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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bravo African queen. Ive said this on some post as well. Vandana doesnt have to like maya. Its not by force. Vandana have lived around saanj, knows her good quality and she knows how much saanj care for her family. What does she know about maya...nothing except she was abused. Usually if your mother in law doesnt like you, an you know it. Then you should try to make her like you.
But maya never tried. Vandana isn't a bad parent. She just goes overboard with tradition. She may not be arjun real mother, but she did a lot just by raising him an giving him the love he needs. She wants whats best for him, which is a plus as well. For a step mom, she never differentiate her kids or show favouritism. Thats why arjun grew up with so much love.

First impression is always important, why because parents will never forget it. Vandana became a mama bear seeing that glass break. Her fear hightens more when the priest talk about maya love. Even i don't agree with her confronting them an dragging arjun. But other then that shes not wrong.

I absolutely love the compareson between the chess games. What better way to say it. When saanj drags arjun to maya , she made the call silencing vandana. When she challenge maya by telling her to come out or she will marry arjun. She knew what button to push her to come out. And she did. When she was leaving an arjun begs her not to go, she was in control of him unknowingly. All this time shes the one letting arjun make her weak, but she doesnt know she has the power to make him bend on his knee.

Everyone saw how he panicked when she wanted to go to singapore. Lets not forget what he told her. Saanj may not use manipulation to win the game, but if she think rarionally. She might actually become a good opponent for maya. I will get my fingures cross.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel


SELFLESS?? this is where i stand ... ( its an old post so his recent shenanigans aren't added )

anni i really don't know where you stand but he had nothing to begin with before he was letting go ...

what did he know about her before falling in love ... do you suspect the person you claim to love for pushing your mother down the stairs when they said they didn't ... he knew little about her but he was in love ..

no one wanted to listen to vv ... she said let go but he didn't want to and that reverse marriage crap ... was bullshit ...

he willing participates in questionable activities and we are all expected to say yes he is selfless but the cvs wont stop reminding us ...😕i say no to that ...😡

what scrap .?


Whoa. I didn't know he accused Vividha of pushing Suman down the stairs. 😲 I didn't even know Suman had fallen down the stairs.

I honestly do not know in so much detail about what each and every character has done and is going to do. It was a very outsider kind of an opinion, I just catch some episodes(more like mostly Vitharv scenes where he's in there for some bits) here and there or read some posts on them (mostly whispa and reemz's). So, I cannot be certain about my opinion, thus.

Oh, I meant I scrapped CaputDraconis to check her scrap. 😆
Edited by .annihilation. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelk1

Bravo African queen. Ive said this on some post as well. Vandana doesnt have to like maya. Its not by force. Vandana have lived around saanj, knows her good quality and she knows how much saanj care for her family. What does she know about maya...nothing except she was abused. Usually if your mother in law doesnt like you, an you know it. Then you should try to make her like you.

And if you don't want to make her like w, then that's your problem... It's a two way street... And nine have tried to move forward...

But maya never tried. Vandana isn't a bad parent. She just goes overboard with tradition. She may not be arjun real mother, but she did a lot just by raising him an giving him the love he needs. She wants whats best for him, which is a plus as well. For a step mom, she never differentiate her kids or show favouritism. Thats why arjun grew up with so much love.

Arjun is her son, no less no more than ayaan...she has always wanted what's best for them but as a parent she too... Makes mistakes...

First impression is always important, why because parents will never forget it. Vandana became a mama bear seeing that glass break. Her fear hightens more when the priest talk about maya love. Even i don't agree with her confronting them an dragging arjun. But other then that shes not wrong.

Her first impression of Maya wasn't good... And every time she had some thing good to go on... Something else would happen making good that first impression seems like the only one... Yes 100% she is in mama Bear mode... And to her, her cube is still in danger... Whether the danger she sees is there or not is the question, whether her way of handling it is right or wrong is also the question...


I absolutely love the compareson between the chess games. What better way to say it. When saanj drags arjun to maya , she made the call silencing vandana. When she challenge may by telling her to come out or she will marry arjun. She knew what button to push her to come out. And she did. When she was leaving an arjun begs her not to go, she was in control of him unknowingly. All this time shes the one letting arjun make her weak, but she doesnt know she has the power to make him bend on his knee.


👏👏You said it better than me... She has the power... And she doesn't really realised what power she has... I think when she does that's when the fun begins... Will she stay in line of falter and fall as it goes to her head...

Everyone saw how he panicked when she wanted to go to singapore. Lets not forget what he told her. Saanj may not use manipulation to win the game, but if she think rarionally. She might actually become a good opponent for maya. I will get my fingures cross.


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She can become an opponent, she just has to realise she is in a game... And it's not for the faint of heart...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .annihilation.


Whoa. I didn't know he accused Vividha of pushing Suman down the stairs. 😲 I didn't even know Suman had fallen down the stairs.

I honestly do not know in so much detail about what each and every character has done and is going to do. It was a very outsider kind of an opinion, I just catch some episodes(more like mostly Vitharv scenes where he's in there for some bits) here and there or read some posts on them (mostly whispa and reemz's). So, I cannot be certain about my opinion, thus.

Oh, I meant I scrapped CaputDraconis to check her scrap. 😆

oh okay .. and jnndsd is stressful at the moment ...

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