My story:a real life experience - Page 8

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Posted: 8 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: Samzz

No words to express👏👏 I just heard about phoenixes now I am seeing one.

And one thing which I wanted to tell all those people who tell lying low is cowardice..its just the silence of a tiger who is ready to pounce and roar..


Wow...Thanx a ton😃..Some of the replies here brought tears to my eyes..Yours was one of them...It is indeed wonderful to see the support I am getting..Thanx again😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -allizwell-

Total respect and admiration for u dear🤗


Thank u dear😃🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: aadk

Thank you Rock for sharing this story of yours! I know what it must have taken to be penning this down!

You are the finest example of unearthing one's dormant strength and then building oneself piece by piece. To be able to create one's own oasis when thrown into a desert is a hard hard thing to do! Kudos to your strength and that selfless love that you carry in your heart for your son! May your son grow up to be all that had ever wished to see in a man! :)


Thank u soo very much🤗🤗This is indeed overwhelming and I can't begin to explain how much these wonderful encouraging words mean to me.Support and encouragement help us women fight half our battles and increases our inner strength.We women folk just need to watch each other's backs always.

Thanks a ton again😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for sharing your story with us. You indeed is a strong women. Good luck . 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mera dil bohot zoron se dhadak raha hai... mujhe dar sa lag raha hai... strange.
My elder sister had also gone through all this.But unki life mein reason was her mil.(Krpkab )
Though my Jijaji never hit her or may be didi ne humein bataya Na ho.
I don't know what to say.
U are also a strong woman like my sister. 👏
I can actually feel your pain , frustration.
But today my sister is happy with her sons .MIL bhi theek ho gayee hain as now Meri di ke Naam par large property hai that too in Delhi.Toh kisko himmat hai CP ko Kuch kahne ki.
Money matters this much hum logon ko ab pata Chala.

Stay blessed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: Raatri

👏👏👏...i guess this is enough about you!...

I m happy to read your story...! not sad...because inspirational stories share happiness and not sadness...!.
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Thanks a ton dear ..Yes,I don't want anyone to view my experience as a sad one.I myself think of it as my biggest learning in life..A lesson and learning that no school or college could have ever given me...I am just stronger and a better person now after the experience😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepakloveskat

U r such a strong lady n glad u stood up for urself.. But one question if u don't mind! Y don't u go for divorce with such a guy. Ur son Is old now n will. Understand... Don't ever take abuse from someone.. N to all d. Fans all these. Manhandling is not cool what it is shown on TV. It is wrong at every level


Thank u for ur support and kind words😊
My son is 13 now and will definitely understand if I tell him that I don't want to stay with my hubby...but I believe that the point is not about whether he will understand or accept my decision,it is about what he wants.I don't want him to make a compromise because I want something..As a mother,I believe that it is my duty and responsibility to make some small adjustments if he wants something..If he tells me that he doesn't want to be here..or if I feel that being with my husband is proving detrimental to him,then I will surely leave...😊
As for the physical abuse,as I already mentioned,it is almost gone now..I have experienced one incident over the last 13 years...(after my son was born)..The other forms of abuse(emotional,verbal etc )have little impact on me...I don't believe that he can be verbally or emotionally abuse me without my consent..ie,he can say what he says,but if I am strong enough,I will be above his stupid and petty remarks...I just let barking dogs lie

I always recall my favourite quote here"Don't wrestle with a pig,u both get dirty and the pig loves it"...I realise that my husband wants a verbal or emotional duel with me,if I give him that pleasure we will both get affected,but my husband will love it..So I refuse to give him that pleasure..I refuse to enter into petty duels with him
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Anitha, I really don't have words to express what I feel now. You are truly an inspiration. Not because of what you endured but the outlook towards life that you possess despite those. Take a bow lady.

" Courage is the resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence of fear"
Mark Twain.





Thank u dear Geena😃🤗Now,that is a lovely thing to say and a very inspiring quotations..I am going to add it to my list of favourite inspirational quotes😃😳😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: lucky_princess

Ma Sha Allah!
My heart almost clenched reading ur story. Still can't believe all that happened to you.
The sacrifices u have done.. the pain u have gone through has no limit.
Anyways...life has ups and downs. I am glad and really happy and thankful to the almighty for what u r today. Hats off to u girl.👏👏

Emerging strong as ever is not a cup of tea for everyone after all those abuses. I really admire ur strength courage and guts. 👏👏

Children r the one of the best things that can happen to a woman. And I can see that he is the reason of ur strength. Will always pray that your bond should always stay strong.

Hope ur dad is doing well. Take care... and be happy always.😊
U deserve a hug for the courage u have shown..the way u have fought ur life. 🤗. Proud to be a girl...when women like u r there.

Love Sharmi ❤️


Thank u very much🤗🤗It is indeed overwhelming to see this kind of response to my post..Never imagined that people would react this way..I did not see my story as something so hugely inspirational at all till today...Children,indeed are the source of strength for most parents

Thanks again🤗

PS:My dad passed away around 10 years back...He passed away a year after my son was born..May his soul RIP😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashakd

A big Hug Anita, I cannot say I understand what you are going through, rather went through, but you definitely have inspired many with your confession. I salute you for your endurance..

I actually believe that God lets us go through something only when he knows we can handle it. He knew you could be his greatest soldier. So he trusted you with his toughest battles. Your son will surely turn out to be a better father. God Bless you.


Thank u so much for ur love and good wishes.It is indeed very encouraging 😊

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