Scapegoat -CVs right ?

Today I felt Ishwari was made a scapegoat by CVs .I know there is lot of dislike for Ishwari and I totally get it but can we really blame her for what she did ..,

Let's see from her PoV ...she had seen her son suffer because of breakup and was recovering a bit because of Golu then she sees his ex wife come back. .From her PoV she feels they should be away from each other for their good so she restricts Sonakshi from contacting Dev .I could only see a over possessive concerned mother dear not a manipulative mother .Was she really aware that Sonakshi came here for introducing Soha to them ? Is it fair to blame her completely and punish her for entire life for one mistake which she was not aware of .

Did CVs try to cash on the hate viewers have for Ishwari ..this scene definitely looks forced .Not a planned one in my opinion ...

Can I dare say that Sonakshi had a role too .. I agree any women would be humiliated when she is asked not to enter and I feel for her but again her agenda was not to go back to the home but to introduce her daughter to his father for her daughter's sake ... ..why didn't she try to contact Dev again when she knew Dev was not aware of Soha's existence (the first scene after leap confirms ) .Unlike Dev all along she knew how Dixit family was and also she knew Dev's attachment for kids .Why didn't she trust her husband and let others control their life ...atleast she could have let him know when he was dying ..Dev had a point when he said he would have died without knowing about his daughter.Was it right to punish him for others mistake just because they happened to be his relatives ...did her insecurity play a role too as she had numerous opportunity to let Dev know after she came to Mumbai

I know many won't agree but among the three I felt more for Dev because unknowingly both the women let him down ...one in the name of protecting him .

P.S This is just my POV if you don't agree I completely understand but if you want to get personal then I would like to add thanks for your time but not interested in fighting with you guys so I will not be responding to your post but feel free to post .

Originally posted by: yyy

Today I felt Ishwari was made a scapegoat by CVs .I know there is lot of dislike for Ishwari and I totally get it but can we really blame her for what she did ..,

Let's see from her PoV ...she had seen her son suffer because of breakup and was recovering a bit because of Golu then she sees his ex wife come back. .From her PoV she feels they should be away from each other for their good so she restricts Sonakshi from contacting Dev .I could only see a over possessive concerned mother dear not a manipulative mother .Was she really aware that Sonakshi came here for introducing Soha to them ? Is it fair to blame her completely and punish her for entire life for one mistake which she was not aware of .

Did CVs try to cash on the hate viewers have for Ishwari ..this scene definitely looks forced .Not a planned one in my opinion ...

Can I dare say that Sonakshi had a role too .. I agree any women would be humiliated when she is asked not to enter and I feel for her but again her agenda was not to go back to the home but to introduce her daughter to his father for her daughter's sake ... ..why didn't she try to contact Dev again when she knew Dev was not aware of Soha's existence (the first scene after leap confirms ) .Unlike Dev all along she knew how Dixit family was and also she knew Dev's attachment for kids .Why didn't she trust her husband and let others control their life ...atleast she could have let him know when he was dying ..Dev had a point when he said he would have died without knowing about his daughter.Was it right to punish him for others mistake just because they happened to be his relatives ...did her insecurity play a role too as she had numerous opportunity to let Dev know after she came to Mumbai

I know many won't agree but among the three I felt more for Dev because unknowingly both the women let him down ...one in the name of protecting him .

P.S This is just my POV if you don't agree I completely understand but if you want to get personal then I would like to add thanks for your time but not interested in fighting with you guys so I will not be responding to your post but feel free to post .

Ishwari isn't entirely wrong. It is unfortunate that she who forced her son to choose then ended up asking Sona not to come back.

Didn't Sona say she sent messages to Dev and he labelled that as a lie today? Didn't she do her best? Why is her best not good enough? We all are just mediocre aren't we? Why do we expect perfection from her? That said, wasn't she dignified in her response to Dev today?

Both Dixit and Bose families are very different - in their beliefs, values and upbringing. That shows in both Sona and Dev.

Unfortunate for Dev He is impulsive and jumps to conclusion. I am not entirely sure how Sona let him down though. To me, she has done better than what I would have done in her shoes. I would have been an emotional wreck.

Watching Dev is watching an accident happening in slow-mo. Other than say a prayer, one can do nothing about it.

Who says dev is getting punished for others mistake?

I agree with the later part of your post.

I completely agree with you here... Ishwari was being true to her character and wasn't totally wrong...

Ishwari- main kitni badkismat hun( Jo apni Poti se mil nahi payee)

Ishwari ne pehle Dev ka pyar cheena and then beti😡 So, she is the culprit and not Sonakshi.

I can't believe this that you can defend Dev indirectly as well...

Originally posted by: jigsaw1234

Ishwari isn't entirely wrong. It is unfortunate that she who forced her son to choose then ended up asking Sona not to come back.

Didn't Sona say she sent messages to Dev and he labelled that as a lie today? Didn't she do her best? Why is her best not good enough? We all are just mediocre aren't we? Why do we expect perfection from her? That said, wasn't she dignified in her response to Dev today?

Both Dixit and Bose families are very different - in their beliefs, values and upbringing. That shows in both Sona and Dev.

Unfortunate for Dev He is impulsive and jumps to conclusion. I am not entirely sure how Sona let him down though. To me, she has done better than what I would have done in her shoes. I would have been an emotional wreck.

Watching Dev is watching an accident happening in slow-mo. Other than say a prayer, one can do nothing about it.

Nitu I have felt the same and expressed my view in Sam and DQ's thread. I thought Sona should have reached Dev personally or called him rather than visiting Dixit mansion.And I feel bad for Supriya who has to swallow so much negativity due to the Charecter she is playing. For CVs it became a habit to show her in such a way.