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1st please forgive the different sizes my phone is being an asshole and I don't have the patients nor energy to figure out why... 😡😡
I missed this craziness called a Fandom... Anyone missed me??
Okay I have lots to say but highlights...
V...
The problem with this Fandom is that everyone wants to be right...
Well I say all of you are wrong...
Why? let me state why...
We all know V... she is that person, that will call fire fighters for a kitchen flame...
She is a panic freak...
Do you know what I like about V and what. Most of you hate about her... Her instincts... She is that one person on this show who you give a second thought to when she says something...
She is that person, when she says something on this show it's always a good idea to analyze it... But I also hate this about her...
Guess what it's V's business, it's her son and her fear is not without base, you can not say that if it was Saanjh then she would have ignored, well it isn't Saanjh...
I have a question why should she like Maya? , why? ...if you can't stand Saanjh why should she like Maya? ... But she is trying... she was giving Maya a chance, but Ashwin seems to not want Maya be to be happy...
There is no rule that says she HAS to like Maya, what does V know about Maya? what had all her small experiences said about the girl her son is going to marry? ...
Don't say V should have made an effort in knowing Maya, what about Maya making that effort...
It's has nothing to do with Maya and everything to do with the fact that she already has her choice saanjh... I've made this post before, why should she bother liking someone else when she too like you and me already think we have the perfect choice...
It will take alot more than 7 days for V to even bother about Maya... Stop expecting so much of this woman...
She is scared shit less and this are all her believes... She has no time to think and is handling it how she sees fit... What I love about this track is that with all her cokuuness she goes to Saanjh, the one person that might maybe see pass the fact that this are all fears with little proof... Her son loves Maya and things might not turn out that way...
At the same time what she is asking to be done, is yes thoughtless and harsh... How can she ask for a wedding to be stopped in such a way (assuming she wants to stop the wedding publicly ) that is a horrible thing to do, it is heartless and insensitive...
I tell you now, if you have a problem tell me before, tell me even in front of church, tell me the night before... If you f**king tell me I DON'T in the vows I WILL f**kING KILL YOU...
That goes to all those who come to object... DEAR V IF YOU PULL SUCH SHIT AT MY WEDDING THERE WILL BE A FUNERAL... tell me before... Tell me in private...
The problem is that this Fandom refuses to see the other side... You only want to see V is wrong so to victimize others... The moment you can look at both sides talk to me...
Let me tell an analogy...
Let's say person A suspects person B of treason... And person B wants to marry person A's son... The problem is if the treason is found out person B and person A's son will be put to death...
But all person A has is a gut feeling, little glimpse that can be interpreted anyway and warnings from "God" (or representatives of God) and also hear say from person B's father with visuals ... Person A does not know up from down left from right and is completely lost, but they are sure something is not right... It could just be a misunderstanding and the fact that person A is not thinking objectively...
But then we as the audience know person A is on the right track... Her info might be only 30% right and we know only 50% of the truth...
Another fact is, these warnings are a gamble fithy fithy... And person A would rather not gamble with her son's life...
So she decides to act and state her disagreement... What is wrong in that especially when we know where there is smoke there is fire...
The problem is how she decides to state her disagreement...
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And every time I hear vandana should be greatful as an argument regarding her not wanting Arya I just... ROTFL come on there's a difference between being greatful, and forsaking your believes and inner most fears, plus what you believe to be ur son's life for "gratefulness" focking seriously???
Whether arjun stopped being an asshole to V or not she would have still stuck her nose in all this shit...
This is who this woman is... I already made a post on arjun accepting his mom...
I loved today's episode... For ONE reason it fell into a theory I have been having... And no not because of the heart warning things but because of the strategic genius that happened...
I get that every one was annoyed, either because you wanted saanjh to stay at home eat Ice cream and listen to "all by myself"... Because you wanted her to let go... For her to stand her ground and keep away from arjun... For her to let go, but you were disappointed ...
Or
You are disappointed in the cvs NO not angry and sending unnecessary hatred at saanjh because she is that unimportant characters who wasn't suppose to exist...
But disappointment as an Arya fan... As a fan who wanted this to be about your couple, as a fan who has waited for it...
It's like you know a specific day is your day and you plan for it and it arrives , it's that day in your life you get recognition and praise but when it comes you have a surprise party and then in the middle of your party some body very famous and important appears and the focus shifts to them, just at that moment they where making good amazing speeches for you ... And everyone just tells this person to lead and that person to blow YOUR candles with you... But it's your birthday and you don't mind them there but you would have preferred they don't steal your THUNDER...
That's what saanjh did, that's what the CVS made saanjh do, she came in and saved the day by doing damage control and became the hero but then, you would have preferred, more of Arya since it's their wedding and that's why your hopes are up... That I understand... the disappointment and anger at CVS but not the hatred and ugly words at saanhj...
I understand the anger at arjun for his dailogue today... What the f**k did he mean by
"this marriage means nothing in front of her"
3 focking (auto correct won't let me use a u) seconds after marrying Maya... This is arjun's problem he does know how to handle relationships... And this is saajun's problem... I have always said these two are soul mates... Symbiotic at their best abs parasitic at their worst...
That conversation wouldn't have been so eerie if it wasn't for the fact that everyone knows saanjh loves a arjun... And arjuns NEED for Saanjh isn't helping ... That scene caused some questions...
