Vandana always overreacts

Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely

How come she is such a huge believer in inauspicious signs and astrology?

I know many people who are very traditional but I am sure that even they would not have such an extreme reaction to mehendi wiping off and the like.

Or is this party because she still wants Saanjh as her daughter in law?

I'm sure if kundali issues had arisen with Saanjh or her mehendi had come off, Vandana would be consoling Saanjh and telling her to forget about it.

Originally posted by: angelk1

I don't think she overreacting. She just very traditional. She's the type that takes it seriously. I can understand that because my dad side is the same way. My dad side of the family have a tradition where the bride side of the family have to carry a vase full of dowry , wrapped in white sheets on their head. they have to choose one person to carry it for the bride. If the vase breaks, it's a bad oma and the wedding is cancel. When my sister got married, her vase broke, but she still went through the wedding. A year later she was divorce, I asked her what happen an she said he abused her.

So I understand where vandana is coming from. She's not doing this because she wants to break them up. If she did, she wouldn't have accepted the wedding in general. But when the fake pandiji said everything was good, she was happy. She helped on the wedding, she worried for Maya when arjun came back from seeing her in yesterday eps. She danced with them and let Maya take her blessing. Her actions not wrong, she's just a worried parent. Besides not every mother have to like their son or daughter spouse .

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

If the same thing was there in Saanjh's case what she would have done? That is what we are talking about.

Originally posted by: angelk1

Whats up with you guys comparing saanj an maya. If its not their life or love its vandana feelings. We dont know if she would have still accept saanj if that was the case. We can assume, we wont know until she actually say something to maya about it.

Originally posted by: ishakumar

We are saying that vandana treats Saanjh and Maya differently
She is clearly partial towards Saanjh
If the same thing had happened with Saanjh she would have not made such a big issue
And I think omens are your own personal choice
In some cultures glass breaking is good luck while in others it's bad luck
It's your perception that matters ;)
Something that was meant to happen would happen whether there be an Omen involved or not
Some people's wedding rituals go very beautifully but they still end up getting divorced ;)
You can't control your fate, and an Omen certainly not tell you your destiny is what I believe ;)

Originally posted by: sellysona

Absolutely isha..
Omens just depend on our way of viewing it.
There is so much contrast in human society beliefs that we can easily question superstitions. For eg in christian white is auspicious and in wedding brides wear white whereas acc to hindu beliefs the very same colour represnts mourning. White is wore whn anyone dies and evn lady whose husband dies are supposed to wear white..
It all depends on how anyone views it.
What is written in fate will happen anyhow. No one can predict it nor can stop it.
Beliefs are good but supersititions spoils it..
You knw why i gave this colour white example. Because i have seen it happening in my family. Last yr in may my cousin passed away due to wrong medication given by doctors. His wife, my bhabhi was already in grief and sadness. But our neighbourhood womens started commenting that this incident happened because bhabhi usually wore white colour suits. Thy said she wore white and didnt respected her suhag so thr husband passed away.
Trust me, i havent heard anythng more ridicuolus thn this evr beofre. I commentd this same christian wedding example to one of thm and thier reply was that I am aajkl ki padhi likhi grl so wont understand culture..
Tell me anyone, is this really possible for a man to pass away bcoz his wife likes to wear white colour.


There are many who perform evry ritual properly and still divorce and many who do court marriages and stay happy..
Kundlis cant predict future. If it was possible thn pandits would knw what is gonna happen to thm and would save themselves from any grief or bad incident. But pandit too get affected by fate same way as others.