE ALSO GOT FRUSTRATED THAT HIS WIFE NOT TOLD HIM THE TRUTH THAT SHE WAS ALMOST RAPED TWO TIME BUT NO HE UNDERSTOOD HER I KNOW SUCH TYPE OF HUSBAND IS VERY VERY RARE

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Manali

@I_LoveYou_Kanha

Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dear, for real life it will be suffocating for anyone, no doubt...but this is a Tv show for entertainment and for a television show...It's awesome...am loving it...am loving Maya's character...it is different from other as usual charterers of Tv shows that is why Maya attracts me to watch the show...her personality...her dresses...her dialogues...her actions and plans for a particular situation..everything is different from the characters whom am watching since many years.

It's my POV!!

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

@gaushi earlier people were knowledgeable. Certain things happened because of a reason. Like nail cutting. As time change certain things have to change. But then we are clinging to old beliefs which are not relevant for the times.

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anjaanichudi

@anjaanichudi

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

In my case i was not having anything but society has made it equal to that very disease even i got such perception from my mother but as i am educated so i completely searched about it and the reality what people think in India and i got to know the truth but people don't understand
I think earlier people were much more knowledgeable than us like in early day it was said that you can't cut nail in night now even my mother say but i make her understand earlier there was no light so our hand could get cut so they don't use to cut that time but today that is not the case or there is a rule that you can't clean house in night it was earlier not now
People throw coin euro notes in river but earlier it was made trend as the coin was made of copper and it would make water pure but now it is not the case
Earlier there was rule that I'm periods girl can't go to take temple or touch anything which is practised till now but do people try to know that earlier people have not alot thing to keep themselves clean but now it's not the case this is paractised by everyone rich very educated only some people understand the true reason but due to minority not able to oppose
So there is attend set in earlier which people not knowing the reason are practicing till now
That's similar case that in earlier days both disease looked same but the symptoms cause or effects are different in earlier days there was no such development that people are not able to differentiate but now this is not the case but there is a large butt
Ya Maya don't know her illness but as yesterday we seen how arjun showered some fake love and she came into it if arjun has accepted reality then there would be no problems
What she is doing she is allowing him to go to office daily only she is installing camera but if you are not doing wrong then why feel suffocated
AS I HAVE TOLD IN OTHER THREAD I HAVE KNOWN A COUPLE IN WHICH WIFE WAS NOT ABLE TO TRUST ANYONE AND SHE GIVEN A RING WITH I DONT KNOW WGAT BUT SHE USED TO GET COMPLETE INFORMATION ONE DAY HE CAME TO KNIW THE TRUTH AND GOT ANGRY ON HER BUT SHE CONFODED IN HIM AND TOLD HIM THAT I CANT TRUST OR NOT ABLE TO TRUST AS IN MY LIFE I TRUSTWD TWO OF MY COUSIN SIBLING AND THEY BOYH INSPITE OF BEING MARFIED ATTEMPTED RAPE BY CHEAT AND FROM THAT DAY I LOST TRUST AND NOT ABLE TO TRUST ANYONE WITH MY DAUGHTER OR MYSELF AND HUSBAND TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD HER CASE AND HE WORE THAT RING AGAIN .BUT IF SHE WAS REALLY SUFFOCATING HIM THEN I DONT KNOW AS HE NOT FELT SO HE WOULD HAVE ALSO GOT FRUSTRATED THAT HIS WIFE NOT TOLD HIM THE TRUTH THAT SHE WAS ALMOST RAPED TWO TIME BUT NO HE UNDERSTOOD HER I KNOW SUCH TYPE OF HUSBAND IS VERY VERY RARE

The beliefs part is really informative, i didn't know those things. Thanksfor sharing.

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nietzy

The beliefs part is really informative, i didn't know those things. Thanksfor sharing.

You are welcome

Any science student like to know all these

Because we want reason in everything

Firstly i also used to thought that there would be something but when i done research and asked from my professors and my friends they told me these thing

Once i have gone to haridwar to travel as there is only temple but i got those common issue and i got afraid that now i will not able to enjoy but my mother allowed although she believe in such stuff but we have no other option and i also got afraid and that time i searched on this topic and enjoyed after that fully

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ShvetaSankar

@ShvetaSankar

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

Well said dear!

To be honest even I wanted to make this post all along. Maya is a psycho and no one in their right mind will be able to handle her condition other than a parent who as you said loves her unconditionally. No doubt earlier Arjun loved Maya but once he came to know what he has gotten himself into he just wants to run away as far as he can. And I don't blame Arjun for this because this is human nature.

And for Maya to heal she needs to understand her condition first rather than being delusional and in denial.

PS. I'm definitely not a shipper of any couple or actor in this show. I like this show because it portrays the reality of mentally ill patients

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Joy

@_Joy_

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#10

Agree with u n also feel sorry for u that u went thru a lot. I still hope someone who makes u realise that u r perfect the way u r n is ready to accept u after knowing ur truth.

Anyways... thats what I was saying. Maya would be wrong if Aejun would be right but no he isnt.. ok I mnt saying that reconciling with family is wrong but if he truly loved Maya he wouldnt see this as a means to escape from her... thats why I feel Samay would have been right for her bcoz atleast he would have given her the happiness she longed for. Arjun doesnt understand her n her love... he is just seeing her madness but not the reason for madness.

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