Name Calling - Page 12

Originally posted by: deepsel

Aww my cute Mishti🤗 Firstly a big hug for placing your heart like this on the public forum!! No one can understand what one went through unless they put themselves in their shoes, so don't feel bad for these name callings. I agree people in this forum nowadays have crossed all limits in name calling irrespective of any age , character, even to real members with the freedom of anonymity. I also agree it do prick our sensitive part sometimes but IF is a place where we need to be really thick skinned. I hope this post has made you feel better to bring our chirpy girl back😳. Continue your everlasting positive posts which never fails to bring smiles on our faces and don't loose heart and fall into the trap of this virtual world 🤗

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Its been a while since i posted anything in the forum... coz i considered this as a family... but this ended up being a gal vs boy tug-o-war...

while i peeped in.. i saw 2 posts.. one urs and one another one.. which i understood is the reason why u came up with this post...

i was shell shocked to see a post that compared a 6 year to a 20 or more year old feeling...

To be precise, she has also been compared to Ishwari. An almost 60 year old.

can we show this story to a small 6 year old child and ask the child to respond... it would be like what soha did...

if elders fight like young ones.. over the silliest thing... but can't get over each other.. then the young ones are left with no other choice...

That is exactly what I wanted to say. Somebody has to make the move and Soha did it her way.

when someone call soha a manipulator... even if so, what is wrong about it? her parents care for her is what they say... then she need a proof about it... i dont think the child is wrong in asking how she dearly wants her parents.. but also want her parents to see if they can live or not...

I we percieve this behaviour as manipulation, doesn't every child manipulate his/her parents in their childhood? Don't they nag for things they want? Ask them to show me one child who has Never Demanded incorrect things in their childhood? One instance and I will accept defeat.

i remember as a child.. when i used to ask my father some doubt... he starts replying his way... and then i go to interrupt him... he used to say a banana talk "thokkil keri vedi vekkelle" - dont fire a gun... same way.. can u allow the story to unfold a bit before one becomes judgemental

Exactly. beautifully Put Di!

she want to witness what her mother and father said.. def now i will agree with what the other group has to say.. she is smart enough to differentiate between good n bad...

Yes!

most of them.. wanted to see what u want sona to do...

sona still loves dev.. if not, she wud never say good things about dev... and tell her child that her relation with him didnt work.. rest all were great...

Yes, she wouldn't have.

she saw sadness in her eyes.. am sure as a loving daughter... she not only wants her father.. but also... her mother and father to be happy.. as much as they do for her... and golu is also in that mission.. if soha is a manipulator for a good cause even.. I CERTAINLY am with THEM 3.. LIKE ASHA..

Yes, i'm with them too!

its all about love and giving in one more chance is part of it...

ishwari the manipulator only separated love...

but soha the manipulator (according to others) will unite love...

AM ALL FOR IT...👍🏼

I am all for it too!

Amazing Reply Di!👏

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Mishti.. from now on I'll call u only by that name..

Its always the truth, that people who go through pain only tries to be spread joy... and sweetness...

Continue to be a lighthouse and sweet to all...

Don't bother if stones are thrown... coz only when people think rightly... such strong oppositions come..

Originally posted by: Ria_Ca

Awsum post Deeps..well said 🤗

Originally posted by: LoveAnushka

Dear Deepiksha Di, Deepsikha hai!😆 Koi nahin. Tum Mishti hi bulana!😆

True to myself & you, I never thought you had gone through this phase of life in your life.

I'm sad that you did gone through this but happy to know that someone can knock out people who are pointing out fingers on those characters which might be a reality...

No, Not at all, you are a brat or manipulator or your mom is a shameless daughter or something else...

You dreamed of a family & you & your younger sister knew what it is to go from not having one parent, still you fought for your own happiness.

And nothings wrong in thinking to be happy or dreaming.

I'm glad you got your family at last as One.

Aur aap, main aur bohot kam log hote hai jine acchi family milti hai warna kuch ke bhagya main ye bhi nahi likha rehta like one of my friend who lost her father in army.

Naam bhi khubsurat aur aap bhi, Just like your name you are in real, Mishti...Mishti Di. I did always look up to your positivity but you are happy after this all also is what amaze everyone here out & including me.

You are doing great by alwlays being happy. You should be happy & never let your hopes down. Kal ko agar aap behno ne milkar aapne Mom, Dad se ek saath rehneka ya ek saath rehkar try nahi kiya hota toh aaj aap ko shayad hi woh khushi milti! And you are right try karne main kya ja raha?

Problems were there & you found a solution, it worked, so if it gives you your family, your everything then its beautiful, right?

And yahan par bhi they are showing a try to be a family. Soha asked for her both parents & nothing else... So why is she a brat? In fact she is just finding her home in trio getting together.

Thanks for this post Mishti Di...

Spread positivity like this & be like you are. I love you the way you are Di.

*A big kiss on your cheek* Ye aap aur aapki family humesha khush raho, mera yani Anushka Mata ka aashirvad hai😆😆😆

Love,

Anushka

Originally posted by: Mishti_94

@BOLD: Beautifully penned Di.

Those are my thoughts precisely.

I still FAIL to understand how soha becomes a MANIPULATOR in all of this?

Someone in a reply few pages back called Soha insensitive at 6.

Wonder what they call themselves at their own ages by all these assumptions that they are making.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Mishti I have come to two conclusions one of which has be true-

1. Either the people who depict their ages as thirty plus and trying to tell that they are parents of 2 to 3 children are lying through their teeth as it is just not possible with a person of so much life and parenting experience to blame a child for being a child.

OR

2. Earth has been invaded by some superbeings from krypton which were born potty trained, able to walk, communicate and also be sensible, sensitive, righteous, empathetic and so on. I am sure the college degrees must also have been attained by age 5.

Jokes apart, once I told a colleague of mine that I had a migraine when I reached home but my four year old insisted that I play with him. He started saying that my son was insensitive. This fellow was unmarried and I tried to explain to him that my son is too young to be empathetic. The same son when he became eight started running around with water and medicines and switch off the tv when I had migraine.

If this had been real life, this same Soha who is doing emotional blackmail at the age of six will feel ashamed for co-ercing her mother when she gets to the age of twelve provided she isn't made to believe that emotional blackmail wins.

There is an age for everything. Brain, IQ and EQ all take time to develop.

Originally posted by: gmgi

Mishti, when I read your post I felt so proud of you. Your experiences are enough to make anyone lose that innocence and positivity in their outlook. And you have proved the reverse with your life. 🤗

Now coming to your post, if Soha at 6 is insensitive and manipulative what do we call the so called adults around her who are her parents, grandparents and so on who are older and more experienced in life but behaves like a 6 year old ( or even less). When adults behave like kids then what do we expect from kids? To grow up in a day? Who is the most mature and sensible character in the show Mishti after Asha and Dadi? Can you give me an answer. I will say if mine is the same after😉😆

P.S: I know you stay away from negativity. Just don't let it affect you dear. You are one of the few here who brings genuine smile to the forum. This was too close to home and so you reacted. But at the end of the day you are taking those negative vibes home. Stay blessed dear and stay happy.😃