Vandana always overreacts - Page 2

Originally posted by: sellysona

Absolutely isha..
Omens just depend on our way of viewing it.
There is so much contrast in human society beliefs that we can easily question superstitions. For eg in christian white is auspicious and in wedding brides wear white whereas acc to hindu beliefs the very same colour represnts mourning. White is wore whn anyone dies and evn lady whose husband dies are supposed to wear white..
It all depends on how anyone views it.
What is written in fate will happen anyhow. No one can predict it nor can stop it.
Beliefs are good but supersititions spoils it..
You knw why i gave this colour white example. Because i have seen it happening in my family. Last yr in may my cousin passed away due to wrong medication given by doctors. His wife, my bhabhi was already in grief and sadness. But our neighbourhood womens started commenting that this incident happened because bhabhi usually wore white colour suits. Thy said she wore white and didnt respected her suhag so thr husband passed away.
Trust me, i havent heard anythng more ridicuolus thn this evr beofre. I commentd this same christian wedding example to one of thm and thier reply was that I am aajkl ki padhi likhi grl so wont understand culture..
Tell me anyone, is this really possible for a man to pass away bcoz his wife likes to wear white colour.


There are many who perform evry ritual properly and still divorce and many who do court marriages and stay happy..
Kundlis cant predict future. If it was possible thn pandits would knw what is gonna happen to thm and would save themselves from any grief or bad incident. But pandit too get affected by fate same way as others.

Originally posted by: kayinat

I dont know why every1 comparing maya's situation to saanjh's as there is big difference in marriage problem and life problem...in maya arjun kundli pandit told vandana this marriage may cost arjun's life and how can any1 expect from a mother to not to interfere in marriage to stop it...come on guys she is a mother think from her point of you and stop thinking just about favourite couple or character

Originally posted by: NAUCholic

Well from a mother's pov, can't blame her.

Though this entire thing about this kundalis and shizz is irritating and regressive. Yaar if you want to make Maya a vamp then effin make her without this kundali shizz. Same goes for Saanjh. Usko bhi vamp banana hai toh make her the effing vamp without this kundali thing. Prophecies sirf Harry Potter aur Star Wars mein acchi lagti hai.

But since they have shown Vandana as a person who believes in these stuffs, it is natural that she'd be worried about her son if she hears such stuff.

Though if I'd be Vandana, I'd chill because the very same Pandit who said- that Maya would go beyhadh and harm arjun, also says that this shaadi is in their kismat and will happen no matter what and Arjun will stand up for himself when the time comes. So when the same pandit says that nothing is there that I could do, I'd rather chill. :P

Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely

Today again she chose to believe a man who is known to be unreliable. Even if she doesn't want to believe what Maya revealed about him, I'm sure she knows about the incidents taking place at the office. Subconsciously, she doesn't want Maya as her daughter in-law, and is willing to do anything to stop the wedding. This, despite her claims that she wants to see Arjun happy. She is relying on ONE line of the Pandit and some 'inauspicious' events as proof, hence it is an overreaction.