Name Calling - Page 9

Originally posted by: mena_k

A child has every right to ask for whatever he/she wishes from his/her parents.
However, I believe the point of discussion was not that Soha asked for Dev and Sonakshi to stay together, but her running away with her grandparents to Kolkata when they refused. She told them she won't live with either of them If they refused. This had put extra emotional stress on the minds of both Dev and Sona. In a way this reminded me of Ishwari when she left for temple and refused to come back home until Sona agrees for fertility treatment which Dev promised. Soha was not wrong in asking considering she saw Dev taking care of Sona in front of her, however she did not see how Dev behaved rudely, inhumanely with Sona behind Soha's back. She believed what she saw, as a child she wished for something that every child wants. Nevertheless only time would tell If this time Dev stands up for the respect of Sona and not just for Soha's happiness. We all know Sona would never talk or behave like Dev does to Bijoy, no matter how bad Ishwari gets to her. Sona's stay in Ishwari nivas would be interesting to see.

Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona

My pleasure Di🤗

Yep they are ..and it's sad that such mature people are not able to decode a child's mindset😲

Aapko bhi dher saara pyar Mishu Di

Jhappis to u too🤗

Originally posted by: Jade0001

Suhana Bose is a six year old child that is something we should all remember , now this little girl has seen small glimpses of her parents together what is her fault if she wants both her parents to be together that is her hearts desire she has an innocent mind she sees the goodness in both her parents and when she sees the care and concern between both she like any normal child wishes for more

I truly do not see anything wrong with the little girl wanting her parents together , teenages want their parents together so why will it be a problem if a innocent little child wants the same

people are always ready to point fingers somewhere never realize the real situation the need and want or even in this case like Soha she craves for both her parents there is no wrong in that and certainly there is no sin in it too

Great Post as always

Originally posted by: jigsaw1234

Well said and I'm glad things worked out for your family.

I am not one for name calling but do appreciate evidence based analysis. I refuse to imagine things or read between the lines. It is true that most of us sympathise with characters which relate to our experiences. Of course, that doesn't give one license to label other characters. At the end of the day, this is only a fiction on screen and we try and discuss this in a public forum with the hope to find like minded people, share our views and learn new ways of looking at social situations.

From my experience, I find people's reaction to Bijoy Bose the hardest to take.

I come from the other side of your experience. My parents didn't get along. One fine day, my brother and I were sent to live with my nana, nani in another country. Our dad knew about it only on the day. He cried but our grandad stood his ground and we left. Although we missed our parents, the calm day to day life turned out to be a bliss. We had the best 2.5 years of our childhood then. While our mum visited us every few months, our dad wrote a letter a week. A page for my grandparents and half a page for us.
2.5yrs later our granddad gave in and sent us back. Our mum is the most independent, feminist I have met and our dad is the most loving man. Together they were like an atom bomb whose detonator was at the door. Every time the door opened there was an explosion. They absolutely loved us but together they made our life hell.

I wish, so wish, our granddad had the will power to hold us back and send us only when he was sure they were getting on. He gave in to my dad's goodness and love for his children.

I also wish, our dad had the courage to stand up to his family. Our mum suffered at the hands of his siblings and mother and he was oblivious to it all. While our mum fought it all and stood courageous for the children, our dad took all her strength and a bit more and thought smile-wave-bring treats for the children and life will be fine.

From where I stand, Sona is like my mum and I so wish Bijoy was my granddad who could have screamed his head, made a point and shown that no one disregards his daughter or takes his grandchild's life for granted.

Don't get me wrong, I am an adult now and have a great relationship with both my parents but I also know what is right and what is wrong.

Originally posted by: survika1111

Oh my god mishti..I will Not say anyting about how the post is..cause i can't comment on what situation u n ur family has gone through..but i Definitely Want to pat ur back nd whant to say Bravo!!! ..👏

Not just bcz u demanded sth which Brought u all togather in a Happy life But also for having the courage to share a very important part of ur life here In public.

Thank you so much Survi Di.

But it wasnt just me.

It was everyone else's collective effort. I just took the first step.

And yes 100% agree..!!!!!!

What Is the harm in trying? nothing..

Just To satisfy ur Ego u can't play with Ur Life..

Agreed!

And being a six year old girl Whan sohana Demands can came out as a turning point even in real life As well..

A 6 Year Old girl wants To have a happy life with her parents..so why can't she ask that!! She deserves That..!!

Yes she does. And she has every right to ask. To demand what belongs to her.

What is he explanation of using terms like manupulative or brat just for a 6 year old girl..whi just have only wish to spend time with mom n ad..only stupidity can explain that to me..

That is what I failed to understand and hence made this post out of anger.

Only Ego i Repeat ego..Not self respect will stop Any parents to Take such step for their child..and only a stone heart Can Give Title a Little kid as manupulative or brat for her wish to be with parents

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

awesum post mishti
agree wid u

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy

Mishti first of all ek badi waali huggy to u
I will not say i felt sorry listening to ur side of story coz I'm not here to pity you
Rather i would say I'm proud of what u did for urself u sis n ofcourse ur parents
I really wish aisi beti har maa baap ko mile jo todne se jyaada jodne mein vishwaas rakhti ho

Temme kaunsa aisa baccha nahi hota jo apne maa baap ko ladta hua nahi dekhta
Har ghar mein jhagde hote hai aur bacchoan ke saamne hi hote hai
Kuch jhagde hadd se jyaada badh jaate hai aur phir maa baap alag hone ka faisla kar lete hai
Par jinki beti aap jaisi ho unhe aur kisi ki jaroorat nahi hogi
Mishti i must say years later agar aapke mummy papa apne rishte ka credit kisi ko dena chahe to bhagwaan aur unhe milane waale se jyaada aapko de
Wish u all the success in life dear