Scapegoat -CVs right ? - Page 5

I felt that in this day and age, there are so many ways to contact a person. Knowing how much Dev loves children ( always talked about having choti sona ) Sona could've sent a picture of 6 mo baby soha to Dev directly, via email/WhatsApp/text/fb etc. When she knows Devs family well, ishu and GKB s dislike for her, why would she come to the house and stop at the door in order to meet with Dev. She could've gone to Devs office as well. Agree CV s made a scapegoat out of Ishwari.

Originally posted by: yyy

Today I felt Ishwari was made a scapegoat by CVs .I know there is lot of dislike for Ishwari and I totally get it but can we really blame her for what she did ..,

Let's see from her PoV ...she had seen her son suffer because of breakup and was recovering a bit because of Golu then she sees his ex wife come back. .From her PoV she feels they should be away from each other for their good so she restricts Sonakshi from contacting Dev .I could only see a over possessive concerned mother dear not a manipulative mother .Was she really aware that Sonakshi came here for introducing Soha to them ? Is it fair to blame her completely and punish her for entire life for one mistake which she was not aware of .

Did CVs try to cash on the hate viewers have for Ishwari ..this scene definitely looks forced .Not a planned one in my opinion ...

Can I dare say that Sonakshi had a role too .. I agree any women would be humiliated when she is asked not to enter and I feel for her but again her agenda was not to go back to the home but to introduce her daughter to his father for her daughter's sake ... ..why didn't she try to contact Dev again when she knew Dev was not aware of Soha's existence (the first scene after leap confirms ) .Unlike Dev all along she knew how Dixit family was and also she knew Dev's attachment for kids .Why didn't she trust her husband and let others control their life ...atleast she could have let him know when he was dying ..Dev had a point when he said he would have died without knowing about his daughter.Was it right to punish him for others mistake just because they happened to be his relatives ...did her insecurity play a role too as she had numerous opportunity to let Dev know after she came to Mumbai

I know many won't agree but among the three I felt more for Dev because unknowingly both the women let him down ...one in the name of protecting him .

P.S This is just my POV if you don't agree I completely understand but if you want to get personal then I would like to add thanks for your time but not interested in fighting with you guys so I will not be responding to your post but feel free to post .

I HAVE JUST ONE THING TO SAY, ISHWARI OR AS A MATTER OF FACT HAS NO RIGHT TO INTERFERE LIKE THE WAY ISHWARI DOES. IN REAL LIFE TOO IT IS HUSBAND WIFE S DECISION TO BE TOGETHER OR NOT. ISH HAS ALWAYS INTERFERED IN H/W S RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS EXTREMELY IMMATURE. So sge os to be blamed. Oh and don't forget how she behaved after knowing that Sona wasn't alone when she came 6 years ago. Hypocrite.

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Interesting post

Well i don't agree with Ishwari part 🤔- Ishwari can't be tagged as only possessive mother.

Coming to current Ishwari doen't want Sonakshi in her life, her home. All the time she is saying she wants to meet Suhana . She is her grand-daughter.

She just wants to meet Suhana. Why? Because she is daughter of Dev Dixit, his child , his blood.

In fact the way Ishwari was toussing her features in Suhana Jabbardasti was way too funny😆. Somehow she wants some connection with Suhana, who has become happiness of Dev Dixit. Dev Dixit himself declared it that because of Suhana he wants to live life again. So she wants to somehow becomes important figure of that lifeline, so that Dev can becomes his bhakt like before.

Even if I consider as scapegoat - why didn't she allow sonakshi to meet Dev? I don't accept the reason ??Because Dev was happy with Golu , but was he living his life ? Golu was blessing for Dev Dixit , but his wounds and pain can't be healed by golu. Ishwari clearly knows and understands Dev has becomes more emotional, mental connected to Sonakshi than her.

Ishwari is ready to get Dev married to someone else but not to Sonakshi? Why ?

Coming to Dev Dixit Part- Today I felt extremely bad for him. One side once again his mother once again become the reason for separation of his daughter and of course from his love.

Once again he was betrayed by his mom.

Who suffered most in all this years? Sonakshi still have beautiful memories with baby suhana. But Dev doesn't have and will never ever have.

Even Suahana is in pain. She wants to say -"His dad is not bad" Mum .. He is good man like you said. SHe is upset because his heart has already accepted Dev Dixit but she can't hurt her mom.

Coming to Sonakshi : Can't blame her for not trying much , considering at least she tried once- which is more than enough for me. Specially after their ugly break up , I don't find any reason why sonakshi needs to try more to contact Dev Dixit. 😳

P.S. Still I would say well written post. Some points are really valid 😃

Agree!
And it was a deja-vu for me. My MIL reacted the same way when my daughter was born.
She would try prove to everyone in the world that her grand-daughter is total copy of hers. And if someone points out that my daughter has actually got MY eyes and features, her (MIL) face would be 😡

😆😆