Scapegoat -CVs right ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Who says dev is getting punished for others mistake?

Its his mistakes that he is getting punished for...

He himself let his god to control his life...now the duffer should suffer

But i agree sona should have kept calling kept coming to dixit house everyday and get insulted so that she is accepted by family some day for giving their waaris...

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Seriously trust issues are more towards dev rather than sona .

Why should sona trust dev ???

In what way has dev done good to her .

The other day ishwari lied that sona marrying jatin but sona proved that ishwari lied he saw face to face how she lied and still doesn't trust sona she had to prove him with air tickets wah u ppl amaze me with u logic

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Seriously trust issues are more towards dev rather than sona .

Why should sona trust dev ???

In what way has dev done good to her .

The other day ishwari lied that sona marrying jatin but sona proved that ishwari lied he saw face to face how she lied and still doesn't trust sona she had to prove him with air tickets wah u ppl amaze me with u logic

Originally posted by: yyy

Today I felt Ishwari was made a scapegoat by CVs .I know there is lot of dislike for Ishwari and I totally get it but can we really blame her for what she did ..,

Did CVs try to cash on the hate viewers have for Ishwari ..this scene definitely looks forced .Not a planned one in my opinion ...

Not only CVs even we in life tend to find scapegoats when we choose to..

Just take a look at the posts in our forum and you will see what I mean. ...

If CVs are to blame for the butchering of Ishwari's character, then CVs have a hatred for every character in this serial... We tend to forget that the story is theirs... no one character is without fault... audience have not spared the brick bat for any of the characters... so singling out by saying that CVs are cashing on our hatred does not hold much water...

Let's see from her PoV ...she had seen her son suffer because of breakup and was recovering a bit because of Golu then she sees his ex wife come back. .From her PoV she feels they should be away from each other for their good so she restricts Sonakshi from contacting Dev .I could only see a over possessive concerned mother dear not a manipulative mother .Was she really aware that Sonakshi came here for introducing Soha to them ? Is it fair to blame her completely and punish her for entire life for one mistake which she was not aware of .

Why? Do you think she has to make a decision for Dev? Why should she be the person deciding whom Dev should meet and not meet? Isn't Dev incapable of making the right decision in his life? Why do we allow others for that matter even close family members the right to make decisions for us? Unless asked for opinion, parents should let their children make their own decisions. If she had given him the right upbringing, had taught him the right thinks in life, what is she fearing? Why is there a need for her to interfere in every matter? Isn't Dev an adult and successful businessman? Why is Ish making all the decisions for him?

In this instance, if we find Ishwari right why aren't we using the same yardstick for Bijoy? Why do we complain if we see him interfering in Sona's life?

What we are trying to say here is had Ish known Sona had come back with her grandchild, she would have granted her entry? I find this argument very, very amusing.

Over possessiveness is a disease and is injurious to their loved ones. This can never be used as an excuse. Over possessiveness leads to obsession and controlling behaviour. These are also tendencies of a psychopath. So if Ish is over possessive no relationship can thrive. She has to agree for every relationship Dev makes and when she finds that other relationship is taking prominence, she would have an issue with it.

Can I dare say that Sonakshi had a role too .. I agree any women would be humiliated when she is asked not to enter and I feel for her but again her agenda was not to go back to the home but to introduce her daughter to his father for her daughter's sake ... ..why didn't she try to contact Dev again when she knew Dev was not aware of Soha's existence (the first scene after leap confirms ) .Unlike Dev all along she knew how Dixit family was and also she knew Dev's attachment for kids .Why didn't she trust her husband and let others control their life ...atleast she could have let him know when he was dying ..Dev had a point when he said he would have died without knowing about his daughter.Was it right to punish him for others mistake just because they happened to be his relatives ...did her insecurity play a role too as she had numerous opportunity to let Dev know after she came to Mumbai

Pray tell me why Sona should make a second attempt? How much can one cow down when the other party is not even willing to listen? I guess we are missing the point here. It is not sona who has allowed others to control her life. She is taking care of her life and business very well. It is Dev who is rudderless.. he comes across as a very unstable man who is only influenced by his mother. So this point does not hold much water. If we expect Sona to give a second chance to Dev, Sona could have the same expectations too. No girl with dignity would visit her in-laws after being shown the door unceremoniously. We should thank Sona and her great upbringing for putting aside her so called "ego" to return to that mad house with her toddler. In my opinion to expect her to reach out to Dev is ludicrous

I know many won't agree but among the three I felt more for Dev because unknowingly both the women let him down ...one in the name of protecting him .

Both women let him down? In what sense? Do you think he has been perfect? Do you think he did not let his mom down by lying to her? Do you think he did not let Sona down by lying to her? or is it when a man lies he is trying to balance the situation thus its perfectly alright?

P.S This is just my POV if you don't agree I completely understand but if you want to get personal then I would like to add thanks for your time but not interested in fighting with you guys so I will not be responding to your post but feel free to post .