First of all hats off to you for making this post. 👏In such times its difficult for people to make a even make a pro Dev post n u made a post for Ishwari. Sachi it takes lots of courage to come up with your POV n specially for the most hated character. (Well its a tie bw Dev n Ishwari actually 😕)
Anyways coming to your post, i have always felt that Ishwari was never a conscious manipulator initially but some of her actions, specially post leap had portrayed her one.
If we have to understand Ishwari, we need get into her thinking.
1) She is never wrong about her son and she has full right to protect her son from all the bad things.
2) Sonakshi was never good for Dev. She never fits in her image of ideal bahu. Dev was always one hand down in front of her and Devakshi's love was not strong enough to hold their relationship. She has almost confirmed it in her mind that Sonakshi is the reason for all the miseries of Dev, bcz before her entry everything was fine.
3) It is very important to keep Sonakshi away from Dev, bcz her son cannot be happy with sonakshi around.
Now that's what she did 6 years ago, she prohibited Sonakshi from meeting Dev bcz she thought that once again dev will be hurt. Her response that if she would have known that suhana was with sonakshi then she would have never done that is ABSOLUTELY WRONG.
With or without Sonakshi she should have let her meet Dev or at least informed Dev.
The problem with Ishwari is that she never learns. Just to protect Dev, she lies, take decisions on his behalf and even see him suffering like hell, but still she never learns.
N sometimes i feel, either you have to lash her badly or be careful with her around. Like don't believe her talks, talk directly to the person concerned etc etc. N with Dev i can see that regarding Soha. He is done with Ishwari as far as Sona is concerned bcz he know she will never learn, but with Soha he will be firm.
The underlined point is that SHE NEVER LEARNS. See, i understand Ishwari, but its just that i don't want to empathise with her anymore. Bas. I really hope makers show a proper and gradual redemption of her character bcz she cannot change in one day.
Ps- It feels so good to talk about the second most unpopular character of the show 😲
Kya din aa gye hai.
Edited by cscs - 8 years ago