Today I know where Maya was coming from... After what she just witnessed there was no way she would not get married, her desperation was justified... And with Maya's extremes the fire thing was expected...
But for a person who wants to make V like her putting that woman's sons' life in danger all for your love in front of her own eyes wasn't a smart move... Maya you are just adding spice into the already cooking soup In V's mind... And the little smirk ... Was stupid...
The little evil smiles she is giving V are NOT helping... Maya enjoys the fear she evokes In Vandana by the way I see her name is now "bandana" interesting...
The way arjun freely gives his life will scare any mother... If your child does not see the danger that's why he / she has a mother...
To me this last vow was not something you say to someone you love... If. You are far it becomes a noose? That alone screams DANGER... You do not love somebody in one sentence and then
Threathen same sentence... Especially as a marriage vow... An sorry but f**k NO...
That is not a healthy love...
now to why I loved this episode... First let me talk about what I think is my first symbolism... Even after tying her dupatta to Arya she walks away... She doesn't go back to untie herself she cuts loose and walks away...
God I was so proud of my princess, who is finally growing strong... Bit by bit... Dusky you are getting there... She isn't that selfless to still be there, but arjun was selfish enough to Want to keep her there...
I recently had this epiphany... CHESS...
I was thinking to myself during the secret letter sending, I always suspected Maya... Not because she was evil or blah blah blah, but because Maya is the dummer in my Saanjh and Maya, dumb and dummer combo...
Why? because while saanjh was stupid to fall for it, Maya was stupidest for setting the trap... I aM 100% sure it will come back to bite her in the ass... Maya is setting traps for her self masterful traps thinking it's for saanhj but she too will end up in them... But Maya baby never realizes this she only sees the present not the far future...
This all brought me in some thoughts it's like a complicated chess board game... Maya and Ashwin were queens, as queens, they have the control... They have all the moves a queen can move however when ever they want... While everyone is just whatever else...
Maya has the control, Ashwin did too... V too maybe had the control...
And as a queen on a chess board you can do WHAT EVER YOU WANT...
But here's the funny thing , saanjh isn't a pon she is a king...
She is that important person... Every one wants to use her to get to the finish line which has something to do with arjun...
I really don't know what the final price is...
Ashwin wanted to use saanjh to get to arjun who now owned the company...
Vandana wants to use saanjh to stop Arya...
Maya is using saanjh to break up duffer and dusky...
Every thing every one wants to do ends up with saanjh ...
This girl might not have the control or strategy but she has the power... The power being GIVEN to her by all this people who want to control her... She doesn't realize she has it, or even how to use it but she does and most of all she has the power of arjun...
Saanjh is being put into situations where if she knew what to do she would be more powerful than those who use her because of her place, to get to arjun, to get to their hearts desires...
The reason for finally writing this is the wedding...
Saanhj for once didn't take control she took the power all this individuals unwittingly gave her...
She had the power to give V her desired bahu or try to, but she didn't... She had the power to create chaos like Maya fears but she didn't she had the power to unite Arya and she did...
And with saanhj Vandana couldn't say no... Vandana stepped forward... She had that power to make V step forward...
Saanjh is the useless king who sits there to be either protected or sort out by the enemy... But if she is gone, then game over... If she moves even just one step it makes an impact a huge impact like today's episode...
So now I saw a question that made me f**king laugh...
"why did saanhj go to the wedding"
Well off the top of my head
- It's her best friend's wedding (just this is good enough but I have more)
- Maybe she wanted to... As we all know she was thinking arjun will ask..
- She was bored at home
- Maybe she got too hungry and remembered there is a wedding with free food
- Maybe that's where her family is
- Maybe it is better to be lonely in a crowd
- Maybe maybe maybe... Just f**king maybe she finally realized like always she is up arjun's ass and fails to see its all pointless... She realized she is the only captain of the best friends ship and decided again to put aside her little bit of dignity left and go to her friend's wedding...
- Maybe she came Because she was afraid Vandana will do something crazy and she was the only person to put some sense in that mother's head...
I said dignity not ego for a reason... People go around claiming she is egotistical she wanted arjun to beg her for the wedding blah blah blah...
Excuse me the shit arjun told this girl in that fight... If I were she I would have slaped him so hard, he wouldn't be able to count to ten without getting a concussion... Idiot...
But still saanjh the stupid doesn't get the message... The ball was in arjun's cot...
I mean she made his haldi and henna for his wedding if that wasn't a peace offering / olive branch then I don't know what to f**king say...
To me after these two things even though i wanted to slap her and be like have respect that guy said some nasty things...
I understood this was the duffer and dusky relationship... She did all the work... She takes the first step... And even after that arjun STILL expected her to come and beg... Since the fight as her so called best friend what had he done... Other than sit and cry dusky is egotistical... f**king yes she is, she should be... But you are more so than her arjun...
People say her ego wanted him to come and plead I say her dignity wanted an APOLOGY... That is when she remembers she is suppose to have one...
I love how she knew Maya wouldn't let her near arjun and the minute Maya heard saanhj bitch got into action...
Now let me explain my title... Fashionably late is what saanjh did... When you are late no one notices, but when you are fashionably late you create an impact...
Am sorry for the long post , it's a couple of post put together, for the first person to read this please tell me if I should make it into two post...
Forgive my mistakes autocorrect is on a mission...
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