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Hello everybody!
Today's post is all about Mr.Dev Dixit. You ask why? I'll tell you!
When Ishwari was making plans to raise another Dev Dixit in the form of Suhana Bose, I was thinking about Dev's umpteenth attempt to make his mother happy (and failing miserable, as always). Now let's focus on the fact that he just found out about his daughter, he just met her, he just got to hold his bundle of joy, he just discovered about her existence but instead of thinking about his loss, he was again compelled/made to think about his mother's pain. Why?
I tried really hard but I failed to understand this dedication/ blind worship/faith that Dev has for his mother. Though I have no sympathies left for him when he comes in the Sonakshi-Soha picture but I do feel bad for him when I see him in the same frame as Ishwari.
Let me elaborate a few things:
1. When Dev shared his feeling about Sonakshi with Ishwari, he nurtured a hope of acceptance from Ishwari. He had followed her commands since he was 8 and continued to do so till he was 28, finally he took a decision and shared it with Ishwari. Ishwari was in pain. He didn't understand. Ishwari made him understand (pills) and he understood that his mother was in pain so he broke up with Sonakshi. That was the first instance when he intentionally/unintentionally decided to take away his mother's pain first. What about your pain, Dev?
2. When he told Ishwari about the honeymoon. The same sequence of events happened and he thought of Ishwari's pain, consoled her. What about your pain, Dev? Did Ishwari even ask you if you were okay? No.
3. When he revealed about Sona's infertility. Same thing on loop. He consoled Ishwari, begged in front of her, told her he'd do anything. He thought of Ishwari's pain. What about your pain, Dev? Was it not okay for a man to feel the pain of knowing that he might not be a father, ever? Was it too much for Ishwari to be by her "beloved" son's side when he must have so low? Why was Ishwari made to be the victim of somrthing that was remotely associated with her? Is she the only one with emotions? I totally ignoring Sona's emotions here because that's what happens in Dixit house but Dev is their own blood. Then why?
4. Let's talk about today. Dev gets Suhana to meet Ishwari just to fulfill his mother's wish. He swallowed the pain of not being there for his daughter from the past 6 years and put up a happy face. Ishwari loses shit at the mention of Mr.Dixit. She is consoled by Dev, Mamaji and all. Then she loses her mind at the dinner table and is in deep pain because her dreams were not fully accomplished. But it doesn't end here, Dev, again, comes to her rescue to take care of her pain. Bravo! Did she even look at him? At her son? Did she see that he was a father who had no idea that he had a daughter of his own, can she feel his pain? No. Can she see his pain? No. Can she see how hard it was to deal with that kind of stress? To be thinking about being a good father to you child all the time? No. She sees nothing beyond herself and Dev sees nothing beyond her, that's why Sonakshi left them.
My question remains the same. What about your pain, Dev? When will you put yourself on the top of your list. If you can't think about yourself, then I was expecting too much when I thought you'd take a stand for Sonakshi.
P.S.- I have no sympathy for Dev or his mother so please refrain from making this post anti Sonakshi. I do not and will not root for Dev and Sonakshi reunion. Just making it clear.
Views entertained, bashing is not.
Thank you.
Dr Aarambhi
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