Name Calling - Page 13

Originally posted by: gmgi

😆 The answer is Golu🤣

Originally posted by: Mishti_94

<font color="#660099" size="3">@BOLD: Beautifully penned Di.</font>

<font color="#660099" size="3">Those are my thoughts precisely.</font>

<font color="#660099" size="3">I still FAIL to understand how soha becomes a MANIPULATOR in all of this?</font>

<font color="#660099" size="3">Someone in a reply few pages back called Soha insensitive at 6.</font>

<font color="#660099" size="3">Wonder what they call themselves at their own ages by all these assumptions that they are making.</font>

Originally posted by: Kaleidoscope101

I watch this show regularly but hardly ever come to the form or read posts. Today I did, and your post was the first I read.

Just wanted to congratulate you on trying hard and succeeding in keeping your family together!!

I perceived Soha's attempt as just something every child would do.. Nothing insensitive about it.. If anyone is at fault, it's the elders around Soha who could not explain in clear terms, why it was difficult for her parents to be together..

Thanks once again for sharing your experience.. Keep smiling!!

I have loved two other shows before. Both were beautiful stories.. My mistake was to be a part of those forums..the extreme criticism of each an every character of those shows used to dishearten me.. I just hope the makers of this show don't read the forum post and try to mould their story.. That ends up in disaster.. They should be here just to get feedback..

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Mishti... First of all let me tell you one thing... You are such a strong girl my darling... I didn't know behind this chirpy happy go lucky girl, who always make posts which are fun to read, has faced such a difficult situation in life. But your strong will and determination made it happen for you and your little sister. It's not easy to stay strong on your decision infront of your parents for your little sibling. It's truly difficult...!!! And it's because of your efforts today you guys are a happy family. You have provided a path to your parents which lead to a second chance. You have provided them a second chance. And feels really good to read that it has worked for them.. For your family... What if you wouldn't have tried and given up... This would not have happened than. And that's the reason, giving it a 2nd chance is always an option. You never know, it may work for you. Kudos to you girl, for being a reason and providing your parents with a second chance. 😊👏

Thank you so much Jyoti Di!

But wasn't just me. It was my parents and my sister too.

Everyone's efforts came together and I'm glad it did.

And yes about the second chances, you are perfectly right.

also there is a saying that goes - "try until you succeed"

I think that says a lot about life right there!😉

Coming to Suhana... She is a 6 year old innocent child... Children in this age are not capable of understanding the complexities in relationships.. She knew her parents are separated because they were not happy together. Along with that Sona told her, her father is a good man... He was a very good friend, a very good brother and a very good son indeed. But couldn't be a good husband for her mother. Then she met her father and already started liking him. But as she remember him hurting her mother, she wanted to test him before calling him Papa. And the summer camp happened. She has seen her parents taking care of each other. She has seen them supporting each other. And looking at this a 6 year old can only understand that there's everything fine between them. This is how a little kid's mind work. They resolve their fights by talking and then get back as friends. And this what Golu and Suhana were discussing a night before the end of Summer camp.

Exactly. A child's mind is very saaf. No twists and turns anywhere. They beilieve what they experience first hand. So expecting them to behave like matured adults is taking thingsa bit too far.

When DevAkshi refused, the poor child was disheartened.. She was confused, she has seen the parents of all her friends together always and the summer camp gave her the hope that now her family too will be complete. But her parents refused that made her sad. Sona tried to reason her and as she can't see her mother disturbed, she accepted to be happy always and not force them. She decided to leave for Kolkata with her grandparents as she cannot keep up her promise if she'll be around her parents. She'll keep thinking of them getting back together and it'll again make her sad. She was just trying to keep up to her promise. 6 year old can never think of getting things done by hook or by crook. I still believe if Bijoy Bose would have refused and tried to make Soha understand, Sona would have got time to think about an alternate solution. But her Dadu got over enthusiastic and accepted to leave for Kolkata the next day itself.

Yes. bijoy rushing things made the situation worse and made her belive she was right. I know Bijoy wants to protect his kids. So the same way that Bijoy cannot be blamed entirely for his actions, Soha also cannot be blamed at all for hers!

Every child at her age will think of getting her parents back together. And finally DevAkshi accepted and that made her happy. Here with Soha, the thing is kids always talk what's there in their mind and she did the same. She told DevAkshi she want them to be together. When Dev asked her what's bothering her she said i have already told you, when she promised Sona and was leaving for Kolkata she told her as i won't be able to keep up to my promise if i stay here, i have to go to Kolkata. These things doesn't make her a manipulator or a brat. But a child, who doesn't keep things in heart and say whatever they have in mind.

Yes. She is a girls who doesn't beat around the bush. She comes clean. She says what she things. And I think that is the most splendid thing about all children, their honesty!

And just because we have seen her asking for something from her parents for the first time doesn't make her a brat. She is not even aware that her demand was reasonable or unreasonable..!!

Exactly. She just asked for something she wished to have. Didn't we all wish as kids for something or the other?

Amazing reply Di!

Thank you for this!

You penned it beautifully!😃